Why you can know your boundaries and still cross them sometimes...(hint: there's nothing wrong with you!)
This episode is a real-time reflection on boundaries. How they show up in the body, how they collapse under attachment, and what it takes to stay with yourself when desire and grief are present.
I share a personal story from my own dating life and speak candidly about self-abandonment, panic, and the moment my body made something impossible to ignore. This is not a conversation from the other side of healing. It’s from inside the practice.
In this episode, I explore:
Why boundaries often fall apart in moments of emotional intimacyHow the body communicates long before the mind catches upSelf-abandonment as a learned survival patternThe difference between knowing your boundaries and being able to hold themInternal boundaries and staying in agreement with yourselfEnergetic boundaries and where attention, fantasy, and attachment goRelational boundaries and clean endings without blameThe space between wanting connection and choosing to stay with yourselfThis episode also includes a guided embodiment practice to help you feel boundaries in your body and relate to them as an act of self-relationship, not self-control.
If you’re navigating attachment, dating, or learning how to listen to yourself more honestly, this conversation is an invitation to slow down and stay present with what’s true.
If You'd Like to Dive Even Deeper:
🌿 Boundaries That Actually Feel Good
Guided embodiment practices to support living your boundaries from the inside out.
🌿 Returning to Your Body — In-Person Workshop
A trauma-informed embodiment workshop exploring boundaries, nervous system safety, and self-trust.