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This week on a very spooky episode of Friendless, your pal James gives you a rundown of what he's been up to this October, including his sobriety journey and starting a new poetry account (@heysorryimissedyou).

Then he answers all your Halloween questions! From how he'd survive a Jason Vourhees attack, to his preferred weapon in a zombie apocalypse, and if he'd rather have sex with a ghost or an alien, all your spine tingling questions will be answered!

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This week on a very special episode of Friendless, your pal James chats with Gavin Mac. They discuss the pitfalls of having straight friends, how to deal with demanding friends (and whether or not you are one), how autistism shows love, and what we talk about when we talk about mental health. 

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In this episode of Friendless, host James Avramenko welcomes special guest Anton DeGroot, a lighting designer and central character in James' novel. 

Join them as they delve into the fascinating world of becoming a fictional character and explore the profound impact of art on interpretations of love. They also discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating career changes in one's thirties. 

Anton shares captivating stories of his adventures through Europe, including the effects of travel on the body and mind. They explore the concept of expertise versus being an "unexpert," delving into the desire to surround oneself with like-minded individuals. 

They reflect on the importance of finding the right community and team in the theater industry, highlighting the comforting and sometimes detrimental buddy system. 

 Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as they navigate the intricacies of community, self-reflection, and the power of connection.

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Welcome to another episode of Friendless, where we delve into the complexities of human connection and the pursuit of creative fulfillment. 

In this episode, our host James Avramenko is joined by the talented artist, Eddie Torres. Eddie opens up about the pressure to constantly create content for the algorithm, feeling trapped on a hamster wheel that kills creativity. They share their fascination with exploring the world of kink and dom/sub relationships, inspired by a beautiful display of Shabari they came across on Instagram.

But Eddie's journey as an artist is not without its challenges and self-doubt. They discuss the shame and embarrassment they feel about being a poet, fearing the judgment and failure that may come with identifying as such. Eddie reflects on their early experiences studying advertising and communications in Brazil, and how it led them to pursue a second degree in fashion design, ultimately embracing their identity as an artist.

Loneliness and isolation are recurring themes in Eddie's life, and they candidly discuss the difficulties of making and maintaining friendships, especially during the pandemic. They wonder how others find solace in long-distance relationships and explore the power dynamics at play in the audition room and the need for artists to surround themselves with those in different mediums to avoid unhealthy competition.

Throughout the conversation, James and Eddie navigate these topics with sensitivity and curiosity, reminding us of the importance of secure connections and celebrating the joy of others.

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In this very special episode of Friendless, host James Avramenko welcomes the incredibly talented Rachael Alexandre, a fearless artist with an insatiable curiosity for the world. 

Brace yourself as Rachael opens up about their experiences battling anxiety on set, and candidly shares their journey in the theatrical realm, detailing their love for the world of theater that blossomed during high school productions. 

Discover how their passion for technical theater and behind-the-scenes drama merged into an unstoppable force. Uncover the raw vulnerability that often accompanies impostor syndrome and how it shapes their perception of self-development and growth. Amidst tales of resilience, Rachael reflects on their experiences and struggles, and the unwavering support they received from unexpected sources during those challenging times. Prepare to be inspired as Rachael's passion shines through, not only in their artistic endeavors but also in their unwavering dedication to the queer community. Gain insight into the transformative power of honesty and authenticity, as Rachel exposes the beauty and support within the community, as well as the darker challenges that exist.

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Fun and Safety sweeties!

Welcome to a very special episode of "Friendless" with your host James Avramenko. 

In this episode, James takes a moment to reflect on the passing of time and the lessons learned along the way. As we age, we have the opportunity to live more, creating new experiences and memories. But when we were young, all we wanted was fun and to avoid pain or discomfort. However, James dives into the idea that experiencing pain and suffering can actually enrich our lives and shape us into the individuals we become. Join James as he explores the beauty of imperfections, focusing on how they make us interesting rather than striving for perfection. He draws inspiration from nature, highlighting how the uniqueness and asymmetry found in things like trees can teach us valuable lessons. But it's not just about personal growth. He urges listeners to lean into the new age and try new things. On a more personal note, James recounts a recent ritual developed around conversations he had with his inner child, addressing his accomplishments and experiences in life. He touches on the emotional baggage he carries from his childhood and how he's working through it, finding solace in having chats with himself. Throughout the episode, James reflects on the incredible guests he's had on the show, including writers, creators, and professionals he greatly admires. He expresses his gratitude for connecting with people all over the world and hearing their stories. As the episode comes to a close, James reveals exciting plans for the show's future, including new segments and topics to delve deeper into. Listeners can expect thought-provoking discussions on neurodivergent experiences, creative practices, attachment styles, and more. So, join James Avramenko on this illuminating and introspective journey in the latest episode of "Friendless" - because sometimes, the most important conversation you can have is with yourself.

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This week on a very special episode of Friendless, your pal James unfriends painter Corey Hardeman. They discuss the cost of art, capitalism murdering creativity, and the Blood God that rules us all.

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• In this episode of "Friendless," host James Avramenko delves deep into the topic of overcoming the fear of intimacy, a challenge that many of us can relate to.
• The fear of intimacy can manifest differently for each person, whether it stems from past experiences, vulnerability, or a fear of rejection. However, it can serve as a significant barrier to forming the deep and meaningful connections we desire.
• James emphasises the importance of cultivating self-awareness as the first step in overcoming this fear. Taking the time to reflect on personal fears and insecurities and understanding the underlying beliefs or experiences that contribute to the fear of intimacy is crucial.
• The podcast explores the concept of self-compassion, reminding listeners that we're all human and it's natural to have fears and vulnerabilities. Treating oneself with kindness and understanding is essential on this journey of growth.
• The episode provides actionable strategies for opening up and overcoming the fear of intimacy. These include challenging beliefs about intimacy and relationships, starting small by gradually opening up to trusted friends or loved ones, and seeking professional guidance through therapy or counselling.
• James emphasises that overcoming the fear of intimacy is a journey that requires patience and self-kindness. Vulnerability, though challenging, opens the door to deeper connections and authentic relationships.
• Additional strategies discussed in the episode include practicing self-reflection and journaling, building trust gradually, embracing vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness, and practicing active listening to deepen connections.
• The episode concludes by encouraging listeners to reflect on their own journey and share their thoughts and experiences on the podcast website or social media. James reminds everyone that they have the power to break free from the fear of intimacy and cultivate the deep connections they crave.
• Tune in to this Lil' Guy episode of "Friendless" to gain valuable insights and practical strategies for overcoming the fear of intimacy, ultimately fostering authentic and meaningful relationships.

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This week on a very special Friendless, your pal James Avramenko unfriends musician, author, and Renaissance Queer, Hank Pine. They talk all about iterating on creative impulses, the hell that is editing, how many Robins Batman has had, and so much more!

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Hey there sweet peas! Welcome to a very special episode of Friendless, next exciting chapter of James' new novel "Out of Town", Chapter 7 "I hope Bret actually likes me and isn't just being nice to not hurt my feelings"

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