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What happens when a tiny heart warrior inspires a movement of love and advocacy? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Haley Graham, whose daughter Emberly Dawn was born with multiple heart defects, including a rare Taussig-Bing anomaly. Haley takes us through the emotional journey from that first concerning ultrasound to the founding of Embers of Love, a nonprofit that's changing lives across Manitoba.

Haley shares the raw truth of those early days—the quiet car ride home after receiving concerning news at her 41-week ultrasound, being flown from Winnipeg to Edmonton for emergency treatment just days after Emberly's birth, and the month spent in a hotel across from the children's hospital. Her story captures both the inherent isolation of receiving a CHD diagnosis and the profound community support that emerged to sustain them.

The name "Embers of Love" came from a touching observation made during Emberly's hospital stay—that this tiny baby somehow "spreads embers of love to everyone she meets." What began with handmade keychains and candles has blossomed into a significant advocacy organization that's participated in over 35 initiatives since 2023. From donating sound machines to the NICU to organizing craft kits for Heart Camp campers, Haley shows how personal experience can transform into meaningful community action.

Most moving is Haley's reflection on how Amberlee has become "the flame to our family fire," completely shifting their perspective on what matters in life. Her story reminds us that even in our most vulnerable moments, we can find purpose, create lasting change, and spread those precious embers of love to others walking similar paths.

Ready to get involved in supporting the CHD community? Visit www.heartsunitetheglobe.com to learn how you can join our volunteer team and make a difference in the lives of heart warriors and their families.

Links:

Embers of Love: https://www.embersoflove.ca/

World’s smallest pacemaker story: https://tinyurl.com/TinyPmaker

Fascinating article about the history of the Taussig-Bing Anomaly. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2801930/

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What happens when your child needs heart surgery, but the operation keeps getting postponed? How do you navigate a complex healthcare system while still supporting other families going through similar struggles? Candice Swartland takes us deep into this reality from Cape Town, South Africa.

Candice's journey began when her son Riley was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot shortly after birth—despite monthly ultrasounds during pregnancy that detected nothing wrong. Through three open-heart surgeries and the constant waiting for a fourth, Candice discovered strength she never knew she had. "Despite whatever you are going through," she shares, "you and your family and your kid with heart disease, you are still there for the next heart parent."

The striking differences between CHD care in South Africa versus more developed nations become clear as Candice describes the waiting game for surgeries, where emergency cases repeatedly push Riley's procedure further down the list. Yet amidst these challenges, something beautiful emerges: a global community of heart families connected by shared experiences that transcend borders.

Perhaps most inspiring is how Riley defied medical expectations. Doctors predicted he would never attend a normal school, yet today he's a top student in his class. Even more remarkable, both Riley and another heart warrior have become advocates themselves, running awareness programs at their school.

This conversation reveals the universal truths of the CHD journey: the fear, the faith that sustains us, and the power of community. As Candice powerfully states, "Your child is my child. Together, we are one." Her words remind us that whether in South Africa or anywhere else in the world, heart families share a profound connection that makes us stronger together.

Links discussed in the episode:

The Cure Gala: https://www.buildingthecure.org/events

Brave Little Hearts South Africa: https://www.facebook.com/BraveLittleHeartsSA

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Monique Kemp's world turned upside down when her unborn son was diagnosed with an interrupted aortic arch at seven months of pregnancy. What followed was a harrowing journey through six open-heart surgeries, months of hospitalization, and the birth of something unexpected – a powerful vision for supporting other families facing similar challenges.

From those early days sitting beside her newborn's hospital bed to founding Heart of Hope-Cape Town, Monique shares with raw honesty how she transformed her personal pain into purpose. Her support group, now running for 12 years, fills a critical gap she identified during those long hospital stays – medical staff trained to heal bodies, not necessarily to hold space for parents' emotional trauma.

The conversation takes a dramatic turn when Monique reveals how her maternal instinct potentially saved her son's life. As Daniel entered his teen years, his complaints of pain were repeatedly dismissed as psychological by doctors who had known him since infancy. Only after switching to a new pediatrician did they discover his heart conduit had grown down into his stomach, displacing organs and causing genuine physical distress. This experience highlights a dangerous blind spot in CHD care–the critical transition period between ages 10-21 when patients are most likely to fall through the cracks.

Perhaps most eye-opening is Monique's perspective on global CHD care disparities, comparing attitudes toward heart interventions between North and South India, and advocating passionately for what the CHD community needs most: to become "one voice" as prominent as the condition itself, which remains the number one birth defect worldwide.

