Friends Missing Friends

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  • 20. How a Death Changes your Priorities

    Grief can completely rearrange your priorities. It can be a sudden, vicious reveal of the most barren parts of your life, leaving you feeling naked and foolish; whose life was I even living? Why have I been spending my energy painstakingly building this ludicrous tower of cards?

    Have you ever felt that way? That’s how I felt in the days, weeks, and months after my friend’s death, and I talk about it in today’s episode.

     

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    6 min
  • 19. BONUS: Living with Conviction "deleted scenes"

    Enjoy this bonus episode of cut material – or “deleted scenes” as I like to call them – from today’s interview!

     In this episode, Toby Dorr and I discuss:

    • Lisa's children, and the generational trauma after an execution
    • the state of prisons in the United States (hint: it's bad)
    • how to support someone who's in jail or prison
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      Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

      10 min
    • 18. Living with Conviction (interview)

      About today’s guest, Toby Dorr: Toby Dorr is a bestselling author and the founder of Unleashed where she inspires women to escape their emotional prisons and find purpose. She has been featured on Dateline, Inside Edition, Lifetime, Anderson Cooper, and The Atlantic magazine. Her writing has appeared in: Newsweek, Today, Authority Magazine, USA Wire, and Huffington Post. Her first book LIVING WITH CONVICTION was released in 2022.

      To learn more about Toby Dorr and her memoir LIVING WITH CONVICTION, visit her website here: https://tobydorr.com

       

      On today’s episode, my Toby and I discuss:

      • Toby’s friendships during her time in prison
      • Toby’s friend Lisa, who was executed by lethal injection in 2021
      • How prison strips you bare to who you really are
      • Toby’s memoir LIVING WITH CONVICTION, which is all about the unexpected sisterhood she discovered while in prison
      • Finding personal freedom behind bars
      •  Get in touch:

        Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

        31 min
      • 17. The Immediate Aftermath of a Loss

        On today’s episode, I read from an excerpt I wrote about the dark and tumultuous moments, hours, and days after I found out my friend had passed

        away.

        If you’re experiencing the aftermath of a loss, or are going through a hard time, I want you to know that I’m sending you love. And if you or anyone you know is going through crisis, you can reach out for confidential support at https://988lifeline.org/, or by dialing 988.

         

        Get in touch:

        Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

        6 min
      • 16. BONUS: The Tapestry of Female Friendships "Deleted Scenes"

        Enjoy this bonus episode of cut material – or “deleted scenes” as I like to call them – from today’s interview!

         

        In this bonus episode, Jaymie and I discuss:

        • Loneliness and belonging
        • The lattice pie of friendships
        • How to ask a friend for what you need
        • How to support a friend
        •  

          Get in touch:

          Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so

          appreciated! You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

          12 min
        • 15. The Tapestry of Female Friendships (interview)

          On today’s episode, my friend Jaymie and I discuss:

          • What the term “best friend” means to us
          • The idea of friendships being a tapestry throughout
          • our life
          • Grieving the ends of friendships and the seasons
          • of life
          • How the world often tells us our love and our
          • emotions is “too” much
          • How to support your friends when they go through
          • dark times
          • Our happiest memories with our friends

          • Additional Resources:

            This episode does bring up the topic of suicide. If you or anyone you know is going through crisis, you can reach out for confidential support at https://988lifeline.org/, or by dialing 988.


            Get in touch:

            Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so

            appreciated! You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

            34 min
          • 14. You are NOT overreacting

            On today’s episode, I talk about:

            · How no matter how strong, deep, and vicious your grief is, you are NOT overreacting

            · How we often discount the depth of our sadness (and love)

            · Megan Devine’s book IT’S OK THAT YOU’RE NOT OK


            Additional Resources:

            To Learn more about Megan Devine and buy her book IT’S OK THAT YOU’RE NOT OK,

            go here: https://refugeingrief.com/book/


            Get in touch:

            Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated!

            You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

            7 min
          • 13. BONUS: Grief is the other side of Love "deleted scenes"

            Enjoy this bonus episode of cut material – or “deleted scenes” as I like to call them – from today’s interview!

            In this episode, Robin and I discuss:

            · How you bring your value to your group of friends, but your value is not defined by the group

            · The guttural experience of releasing her father as he died


            Get in touch:

            Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated!

            You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

            7 min
          • 12. Grief is the Other Side of Love (interview)

            About today’s guest, Robin Pollak: Robin is a Speech Pathologist with over 30 years experience. She became an intuitive Life Coach after quickly realizing the way these magical gifts contributed to her work with speech clients. Robin has earned multiple certifications in coaching techniques, including Neuro-Linguistic Programming, which strengthened her ability to widen her practice to include coaching adults. Robin taps into intuitive gifts to work with her clients to guide them to discover and learn to use their own inner wisdom. She collaborates with them to find the key to unlock where they are stuck, often by showing them the abundance in their lives that is available at any time. This guides them to create and live a life filled with what they want to feel fulfilled. Robin Pollak is a master at helping her clients rediscover parts of themselves that got tucked away. Her ability to understand how patterns repeat in our lies that are not serving them are actually here to teach them where the growth should begin. Robin’s 1:1 coaching will help anyone move past judgment and begin to create empowered change.  

            Learn more about Robin here: https://www.robinspollak.com/

            Read about Robin’s book TRUST YOUR INTUITION here: https://trustyourintuitionbook.com/

             

            On today’s episode, Robin and I discuss:

            • The more you know about grief, the more you know
            • about life
            • Losing an entire friend-group after the death of
            • a friend
            • How our identities can be enmeshed with our friend-groups
            • How the experiences and connections we had never
            • die
            • Keeping our memories alive
            • The expansiveness of love
            •  

              Get in touch:

              Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated! 

               

              You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

              27 min
            • 11. Jealousy

              Is it normal to feel jealous? Yes. I talk about how intertwined with grief jealousy can be, and how much I've experienced it after the death of my friend. 

              Get in touch:

              Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated!

              You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

              5 min

            About Friends Missing Friends

            From the publisher's feed

            Host Hannah Rumsey talks with those who have experienced the death of friends, grief experts, and more, to normalize the complex grief of losing a friend in a world that often doesn’t understand.…