Fresh Perspective

Fresh Perspective

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Fresh Perspective episodes

  • Personal Growth in 50 Quick Questions: 41 - 45

    This 50-question journey is a great tool to help you figure out:

    • the current state of your life
  • how you want your life to unfold
  • what is currently in the way of you realising that life
  • what you need to do to get past those obstacles and live a life you love.
  • This isn't a quick-fix ten-step program that promises impossibly easy results. Some questions will have obvious answers, while others might seem obvious at first but end up revealing things you weren't aware of. And if you really commit to this process, some questions will keep you awake at night, and the answers you uncover will give you a fresh perspective on your life. The more you put into this process, the more you'll get out of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

     

    These aren't questions you regularly have to answer, so take your time with them, reflect on them, and write your answers down. It will really help.

     

    I hope you enjoy the journey, and as always, you're welcome to book a free consultation call if you would like to explore the possibility of working with me:

    https://calendly.com/francoisesterhuizen/consultationcall.

    Book your place on the next Clarity Quest!

    https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/clarity-quest

    You can also learn how to crack the conflict code and more by clicking here:

    https://relationshipsandpersonalgrowth.com/courses

    9 min
  • Personal Growth in 50 Quick Questions: 36 - 40

    This 50-question journey is a great tool to help you figure out:

    • the current state of your life
  • how you want your life to unfold
  • what is currently in the way of you realising that life
  • what you need to do to get past those obstacles and live a life you love.
  • This isn't a quick-fix ten-step program that promises impossibly easy results. Some questions will have obvious answers, while others might seem obvious at first but end up revealing things you weren't aware of. And if you really commit to this process, some questions will keep you awake at night, and the answers you uncover will give you a fresh perspective on your life. The more you put into this process, the more you'll get out of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    These aren't questions you regularly have to answer, so take your time with them, reflect on them, and write your answers down. It will really help.

    I hope you enjoy the journey, and as always, you're welcome to book a free consultation call if you would like to explore the possibility of working with me:

    https://calendly.com/francoisesterhuizen/consultationcall.

    Book your place on the next Clarity Quest!

    https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/clarity-quest

    You can also learn how to crack the conflict code and more by clicking here:

    https://relationshipsandpersonalgrowth.com/courses

    9 min
  • Personal Growth in 50 Quick Questions: 31 - 35

    This 50-question journey is a great tool to help you figure out:

    • the current state of your life
  • how you want your life to unfold
  • what is currently in the way of you realising that life
  • what you need to do to get past those obstacles and live a life you love.
  • This isn't a quick-fix ten-step program that promises impossibly easy results. Some questions will have obvious answers, while others might seem obvious at first but end up revealing things you weren't aware of. And if you really commit to this process, some questions will keep you awake at night, and the answers you uncover will give you a fresh perspective on your life. The more you put into this process, the more you'll get out of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    These aren't questions you regularly have to answer, so take your time with them, reflect on them, and write your answers down. It will really help.

    I hope you enjoy the journey, and as always, you're welcome to book a free consultation call if you would like to explore the possibility of working with me:

    https://calendly.com/francoisesterhuizen/consultationcall.

    Book your place on the next Clarity Quest!

    https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/clarity-quest

    You can also learn how to crack the conflict code and more by clicking here:

    https://relationshipsandpersonalgrowth.com/courses

    10 min
  • #34 Career Clarity in 50 Questions: 1 - 5

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    This 50-question journey is a great tool to help you figure out:

    • the current state of your life
  • how you want your life to unfold
  • what is currently in the way of you realising that life
  • what you need to do to get past those obstacles and live a life you love.
  •  

    This isn't a quick-fix ten-step program that promises impossibly easy results. Some questions will have obvious answers, while others might seem obvious at first but end up revealing things you weren't aware of. And if you really commit to this process, some questions will keep you awake at night, and the answers you uncover will give you a fresh perspective on your life. The more you put into this process, the more you'll get out of it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

     

    These aren't questions you regularly have to answer, so take your time with them, reflect on them, and write your answers down. It will really help.

     

    I hope you enjoy the journey, and as always, you're welcome to book a free consultation call if you would like to explore the possibility of working with me:

    https://calendly.com/francoisesterhuizen/consultationcall.

    Book your place on the next Clarity Quest!

    https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/clarity-quest

    You can also learn how to crack the conflict code and more by clicking here:

    https://relationshipsandpersonalgrowth.com/courses

     

    11 min
  • #33 SEX - with Marilet Kotzé

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    In this episode, I have an entertaining conversation with Marilet Kotzé, a sex therapist & Imago counsellor about all things spicy and sexy, including:

    • the origins of some of the most common issues couples have around sex
  • the importance of couples communicating with each other about sex, and what these conversations can be about
  • reasons why more and more marriages are not monogamous anymore and engage in activities like swinging
  • a description of the balance that a marriage should have between being a safe space and being a sexy space
  • what it looks like to shake off the boundaries regarding sex that has been programmed into us since childhood
  • books that can help people learn skills to have good sex
  • is pornography a good or a bad thing?
  • I hope you enjoy this fascinating conversation.