Whether you're a heart parent seeking community, a medical professional wanting deeper insight into patient experiences, or simply someone interested in how personal tragedy can transform into powerful advocacy, this conversation will leave you understanding why the CHD journey requires both medical expertise and emotional support that only other heart families can truly provide.

Links Mentioned in the Episode:

Top 20 Congenital Podcasts: https://podcast.feedspot.com/congenital_disorders_podcasts

Baby Hearts Press: https://www.babyheartspress.com

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From a family vacation that turned tragic to the creation of Pakistan's first specialized children's heart hospital, Ana Tanveer Abdullah's journey illustrates how profound loss can spark transformative change.

When Ana's athletic, academically gifted brother Daniel collapsed unexpectedly at age 15, no one suspected a heart condition. Despite receiving a pacemaker after being diagnosed with cardiomyopathy, Danial passed away at 16 while awaiting a heart transplant in India. This devastating loss became the catalyst for an extraordinary mission.

Together with her father and Farhan Ahmad (who also lost a child to congenital heart disease), Ana founded the Pakistan Children's Heart Foundation with an ambitious vision: to build the country's first specialized cardiac hospital for children. Through innovative fundraising campaigns inspired by Danial's athletic spirit and tireless advocacy, they've now achieved what once seemed impossible.

The Children's Heart Hospital opens in Lahore this April, eliminating the need for Pakistani families to seek expensive treatment abroad. Beyond the physical facility, their "Project by Danial" trains young cardiologists and surgeons specifically in pediatric cardiac care, ensuring sustainable healthcare improvements throughout the country.

Ana's story reminds us of the remarkable resilience of the human spirit. "We are trying to find peace in this world," she reflects. "He had already found his peace." Through their foundation's life-saving work, Danial's legacy touches countless families across Pakistan, transforming one family's grief into hope for an entire nation.

Join our community and discover how you can support organizations like the Pakistan Children's Heart Foundation that are changing the landscape of pediatric cardiac care worldwide.

Link to Global Cardiac Alliance: https://cardiac-alliance.org/

Link to the Heart to Heart with Anna episode featuring Farhan Ahmad: https://www.buzzsprout.com/62761/398968-a-miracle-in-pakistan

Pakistan Children's Heart Foundation (PCHF): https://pchf.org.pk/

Project Danial: https://pchf.org.pk/cause/project-danial/

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What happens when you've spent your whole life thinking your heart condition was "fixed," only to discover it's actually a lifelong journey? Elle Pendrick shares this profound revelation that came after her fourth open-heart surgery, forever changing how she understood her congenital heart disease.

Born in 1983 with complex CHD in rural Australia, Elle's early years were defined by long journeys to Sydney for medical care. Growing up as the only person with a serious cardiac condition in her small town of Wagga Wagga created an isolating experience—one that shaped her understanding of her own health. The shocking realization at age 21 that her heart disease was not cured but rather a lifelong companion became a turning point in her identity and purpose.

Elle takes us through her remarkable transition from viewing CHD as something to hide to embracing it as part of her story. Her evolution into advocacy work led her to help develop Australia's groundbreaking Standards of Care for Childhood Onset Heart Disease, which includes world-first mental health and neurodevelopmental standards. This unified approach shows how Australia's tight-knit CHD community has created comprehensive care models that focus on whole-person wellness rather than just cardiac function.

The conversation explores fascinating comparisons between Australian and American healthcare systems, drawing from Elle's recent visit to the United States. Her insights reveal how different funding models, advocacy approaches, and support organizations shape patient experiences despite serving the same medical needs. Elle's perspective offers valuable lessons for anyone interested in healthcare policy and patient advocacy.

Most powerfully, Elle describes transforming her medical journey into resources for others. Her book "Your Ultimate Surgery Success Guide" and her platform "Adulting Well" address practical challenges faced by those with chronic conditions—from workplace conversations and financial planning to mental health support. By sharing her expertise on navigating healthcare systems, Elle demonstrates how lived experience becomes a powerful tool for helping others.

Join us for this inspirational conversation about resilience, advocacy, and finding purpose through personal challenge. If you're facing a chronic health condition or supporting someone who is, Elle's wisdom offers both practical guidance and heartfelt encouragement.

Global ARCH’s leadership training opportunity: 

https://global-arch.org/advocacy-training/ 

Elle’s Book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCV2TCQZ

Elle’s Website: https://www.adultingwell.au/

Elle’s Blog: https://www.adultingwell.au/Blog

Elle’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adultingwell/

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A broken wrist serves as an unexpected metaphor for the heart warrior's journey in this illuminating conversation with fundraiser and podcaster Amy Earhart. When Anna's recent accident left her with a titanium plate and a new perspective on recovery, it highlighted the resilience that characterizes the CHD community—adapting when our bodies say "enough" and finding creative ways forward.

