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Learn to play well with others for successful romance
Are you the person you want to date, to be in relationship with and to spend the rest of your life with?
It is a challenge to expect to meet a healthy partner, when you do not have healthy behaviours and attitudes. Your partner ends up carrying the heavy load in the relationship.
Look into how you are showing up on three levels
On the first level
How do you look after yourself?
Your needs?
Your boundaries?
Your habits?
Your attitude towards you first?
On the second level
How do you treat your immediate circle?
Your partner?
Communication?
Conflict resolution?
Boundaries?
Do you maintain your values or do you target people who you deem to be weak and lash out at them.
On the third level
Do you have a purpose?
How do you treat those who only have to offer you a glance,
A smile,
Encounters?
When you go out on dates with a partner, what do they see?
Judgementalism, criticism, superiority, openness, inferiority, appreciation?
While we all love a great partner, it is worth recognising that how we show up is pivotal to our relationship outcomes. That we ourselves need to be as great as what we are seeking!
How we behave and play with others matters.
The bottom line being, you are going to be in a relationship with another human being. Therefore your training ground is in relationships with other human beings.
Learn to play well with others!