Gaslight Me Sweetie ™️

Being a minimalist is a great thing. Phenomenal thing actually. Having clutter around you, clutters your life. Having to choose options, wastes your time. Living below your means helps you save $$$ & invest those savings.

Y’all didn’t work out the first time, or maybe even the second time because it wasn’t your time. Timing wasn’t right. But NOW, it’s time. You both worked on yourselves. You both put the effort in. You both feel comfortable in your own skin & your cup is over flowing. If spinning the block feels right, do it. But don’t forget, it’s like re-learning a person all over again because we’ve grown & leveled up in these last 10 years. I’m a sucker for a good love story 🥹 Be safe out there y’all

One of my best friends, in the whole world, didn’t see my vision. So the negative talk was not because she felt a negative way towards me, but it’s because they just don’t understand AND THAT’S OK! I didn’t want to have the conversations because I just wanted to vent and let it go, but venting leads to resentment. I didn’t want to resent them. They check all the boxes & then some, just didn’t see eye to eye with my business ventures. And it’s because they just don’t know. Have the conversations y’all! The tough ones. Your outcome will be positive & your relationships will get even stronger.

The reason why I got to the strength point I’m at today post my breakup is three things. 1. I realized the breakup was not a reflection on me, but a reflection on them. 2. People are selfish. 3. I was obedient to the thoughts placed in my head & I took action. Your healing journey will be far from easy, but you have to trust the process. You have to trust the outcome will be better than your starting point. You have to understand you are unlocking a whole new character. Start healing. Be consistent. Take action.

New moon in cancer alert!!! Aires, Libra, Cancer & Capricorn placements you’re about to change. Like change change. Your energy is about to be different. If you’ve been want to move, start a new job, start a new business and/or new passion project, START IT! Your motivation is about to be super charged! You’re going to make your inner child the happiest they’ve ever been. Let’s go yall!!

I was asked the question “how is it going to make you feel when you look the people in the face that said you couldn’t do it or said you shouldn’t do it & you did it?” SHEESH. Just listen to this one yall because this episode goes crazy.

On my shit! Consistency has been key. Self discipline & control has been the focus. I’ve written down my goals, recited them when I wake up & before bed & my conscious mind is reacting!! 7/16/2023 is another powerful 7/7/7 portal day. Make it count!!! Have a great weekend!!

I feel great. Everything feels right. Timing is right. In this moment, everything is right. Through 7 life cycles, the last 7 months, 7 days a week, doing the WORK it is all is coming together like that hamstring glute tie-in the gym girlies be talking about. LETS GO! Energy on 100. & To my future hubby, I love you. I’m proud of you. You’re doing the work. You’re becoming the best version of yourself. & I can’t wait to meet you at the top when both of our cups are overflowing & then some.

My ex taught me a lot of things. How a woman should be treated, how a women should be courted, how being picky is OK. So many valuable lessons, like “you don’t have to eat if if you don’t like it” “if it’s not worth your calories, don’t eat it” Y’all, sit back & reflect on your past, you’ll learn something. Take away the lessons. No, we didn’t work out into the fairy tale that I wanted, but he wrote my story. My price just went up & the bar is higher than ever.

Are y’all tired like I’m tired? And I mean tired of small minds crushing your big dreams??? Stop telling those small minds ANYTHING. Take your camera every where, keep making mix tapes, keep creating content & work out programs, keep free-styling, keep trying new ventures. Your big break is on its way!!! Keep being consistent & watch what signs the man upstairs gives to you. Watch where your gratitude takes you.