In Genesis 2, we read about how God uniquely created men and women. Those differences can loom so large at times that it is almost as if the sexes are from entirely different planets. In this program, Chip explains how couples can bridge the gap between each other to communicate effectively, understand each other’s needs, and navigate challenges together. Discover how to have a thriving, God-honoring relationship with your spouse.

Foundational Marriage Truths

Foundational truth #4 (for men):

• I will choose to LOVE my wife today in a SPECIFIC and SACRIFICIAL way that is meaningful to her. She is God’s gift to me and I will CHERISH her just as Christ loves His bride, the Church.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:28-29

Foundational truth #5 (for women):

• I will choose to ENCOURAGE and RESPECT my husband today in a specific and sacrificial way that is meaningful to him. He is God’s gift to me and I will BUILD HIM UP with my words and actions for the glory of Christ.

Key verse:

• Proverbs 31:10-12

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Every marriage experiences conflict, tragedies, and adversity. The question is: will you and your spouse allow those hardships to be deal-breakers or heart-makers in your relationship? In this program, Chip dispels the illusion that marriage is a care-free journey, without bumps in the road. He reveals that–contrary to popular belief–challenges and suffering are not signs of trouble in your marriage, but an opportunity to deepen your intimacy with your mate.

Introduction:

• Marriage is an UNCONDITIONAL commitment to an IMPERFECT person.

Review:

Foundational Truth #1:

• You can’t live this life without the supernatural power of God, so following Jesus personally is the number one priority.

Foundational Truth #2:

• You must choose to love your mate whether you feel like it or not.

Foundational Marriage Truths

Foundational Truth #3:

• We will have ongoing challenges with communication, sex, finances, parenting, and extended family. These issues are not “DEAL BREAKERS,” they are “HEART MAKERS” as we learn to listen, understand, and follow God’s path.

Key verse:

• James 1:2-5

Foundational Truth #6:

• I will not consider a divorce as an OPTION and I will never threaten my spouse with divorce. I have made a holy and binding COVENANT before God to let nothing undermine our LIFELONG commitment.

Key verse:

• Matthew 19:6-9

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There is no shortage of great podcasts, popular books, and helpful resources to help you strengthen your marriage. But in this program, Chip explains that there’s one simple discipline that, if you commit to it, you will transform your relationship. Listen in to learn what this fundamental habit is and the steps you can follow to make it a daily priority in your life.

Introduction:

God’s original design:

• Marriage was created as a sacred stewardship to reflect the unity and love of the Trinity.

Satan’s agenda:

• To destroy or pervert marriage by telling lies that make it self-centered

Foundational Marriage Truths

Foundational truth #1:

• In my own strength, I am INCAPABLE of being the husband of wife God calls me to be. Therefore, my first priority for a successful marriage is my own vibrant DAILY walk with God. By His Word and His Spirit in community with fellow believers God will give me ALL I need to become a loving and godly husband or wife.

Key verses:

• 2 Peter 1:3-4
• Galatians 2:20

The BIO Acronym:

• B: Before God Daily
• I: In community
• O: On mission

Foundational truth #2:

• I will CHOOSE to love my mate by God’s power and grace in all circumstances. Love is giving another person what they NEED the most, when they DESERVE it the least, at great PERSONAL COST.

Key verse:

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a

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In the Book of Proverbs, King Solomon reminds us that “life and death are in the power of the tongue.” So it should come as no surprise that how we use our words really matters, especially when we talk to and about our spouse. In this program, Chip helps us better guard what comes out of our mouths and how we can repair past wounds we have created with careless or harsh comments. Discover how to cultivate a more loving and supportive environment with your mate.

Introduction:

• Have you ever wondered why a little comment can cause such a big argument with your spouse?

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #14 (for women):

• My husband’s attitude makes no sense to me. He gets so upset when I make even the smallest comment in front of others about something he did wrong.

The truth:

• Husbands fear FUTILITY, the sense that they don’t measure up. That’s why my AFFIRMATION, refusing to CRITICIZE publicly, and PHYSICAL intimacy build up his confidence.

