Day 9 April Intentional Healing
Thoughts
If you have constant negative thoughts, here is what might be helpful
Your thoughts are saying something. Do not just ignore them. Or dwell on them for toi long. Balance is key.
Acknowledge your thoughts, deal with them and release them.
Learn self-parenting.
Sit the with the thoughts.
Articulate the actual trigger question. What is the story from these thoughts? How are they making you feel?
What might be worsening the impact of these thoughts?
Explore accompanying sensations, images and feelings. Thoughts are not alone.
What are these thoughts "saying?"
Do you need to solve something? A problem in your life that they are repeating?
Create solutions. What steps can you take to resolve this situation?
Apply reframes. What thoughts can you apply to replace these?
Start a self-care routine.
Journal, then like a child remind yourself when they keep coming up that you have things in hand.
Intentionally apply the solutions you created.
Practice detachment, meditation, the vuu, deep brething, exercise, and other grounding exercises.
Activity today
Gratitude for emotional regulation
Start self-care with SIFTSEM.
Morning
Gratitude , meditation, deep breathing, Carthartic shake, affirmations, self-hugs, tapping, cathartic shake and setting an intention.
Throughout the day Mindfulness
Segment intending
Boundaries
Less complaining
Laughter
Forgiveness.
Kindness
Healthy eating
Exercise
SIFTSEM
Night
Bed time reflection
What can you improve, learn from your day.
Welcome to SIFTSEM
Siftem number. Date 08/04/2022
Evaluation of last SIFTSEM
Letting go of guilt and writing a reflection.
Intention of the week
Significance or accomplishments of the day:
Intention for the day :
Self-care needs met: Gratitude. Meditation. Affirmations. Deep breathing. Vision Board. Catharsis. Exercise. Socialise. Boundaries. Journal. Random Kindness.
1.Pause and take 15 deep breaths.
2.Distress temperature from 0 (calm) to 10 (very distressed)
3.Trigger
4.Pre-triggers
Old.
History .
Recent triggers
List self-care today?
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Root cause- One to 5 whys. Up to 3 quite useful
Why to your key issue or dominant thoughts=A
Why to answer to A = B
Why to answer to B= C
Why to answer to C= D
Why to answer to D =E
E & X = Root cause = Unmet need
10.Meeting needs.
Immediate solutions:
5 love languages and 5 senses : hugs, rocking, calming oils, gratitude, affirmations, thought replacement and role reversal
Intermediate Solution.
Love on three levels
Self-care
Second level
Third level
Long-term Solutions.
Distress temperature
Evaluation on intention and developmental needs
SIFTSEM TOOL- Sensations, Images, Feelings, Thoughts, Soothing, Endorphin Release, and Meeting Unmet Needs.: A solution focused emotional-regulation and cognitive restructuring tool for triggers. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08TQCYC7G/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_XXRY91QWKMGGNXE0ESMX
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The SIFTSEM Journal: The self-healer`s diary to develop emotional awareness and self-management in 90 days. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B09CRNQDML/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_i_1PF00S8YF973TEBW4SXT
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