FUNAFTER4Ti

I was taught to always speak to people, especially my elders. 

Although people may not reply, saying hello can be life changing for a total stranger.  You can brighten up someone's day with one word (hello)  or that one word (hello) can be used as a teaching tool.

Life is worth living.....smile, be kind, and enjoy the small things.  ~Atiya

Never give up on your hopes and your dreams. Age should never stop you from pressing forward with the gifts God has blessed you with.

Gloria Turner is the Author of "Shadows of My Memory".  

This story is about the author's determination to change the direction of her life through the spirit of hope and become a catalyst to the transformation of lives that surpasses counting.

Ms. Turner is a raw Author with a spiritual and positive personality.  Listen to her interview,  laugh at her outgoing personality, and listen for the  fun fact surprise.

Thank you for listening,
Atiya

Health Awareness During Black History Month.

How has black history affected today’s health of black men?

The health of black men consistently ranks the lowest across the United States. 

How did repressive laws cause poor health amongst black men? 

Some black men are mentally suppressed by past “Jim Crow” laws.  Within the community I was personally raised in, some of us thought Jim Crow was an actual person.

 Do you know where the name “Jim Crow” originated from? After hearing this episode, you may never want to mimic or make fun of people with a speech impediment or people who have a lack of education. 

*Disclosure: I am not mocking the grammar  of our ancestors, I act out what I’m reading to help listeners connect with the lack of education African Americans experienced.  

Lack of education and fear leads to poor health.

Can you imagine wearing a  face mask for the rest of your life?  Pandemic vs. Pain, both are causing people to wear very uncomfortable mask that strips them of their unique being.

People allow stigmas and society expectations to block their own self-care needs. When grief, anxiety, trauma, mental health, physical health, and other life trials & tribulations are not properly addressed, eventually everything a suffering  person did to mask their reality crumbles.  

You do not have to be a celebrity or wealthy to experience your beautiful bridge collapsing. The simple things in life you may have accomplished throughout the years can be bottled in darkness because you never took the time to deal with "You".

This episode is very enlightening, thought provoking, & uplifting.

"Some people never enjoy who they really are 
because they  live their lives, wearing a mask 
over that  scar." ~Atiya Turner

Forced relationships are very unhealthy and far from Fun and we must have FUNAFTER4Ti right?  You have to love yourself enough not to force unwanted relationships,

Forcing an unwanted relationship can destroy the quality of your life & allow others to take advantage of your kindness.

Healing begins when you let go.  Holding on to forced relationships becomes self destruction.

In this episode, I talk about the  signs of  forced relationships with family, friends, co-workers,  & lovers. I also talk about the benefits of letting go, living a joyous life, & much more.

Music by: Alicia Keys

Thank you for listening,
Atiya

We have the Declaration of Independence which gives us the freedom to pursuit happiness, joy, and love for others without judgment.  The American Dream is for everyone to join hands in Unity according to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.  Listen to Dr. Martin Luther King's speech, "The American Dream" along with my perspectives on racism, change, & unity.

THIS IS A FOLLOW UP EPISODE FROM THE LAST EPISODE ABOUT DATING AFTER 40 

I INVITED CLAUDIA & GORDON, BOTH OVER 40, TO  SHARE THIER KNOWLEDGE & WISDOM ABOUT DATING AFTER 40, AGE STIGMAS, DATING ONLINE, CONVENTIONAL DATING, GROWING TOGETHER, LOVING YOURSELF, CHANGE, & HAVING FUN AFTER FORTY.

SOME OF THE THINGS DISCUSSED ARE PEOPLE'S  UNWILLINGNESS TO CHANGE, INSECURITIES, ACCEPTING PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE, GROWING TOGETHER, NOT SETTLING, A MALES POINT OF VIEW, A FEMALES POINT OF VIEW, ENJOYING LIFE, SOCIETY STIGMAS, CULTURES & HOW MEN VIEW WOMEN WHO DATE ONLINE. 

BOTH GUEST WAS OPEN-MINDED AND RESPECTED EACH OTHER'S OPINION.

A GREAT EPISODE TO LISTEN TO WHILE YOU COOK, EXERCISE, DRIVE, OR ENJOY A PEACEFUL MOMENT AT THE PARK.

THANK YOU FOR LISTENING,
Atiya

When you notice that first strand of grey hair, you jump over the hill and roll down backwards in disbelief.  Lol.  

How did you respond?

Email me your first response when you noticed grey hair.  

I will do a raffle and pick 2 people to be guest on our next episode of "The Shocking Appearance of Grey Hair"

The guest are welcomed to share their gifts, talents, and ventures at the end of each.  episode.

When you notice that first strand of grey hair, you jump over the hill and roll down backwards in disbelief.  Lol.  

How did you respond?

Email me your first response when you noticed grey hair.  

I will do a raffle and pick 2 people to be guest on our next episode of "The Shocking Appearance of Grey Hair"

The guest are welcomed to share their gifts, talents, and ventures at the end of each.  episode.

Dating after 40 can be difficult for both men and women.  The quarantine is now a contributing factor to people being single.  Dating yourself isn't a bad idea, but for some people, the idea of dating yourself is a horrible idea.