Key verse:

• Philippians 2:3-4

Lie #15 (for men):

• My wife’s attitude makes no sense to me. If I joke about her gaining weight or take notice of other women, she comes unglued.

The truth:

• Women fear ABANDONMENT, of losing the relationship. That’s why saying “I LOVE you,” being a good LISTENER, and showing AFFECTION in public build up her sense of belonging.

Key verse:

• Philippians 2:3-4

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There has been a dramatic shift in the family dynamic over the last 50 to 60 years. Back then, men typically went to work to earn money, while women managed the house and cared for the kids. In this program, Chip Ingram raises a few vital questions: how does this traditional structure compare to the realities of how families function now? And what does the Bible have to say about the roles men and women play in their households? Join us for those profound answers!

Introduction:

“Relationships just don’t work well when the man neglects to take the lead when he should, neglects to make decisions at home, and fails to be proactive in his involvement with his family.” -“Passive Men, Wild Women” by Pierre Mornell

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #12 (for men):

• Husbands are to earn the money and wives are to take care of the kids and the house.

The truth:

• As a husband, I am the SERVANT LEADER in our home. I am responsible to provide for and protect my family’s physical, spiritual, and emotional needs, as I MODEL Jesus every day.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:1-2

Lie #13 (for women):

• My husband is almost like another child I have to take care of. If I didn’t handle our finances, the house, our children, and major decisions, this place would fall apart tomorrow.

The truth:

• When I take care of everything myself, I’m actually usurping my husband’s GOD-GIVEN role. Until I STOP taking care of everything, my husband will never step up and lead.

Key verse:

• Proverbs 3:5-6

Breaking the cycle

• Women: Refuse to do things that are your spouse’s job
• Men: Step up and own the responsibility

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In this program, Chip stresses the devastating impact unresolved conflict has on a marriage.

Every marriage will eventually face struggles and arguments over four key areas:

1. Roles
2. In-laws
3. Money
4. Sex

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #9:

• Getting help for our marriage from a counselor or a mentor is for losers. We should be able to figure this out on our own, and besides, we don’t want to broadcast our problems.

The truth:

• Every great athlete, artist, and business executive knows the value of a COACH. We all get stuck on occasion and need help to work through the issues we can’t see for ourselves.

Key verse:

• 1 Peter 5:5

Lie #10 (for women):

• All he cares about is work and sports. I feel like I’m left to do all the work of raising our kids and taking care of our home. I wonder sometimes if he even cares.

The truth:

• Men default to areas where they feel confident. Your husband has fears and insecurities about being a SPIRITUAL LEADER and EFFECTIVE FATHER. Criticism and disrespect will heighten those fears and push him away.

Key verse:

• 1 Peter 3:1-2

Lie #11 (for men):

• All my wife cares about is the kids and the calendar. Our sex life is on life support because she’s always tired or making excuses. Sometimes I wonder if she even cares.

The truth:

• Women default to areas where they feel confident. Your wife has fears and insecurities about her VALUE, IDENTITY, and physical ATTRACTIVENESS. Sarcasm about sex, her looks, or her preoccupation with the kids will only reinforce her feelings of inadequacy.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:28-29

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When tackling an important project, it is natural to want to divide all the tasks fairly, so everyone shares the responsibilities and weight of the job. However, in this program, Chip Ingram cautions that while that strategy may be successful in the workplace, it often causes stress, burnout, and resentment at home. Hear what God’s Word says about an all-in partnership with your spouse, that is deeply rewarding and life-giving.

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #6:

• Marriage is a 50-50 proposition. As long as everyone does their part everything will be okay.

The truth:

• Marriage is a 100%-100% proposition. It is an UNCONDITIONAL commitment to an imperfect person. It’s giving the other person what they need the MOST, when they DESERVE it the least, at great PERSONAL COST.

Key verse:

• John 13:34-35

Lie #7:

• Marriage shouldn’t be this difficult. No matter how hard I work it seems like we always have issues to work through. I really wonder if it’s worth it.

