Lily Sanders' life experiences, adversity, talent, sense of humor, and intense compassion has gifted her a purpose to write, influence, and coach others. All types of addictive abuse behaviors can be helped by Lily's advice to the abused victim. Her purpose is to become a light for others that burns up the nonsense in life. Her message is one of love and not fear. Lily talks about her mission in life in this 48-minute interview. We discussed that important question "Who am I?"