Amy Erhart brings this resilience to life through her remarkable story. Born with hypoplastic left heart syndrome in 1983, she's channeled her experience into creating meaningful change. Her "Putt Around Kalida" fundraiser transforms her small hometown into a mini-golf adventure where local businesses design elaborate putting greens—from a smoking firehouse to a church model that's been preserved for generations. What makes this event special goes beyond the $20,000 raised; it's the photos of local CHD children displayed at the town park, creating powerful moments of recognition for families still processing their diagnosis.

The conversation shifts to Amy's podcast journey with "Diaries of a Heart Warrior," where she's published over 30 episodes—far surpassing the six-episode mark where most podcasters abandon their shows. Through these conversations, Amy found the connection she'd been missing: "I didn't know a lot of people with CHD until these last couple years. This is how I'm finally meeting people." These exchanges have brought validation that she's not alone in her complex feelings about life with a congenital heart defect.

Perhaps most meaningful is Amy's approach to fundraising, focusing on direct support for families rather than solely research: heart camps for children, gas money for hospital trips, hotel accommodations during treatments. It's a philosophy born from understanding that while research is crucial, the day-to-day needs of families navigating CHD require immediate attention.

Have you experienced the power of community support during health challenges? Listen now and discover how small towns and big hearts are creating meaningful change for CHD families everywhere.

Amy Erhart's podcast, "Diaries of a Heart Warrior": https://www.buzzsprout.com/2268461

Anna's CHD Connects Hearts link: https://chdconnectshearts.com/products-list?am_id=annajaworski3819

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In dieser speziellen deutschsprachigen Episode von 'Herz zu Herz mit Anna' spricht Jodi Alderfel mit Marina Lohri, die mit Trikuspidalatresie, ASD und VSD geboren wurde und eine modifizierte Fontan-Operation überlebte. Marina teilt ihre lebenslange Reise, von ihrer Herzoperation als Baby bis hin zu ihrer Karriere bei atHeart Medical, einem Unternehmen, das Geräte zur Behandlung von ASD entwickelt. Die Episode erörtert auch Marinas Erfahrungen mit Vorhofflimmern und einer Ablation im Jahr 2018. Marinas persönliche und berufliche Erfahrungen bieten wertvolle Einblicke für andere Patienten mit angeborenen Herzfehlern und zeigen, wie sie durch Mut und Entschlossenheit ein sinnvolles Leben führt.

(Besonderer Dank geht an Jodi Alderfel, die uns in dieser Folge als Gastmoderatorin zur Seite stand.)

In this special German-language episode of 'Heart to Heart with Anna,' Jodi Alderfel speaks with Marina Lohri, who was born with tricuspid atresia, ASD, and VSD and survived a modified Fontan procedure. Marina shares her lifelong journey, from her heart surgery as a baby to her career at atHeart Medical, a company developing devices to treat ASD. The episode also discusses Marina's experience with atrial fibrillation and an ablation in 2018. Marina's personal and professional experiences offer valuable insights for other patients with congenital heart disease and show how she leads a meaningful life through courage and determination.

Here is a link to Marina's episode in English with Anna: https://tinyurl.com/Marina-Lohri

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The journey of raising a child with a critical congenital heart defect (CCHD) involves navigating far more than just medical challenges. Behind every heart surgery and cardiology appointment lies a complex web of developmental considerations that can profoundly shape a child's future.

Dr. Dawn Ilardi, a clinical neuropsychologist with over 16 years of experience in cardiac neurodevelopment, brings clarity to this often-overlooked aspect of heart care. Unlike typical developmental patterns, children with CCHDs may present with scattered strengths and weaknesses that don't fit neatly into standard diagnostic categories. While some may develop recognizable conditions like ADHD, autism, or dyslexia, others show unique profiles that require specialized understanding.

The conversation explores the fascinating heart-brain connection, revealing how brain development begins simultaneously with heart formation during fetal development. Structural heart defects can affect blood flow patterns to the developing brain, while surgical interventions carry risks of small strokes or other brain injuries. For parents wondering why their child struggles with handwriting, speech delays, or learning difficulties despite excellent medical care, this discussion provides crucial insights.

Particularly compelling is the discussion about balancing protection with developmental progress. How do you navigate the tension between keeping a medically fragile child safe while ensuring they develop age-appropriate skills and independence? Dr. Ilardi offers practical strategies for finding this balance, emphasizing the importance of creating a supportive "village" around both the child and parents.