    Until next time.

    Much love, Francois

     

    Remember: Change your perspective and you can transform your life!

     

    1 hr 7 min
  • #32 HIGH-PERFORMANCE LIVING - with Andri Stander

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    In this episode, Andri Stander (former manager at the Western Province Institute of Rugby) shares the journey his career has taken him on so far and how it has taught him three simple principles that form the recipe for high-performance living. He shares these principles freely. The conversation also touches on aspects like:

    - How athletes are set up for success outside of the sports arena during their career as athletes

    - Why being talented is not the determining factor for high performance living

    - Why you should not see your career as your destination

    - Why getting a degree is not an achievement that will set you free

    - The personal development he experienced while doing network marketing for a season

    - How to be effective in getting things done

    - The power of being purpose-driven.

     

    Dig in and discover secrets to bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be.

    Until next time.

    Much love, Francois

     

    Remember: Change your perspective and you can transform your life!

    1 hr 13 min
  • #31 MATING IN CAPTIVITY - with Dewaldt De Kock

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    (Trigger Warning: A discussion about sexual abuse)


    In this episode, I had an intriguing conversation with pastor and couples counsellor, Dewaldt de Kock. We talked about the challenges people face in relationships and aspects of having a healthy sex life. Here are some of the main points we touched on:

    • The Mating in Captivity series that Dewaldt and his wife hosted for couples struggling during the lockdown, and what it was all about
  • What can stir sexual attraction to your spouse after you've been married several years
  • What a sexual tasting menu is, and why you can benefit from making use of it in your relationship
  • A story about how sexuality can be reclaimed
  • How much time and attention to dedicate only to your children
  • Why people have affairs and what can be done to repair damaged relationships
  • How to treat the sacred space that is shared in a relationship
  • Why it's important to understand your spouse's "back story"
  • Tips on how to cherish your spouse
  • What the ECCT approach is, and why it is a valuable way of interacting with your spouse
  • You're in for some great stuff here! Enjoy it.

     

    Until next time.

     

    Much love,

    Francois


    Remember: Change your perspective and you can transform your life!

    42 min
  • #30 HOW CONSTRAINTS HELP OUR CREATIVITY - with Dian Wessels

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    In this podcast, I talk to visual communication designer Dian Wessels about what he does, and we explore the topic of being creative and finding your own creative voice.

     

    Here are some of the key talking points of the conversation: 

    • What a graphic designer does
  • What UI and UX design is and the hidden principles used to do successful designs
  • Why we need constraints to express our creativity
  • Advice for people who think they are not creative
  • An approach you can take to find your creative voice
  • How to plan for being creative
  • The difference between developing a skill and expressing your creativity
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    I hope you enjoy it

     

    Until next time.

     

    Much love,

    Francois


    Remember: Change your perspective and you can transform your life!

    1 hr 2 min
  • #29 STRATEGIES FOR BRILLIANT DECISION-MAKING - with Andre Le Roux

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    #31 André le Roux - STRATEGIES FOR BRILLIANT DECISION-MAKING

     

    In today’s podcast, I speak with the business strategist André le Roux. He helps businesses increase their chances of achieving success, and shares some valuable ideas that are applicable not only to business, but also to life:

     

    • How to develop better decision-making skills
  • What emotional decision-making is, why we do it, and how to stress-test a decision or strategy in life
  • Why knowing who you are is critically important, and how to go about figuring it out
  • Five strategic questions to ask yourself in life
  • Three basic principles for making better decisions
  • 1 hr 7 min
  • #28 LEARNING WITHOUT LIMITS - with Corneels Schabort

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    Corneels Schabort and I have known each other since our university years, and I interviewed this vibrant friend of mine to share his infectious love for teaching with a wider audience.

     

    Among other things, we discussed:

    • Why Corneels loves teaching
  • How love for a subject field can be born
  • What helped Corneels sharpen his teaching skills
  • Why having mentor(s) is important
  • What makes a good teacher
  • The dynamics of a teacher’s style of teaching and a learner’s way of learning
  • The responsibility of a teacher in caring for students
  • What self-directed learning is, and why it’s important
  • Why it’s important to be able to critically evaluate information and why this is a scarce skill
  • Why it’s important about being honest with yourself about your mindset regarding learning
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    I hope you enjoy it!

     

    Until next time.

    1 hr 1 min

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