Friendings

Sabina shares: I have mixed feelings about this friending, where my ultimate decision to let the friendship go gives me pause to consider exactly what kind of friend I am and what we owe each other once a friendship has run its course. Themes include mum friends, post-natal struggles, divorce, expectations, boundaries.

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Show art by NZ artist John Lancashire a.k.a. monday.painter

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Guest share: Friendings welcomes its first podcast guest who shares about a breakup with a best friend from her 20’s. There are a host of factors at play in this friending that point to the many challenges friendships seem to be faced with in these modern times. Themes include sexuality and heteronormative expectations, supporting versus enabling, feeling excluded, sustaining a friendship through changing lifestyles.

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Show art by NZ artist John Lancashire a.k.a. monday.painter

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Sabina shares: Today we look at some philosophical thought relating the sorts of things we tend to base our friendships on and how that may impact how we process friendship loss. Sparked by an episode on ABC’s Philosopher’s Zone podcast that discusses how the philosophers Aristotle and Mary Astell considered friendship. Themes include aspects such as utility, pleasure and self-development that can define our friendships, and recognising chemistry with potential new friends.

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Show art by NZ artist John Lancashire a.k.a. monday.painter

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Sabina shares: Welcome to my first 'friending' (friendship ending) share. I tell the story of a friendship – its highs and lows – and how it came to an end. In the almost five years since, I’ve thought a lot about what unfolded between us in the end and, with time, I think I’ve gained a fuller perspective on what was going on for me at the time and also what may have been going on for her. Themes include post natal challenges, feeling out of alignment with a friend, boundaries, holding stuff in until you finally explode.

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Show art by NZ artist John Lancashire a.k.a. monday.painter

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Hello and welcome to Friendings, a show that makes it okay to talk about friendships that have ended and the loss we often feel as a result. Let's reflect, learn and heal together.

Get in touch via Instagram at friendings.show

Show art by NZ artist John Lancashire a.k.a. monday.painter

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