Gaslight Me Sweetie ™️

Today and every day give yourself permission to be your best self. It doesn’t matter what anyone & I mean anyone around you thinks! You are your own person. You can wake up & change anything around you. Your voice, your job, your hair, your wardrobe, your home. You’re 1 of 1. You are in charge of you. Take back control. Shed into new skin & sign on the dotted line.

It’s the beginning of the month! Beginning of October in fact! October 2023! We have 90 days left of the year. What are you doing? What goals do you have left for the year? What are you doing every day to achieve them? It’s transform szn. It’s level up szn. It’s no excuses szn. It’s money szn. It’s opportunities szn. Let’s get to it!

I see you growing. I see you leveling up. I see you not stopping & never settling. I see you obsessed with you! I love it. Keep unlocking those characters. Keep shedding off old skin & get used to constant growth. Success is on your side. Don’t ever quit on YOU!

It’s Friday! Put on your boss baddie play list & get your day going! Remember, always chose you. Wake up and chose you. Don’t forget about you when you get into a relationship or get out of a relationship. You deserve all your energy. If you can’t give 100% to someone else, at least give 100% to you. You’re amazing. You’re worth it. You deserve it. Don’t let someone dim your sparkle!!

I’ve been feeling a little low lately. That I’m not doing enough. Even though I’m doing all the things, I still feel there is more to my journey and I want it now! I was given compliments on compliments from my 9-5 VPs & I still was like yeah no problem let’s keep it rolling. I googled imposter syndrome because why can I not take a compliment? I feel like what I do is just natural but people praise me as if I’m doing the best. Then my friend called me & told me how I inspired her + another woman. And it all clicked….. listen in y’all!

We settle too often too quickly. We aren’t ever sure of what we deserve or we put this thought in our mind that we are not deserving of things. Stop with the self limiting beliefs & reach for the stars! You are worth more than you can imagine. Sit with yourself. Do the work. Understand your past relationships and why you are the way you are. Don’t settle in a job, a city, a relationship, a car, a house etc. YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU WANT! + if something doesn’t feel right just leave. You don’t have to have a reason, just leave, because your next blessing is behind that door you shut behind.

There are a lot of distractions in the world. You want to be your best self, but the distractions are killing you. Listen in to 8 ways to be your best self! Improve your focus! Go achieve the goals you’ve been wanting to achieve for years! Remember, discipline, consistency & control.

Taking naps & sleeping is where I’ve come up with the ideas for most of my best content. Take more naps. Meditate. Relax your mind. Let go of your phone for a day. And see how amazing your mind is when it comes up with stuff only YOU are supposed to know & complete. And don’t ignore it. Take action

My mom said to me this morning after i rain checked our lunch date “you do you” I’m like damn Ma, OK. But she was serious because I rain checked lunch so I can go read this book so I can take this test and get certified in one of my jobs to make more $$$ Some people in your life won’t understand now. That’s OK. It’s not FOR them to understand. The vision was placed in YOUR head. When you’re retired by 35, they’re gonna look back & be like damn, maybe i shoulda went to that networking event or went to the gym instead of the happy hour + tailgate. I’m not telling y’all to not have fun, I’m saying, MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.

Actions always speak louder than words. The more you show, the more you grow. I want to thank all of my 3000 + daily listeners. GMS is doing numbers I would have never expected. I’m blessed. I’m grateful. I will keep doing this thing for as long as I live. Y’all keep me going. Y’all hold me accountable. Remember: consistency is key with a splash of control and a dash of discipline!