This episode: In 2009, I'm sentenced to five years in federal prison. I was convicted of conspiracy and wire fraud.
Here’s what you’ll learn about:
Life changes and resilience. (0:00)
Ivy Woolf Turk shares her personal journey of resilience and redefining success after facing challenges.Her father had a major health issue when she was a freshman in college, causing her to reevaluate her goals and switch majors.She dives into the male-dominated advertising industry in the early 1970s, married her childhood sweetheart, and later realized her husband had issues but thought she could fix them.Life events and business ventures. (4:24)
Ivy describes experiencing multiple life-changing events, including the loss of her home, job, and husband, while raising four young children.She eventually merges her business with another company, and the partnership does not work out, leading to a new chapter in her life.Ivy describes her experience with an abusive partner and the pressure to close a lucrative deal, despite feeling trapped and unhappy.FBI agents raid Ivy's home, read her legal rights, and ransack her bedroom. Personal struggles and resilience. (11:43)
Ivy shares story of abuse, loss, and betrayal, including uterine cancer and death of loved ones.She shares stories of financial fraud, depression, and advocacy for criminal justice reform.Ivy reflects on forgetting her true self during difficult times, finds strength in letters from loved ones.Overcoming obstacles and advocating for oneself. (18:22)
Ivy shares her personal story of overcoming self-worth issues and lack of self-esteem through teaching GED classes, leading to 61 out of 62 students graduating high school.Ivy found her purpose in life by transmitting their life experiences into service, leading to her early release from a civil suit.Ivy shares her experience of homelessness and struggle to rebuild her life after being released from prison, highlighting the challenges of reentry and the need for support and advocacy.She reflects on her past actions as a real estate developer and how they marginalized and disenfranchised communities, and now she is facing similar struggles herself.Overcoming trauma and injustices in the criminal justice system. (24:37)
Ivy describes her journey from prison to creating a program for women, helping 100 find housing and jobs.Her Probation officer surprises her with unexpected freedom and financial support.Ivy shared her experience of giving a public speech despite feeling unprepared and anxious, highlighting the importance of passion and confidence in public speaking.Ivy discussed her creative solution to overcome financial challenges, using her children's lives as motivation to succeed.To learn more about Ivy, go to LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/ivywoolfturk-cpc/ or you can go to Ivy’s website at http://www.ivywoolfturk.com/
Ivy Woolf Turk Bio: Even the most well lived lives can contain moments when obstacles require us to find new tools to deal with adversity or the unexpected.…when life throws curve balls, and we feel stuck or “imprisoned” in one way or another. I sure did!
For almost 20 years, I co-owned and managed a multi-million-dollar real estate portfolio, survived cancer, divorce, and single parenthood. All of this culminated in the betrayal of my business partner and I unwittingly got caught up in a fraudulent scheme and was sentenced to five years in Danbury Federal Prison!
During my time in Danbury, I realized that I was imprisoned in my outwardly successful life long before I was actually sentenced to serve my time. And, by the time I walked out of my seven by seven-foot cube for the last time after living there for forty-seven months, I realized that it shouldn't take a stint in Federal Prison for a woman to find her worth. And although Federal Prison gave me nothing, it certainly took a lot away. It took my home, my business, my reputation, and my place in my family. I was isolated, humiliated and degraded.
Even though I was surrounded by 200 suffering strangers, I was so very alone. With no other way to grieve my overwhelming losses, I found myself turning within. And it was there that I found the real riches in my life. They had been there all along…I just didn’t know it!
Upon release, I needed a credential other than “ex-felon” to effectuate my dreams. So after a year of working odd jobs while pursuing my certification with Coaching for Transformation/ Leadership that Works, I became a certified professional coach. I founded Resiliency Coaching to work with individuals one on one and two years later, founded Project Liberation. Our trauma informed and healing workshops provide justice involved women the tools they need to create powerful and transformational relationships with self, other and community.
Ten years later, it has become crystal clear to me that there are many prisons in which we find ourselves- but most don’t involve bars and cement walls. After coaching thousands of individuals both one on one and in group settings, Ihave founded A Liberated Lifeseries for those who want to move from the life they have to one they may not have even dared to dream of!
As a Champion of Freedom, I utilize my story to inspire others, not only as a coach, but as a keynote speaker, workshop facilitator, consultant and as an author. I have spoken domestically and internationally at many conferences, at the White House and from high schools to Harvard, partnered with the Department of Health and the United Nations. I was named New Yorker of the week and have been featured in Forbes, Rolling Stone, The New York Times, The Telegraph/ India and many other media outlets.
But none of those platforms or my B.S from Boston University are as important to me as regaining my place as matriarch of my family. I am inspired every day by my four adult children and my two very special grandchildren.