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What happens when your child needs heart surgery, but the operation keeps getting postponed? How do you navigate a complex healthcare system while still supporting other families going through similar struggles? Candice Swartland takes us deep into this reality from Cape Town, South Africa.

Candice's journey began when her son Riley was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot shortly after birth—despite monthly ultrasounds during pregnancy that detected nothing wrong. Through three open-heart surgeries and the constant waiting for a fourth, Candice discovered strength she never knew she had. "Despite whatever you are going through," she shares, "you and your family and your kid with heart disease, you are still there for the next heart parent."

The striking differences between CHD care in South Africa versus more developed nations become clear as Candice describes the waiting game for surgeries, where emergency cases repeatedly push Riley's procedure further down the list. Yet amidst these challenges, something beautiful emerges: a global community of heart families connected by shared experiences that transcend borders.

Perhaps most inspiring is how Riley defied medical expectations. Doctors predicted he would never attend a normal school, yet today he's a top student in his class. Even more remarkable, both Riley and another heart warrior have become advocates themselves, running awareness programs at their school.

This conversation reveals the universal truths of the CHD journey: the fear, the faith that sustains us, and the power of community. As Candice powerfully states, "Your child is my child. Together, we are one." Her words remind us that whether in South Africa or anywhere else in the world, heart families share a profound connection that makes us stronger together.

Links discussed in the episode:

The Cure Gala: https://www.buildingthecure.org/events

Brave Little Hearts South Africa: https://www.facebook.com/BraveLittleHeartsSA

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