The truth:

• Everything of great value requires COMMITMENT, SACRIFICE, and PERSEVERANCE. As my spouse and I face challenges and overcome them, our intimacy and joy will far outweigh our present problems.

Key verse:

• Galatians 6:9

Lie #8:

• I’ve tried hard to make this marriage work, but it’s too far gone. God wants me to be happy and I know He’ll understand if I get a divorce.

The truth:

• God HATES divorce. No marriage is beyond repair. If Jesus can raise the dead, He can certainly RESURRECT my marriage.

Key verse:

• Malachi 2:16

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In this program, hear what the research reveals about cohabitation and long-term relationships, and why this sacred covenant is so much more than just a simple piece of paper.

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #3:

• Marriage is merely a man-made set of rules and restrictions. I can tailor my marriage however I want to fit my needs.

The truth:

• Marriage is an institution created by God. He designed it with specific guidelines and roles to provide SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, and PHYSICAL intimacy as a family’s foundation.

Key verse:

• Genesis 2:24-25

Lie #4 (for men):

• Until my wife shows me the respect and physical affection that I need, she shouldn’t expect me to step up and lead my family God’s way.

The truth:

• It is tempting to wait for my wife to do her part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the HUSBAND God wants me to be.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:25

Lie #5 (for women):

• Until my husband takes the initiative in the financial, emotional, and spiritual aspects of our relationship, he shouldn’t expect me to show him the respect and affection God calls me to as a wife.

The truth:

• It is tempting to wait for my husband to do his part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the WIFE God wants me to be.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 5:22-24

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Has a selfish act or a hurtful comment from your spouse caused you to think, “I thought they loved me?” or “Did I make a mistake marrying this person?” In this program, Chip Ingram confronts these common yet dangerous misbeliefs with powerful truth from Scripture. Better understand the relational fallout of this lie and the practical ways to eliminate these harmful thoughts from your mind when they arise.

Introduction: Among evangelical couples, what does the research actually say are the biggest issues in their life?”

1. Marriage struggles
2. Parenting in a secular culture

Fighting lies with truth

Lie #1:

• When I finally meet “the right person,” everything will work out fine.

The truth:

• Marrying the right person is CRUCIAL, but even with the greatest mate, a successful marriage requires following GOD’S DESIGN, putting in the hard work, persevering through difficulties, and relying on the Holy Spirit.

Key verse:

• Hebrews 10:36

Lie #2:

• When I experience disappointment, annoyance, and anger toward my spouse, that means I’m “falling out of love” and I may have married the wrong person.

The truth:

• CONFLICT and NEGATIVE emotions are not only normal, they are essential to learning to COMMUNICATE and forgive each other in the process of becoming one.

Key verse:

• Ephesians 4:32

Don’t buy the LIES. Do it GOD’S WAY.

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The Apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians that a Christian’s battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of darkness. Join us as Chip exposes powerful lies that have misled believers for centuries and are undermining the institution of marriage.

The command: Walk differently

• Walking worthy of your CALLING -Ephesians 4:1, 17
• Walking in LOVE, like Christ -Ephesians 5:2
• Walking as children of LIGHT -Ephesians 5:8
• Walking not as unwise, but as WISE -Ephesians 5:15

How?

• By letting your relationship with God—with Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit—be the one central, most important thing that focuses your mind around the truth of how to live. -Ephesians 5:15-20
• By applying the instructions for the Spirit-filled life to the family structure. -Ephesians 5:21-6:4

The ultimate context:

• The armor of God is detailed immediately after family instructions to frame the family as a primary spiritual battlefield for fighting lies. -Ephesians 6:10-18

Fighting for your family

• Identify lies and understand where they come from and what they do.
• Understand that lies make it impossible for children to grow up in a safe, stable, supportive environment where they feel valued, encouraged, and supported.
• Recognize that the most dangerous lies are the ones that you believe to the point where you think it’s good.

The family as a witness

• Few things will be more important to show the world the love of Christ than marriages that reflect Jesus and His Church.
• Our mission: To show the world that there is hope by identifying lies in our families and culture, and building Spirit-powered homes that glorify God.

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