How to Raise an Emotionally Agile Child
With Frances Easterbrook
This is Podcast 1 in a series of 3 podcasts
Podcast one explores what emotional agility is and why, in this Age of Uncertainty, it is now a necessity to raise an emotionally agile child.
Frances defines emotional agility as having the following five attributes:
1. Having an ability to notice, name, and process all emotions – pleasant and unpleasant ones.
2. Self-awareness about what contexts/events/people are triggering – and having strategies to deal with these.
3. Self-awareness of what brings out the best in one self. Having self-awareness about what/where/who/how helps create an inner sense of peace.
4. Having strategies to return to one’s inner sense of peace, when events have moved one away from this space.
5. Continually developing, through awareness, an ever-growing window of tolerance to cope with challenges and change, with calmness and confidence.
The podcast gently enquires into the difference between raising a resilient child and raising a child with emotional agility. It is acknowledged that there is an overlap.
This podcast explores how emotional agility empowers children: to develop self-awareness of their emotions, insight into pleasant and unpleasant emotions and insight into experiences that are triggering. From there, the emotionally agile child is also offered a tool box of strategies to re-set themselves back to their safe place of inner peace.
Children’s brains are being moulded and shaped within these unrelenting stressful times that are affecting us all.
Anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues have shown an unprecedented rise amongst our young people,in New Zealand and globally, in the past 5 years. General statistics shows us that 1 in 5 children at primary school age will suffer with at least one significant mental health issue. The figures change to 1 in 3 for students at college.
Offering children, a program that teaches Emotional Agility, will provide them with the skills and tools required for mental health stability, which in turn, will empower children to be able to focus, learn, make friends and thrive in this turbulent world.