The choices we make, particularly in our relationships, have a profound impact on our lives. Surrounding ourselves with individuals who strive for excellence can inspire us to do the same, counteracting the tendency towards “social loafing.”

Choices determine everything in life, from finances to relationships and the future. Making good choices, especially the most important ones, can lead to positive outcomes, while poor choices can have negative consequences.

Just what are we doing here? Inspired by N.J. Berrill’s “You and the Universe” and Maria Popova’s writing, it encourages a wider perspective on life’s struggles and a deeper appreciation for our existence.

Your inner dialogue is like a potent drug with beneficial and devastating effects.

A “rule of life” provides structure and support for personal growth, similar to a trellis for vines.  Without discipline and structure, growth can be hindered and one’s destiny is determined by the chosen framework.

This message reflects on the wonder of childhood, as captured in Christopher Morley’s poem “To A Child.” The poem celebrates the innocence and creativity of a four-year-old, contrasting it with the complexities of adulthood.

Perspective is everything. Epictetus’s advice to view possessions objectively, like a cup as mere ceramic and paint, can help maintain inner peace when things are lost.

Understanding incentives, both for others and ourselves, is crucial for analyzing deals and relationships.  Identifying our own payoffs and rewards can help us stay motivated and focused on our goals.

The equation E + R = O, emphasizes that our responses to life’s events shape their outcomes.  Our reactions, not the events themselves, determine our growth and freedom.

God is on your side. He has made the effort you could never make. He has made you in his likeness and sees you as a treasure worth finding.