Whether you're a parent, medical professional, or educator working with heart warriors, this profound conversation will transform your understanding of the developmental journey these remarkable children face. Most importantly, you'll discover pathways to help them reach their full potential through multisensory learning approaches, compensatory strategies, and family-centered support.

Helpful Links:

Christy Pace's CHD Connects Hearts: https://chdconnectshearts.com/home

Dawn Ilardi's other Heart to Heart with Anna Appearances:

Unlocking Neurodevelopmental Breakthroughs: Impact of CHDs and Parental Influence https://www.buzzsprout.com/62761/episodes/15872291

What is Normal Child Development in Children with Complex Congenital Heart Defects? https://tinyurl.com/DawnIlardi2014
 
 Dr. Ilardi's website: https://www.pedneurocenter.com
 
 Dr. Ilardi's email: [email protected]

Gastrointestinal Issues and Feeding Tubes in the CHD Community: https://www.buzzsprout.com/62761/episodes/1999819

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When Sara Bonneau's newborn son was diagnosed with Tetralogy of Fallot, she had no roadmap for the journey ahead. In this raw and powerful conversation, she takes us through the evolution of parenting a child with a serious heart defect—from the terrifying early days without social media support groups to watching her son become a competitive high school basketball player.

Sara's candor about her mental health struggles resonates deeply as she shares her delayed PTSD diagnosis following her son's first surgery. "I experienced a lot of anxiety after Ryan was born. I remember being so scared he was going to die if I let him out of my sight," she reveals, encouraging other heart parents to seek help sooner than she did.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Sara describes how tragedy became the catalyst for her unexpected advocacy work. After Sara discovered a 15-year-old basketball player in her son's rival team collapsed and died, she discovered there was no AED available that might have saved his life. Despite having no legal background, this special education teacher successfully campaigned for Rhode Island legislation requiring AEDs in all middle and high schools.

Her message to listeners facing their own struggles is beautifully simple: "Your voice matters. I was just a mom. I had a voice. I made a very significant change for student athletes and children in Rhode Island just by sharing my story and speaking from the heart." Sara's journey from terrified parent to legislative changemaker demonstrates how we can transform our deepest fears into purposeful action.

Whether you're a heart parent seeking connection, an advocate looking for inspiration, or someone navigating the healthcare system, Sara's story will remind you of the incredible power one determined voice can have. Subscribe now and join our community of families and professionals dedicated to improving lives in the congenital heart defect world.

Helpful Links:

Diane Pucci's episodes: 

The Miracle of Growing Up with a CHD: https://www.buzzsprout.com/62761/episodes/398967

Voices of Victory: Overcoming Congenital Heart Challenges: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/voices-of-victory-overcoming-congenital-heart-challenges--58745010

Discord Server Link: https://discord.gg/WZwQf7pPM8

CardioHUB 2025 link: https://www.cardiologyconferenceeurope.com/

HUG website link: https://www.heartsunitetheglobe.com

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In this engaging episode of Heart to Heart with Anna, we dive into the significant strides made in pediatric cardiology, focusing on hypoplastic left heart syndrome (HLHS) and the inspiring journey of dedicated professionals like Dr. Paul Grossfeld. This episode highlights the complex nature of congenital heart disease, exploring not just the technical advancements in surgical techniques and post-operative care, but also the emotional journeys faced by families. Dr. Grossfeld shares powerful stories from his practice, illustrating the deep connections formed between healthcare providers and patients.

Listeners will learn about the critical role of early diagnostics and how modern medicine has transformed the fatality rates associated with HLHS. The episode discusses the collaborative efforts across medical disciplines, which lead to innovative treatment and significant improvements in patient outcomes. With a keen focus on the importance of research to address genetic and environmental influences on heart conditions, Dr. Grossfeld emphasizes the need for community support in fundraising and awareness initiatives.

As the conversation shifts toward the importance of heart screenings for athletes, listeners will discover how these measures can prevent tragic outcomes and promote healthy practices among young sports enthusiasts. We encourage our audience to reflect on their understanding of pediatric heart health and to become advocates for research and support within the community. Join us in this eye-opening episode that aims not only to inform but to inspire action among listeners who share a commitment to the congenital heart disease community. Subscribe, share, and engage with us to help uplift and empower those affected by these conditions.

Here are some helpful links mentioned in this episode:

HeartWorks: https://www.webuildhearts.org
Dr. Paul Grossfeld's charities: 
Light the Way: https://radyfoundation.org/get-involved/events/light-the-way/
Miracle Makers: https://radyfoundation.org/ways-to-give/fundraise/miracle-makers/
Hearts Unite the Globe (HUG): https://www.heartsunitetheglobe.com

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