Gender Reveal

Tuck chats with human rights advocate and organizer Ash Tifa (she/her). Topics include:

• Do human rights laws actually ensure our rights?
• What media coverage is missing/misunderstanding about what's going on in the Twin Cities
• Are Black leaders and queer people being intentionally targeted for arrest?
• Plus: Ireland vs US immigrant detention, living in a post-constitutional state, and keeping your nose warm in a Minnesota winter

[Note: This episode was updated on 02/17/2026 to remove a question per Ash's request.]

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Find Ash at ashtifa.com and outfront.org.

Order Sex Change and the City or catch Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

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Tuck chats with Encanto actor Jess Darrow (they/them) about working with Disney as outspoken queer person, singing the transest possible song for their Encanto audition, being queer-awakened by a certain Disney couple, and declaring pole dancing the most they/them hobby.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear how Tuck and Jess met via goofing off on Letterboxd… plus Jess coming into their queerness while making Encanto; their mission to make Captain Hook gay; their big discovery about comedians; their takes on RATS and GREECE; their hot take on cishet relationships; and much more!!!

Find Jess at @jessdarrow_ on IG and on IMDb.

Find Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12: RSVP here.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with author Megan Milks (they/them). Topics include:

• The queer and trans potential of milk
• Writing fantastical slug erotica and bull insemination scenes
• Dating and writing advice from Samuel Delany
• What even is a kink, you know?
• Plus: New Narrative, the "overwhelming influence of The Argonauts," and finally getting out of high school

This Week in Gender: Tuck reads their favorite book review of 2025.

Find Megan @sklimnagem and meganmilks.com. Mega Milk is available now.

Order Sex Change and the City or catch Tuck on book tour in Baltimore on Feb 12.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

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TGIJP's Zen Blossom chats with historian, artist, and organizer Andrea Horne for the California Report Magazine podcast.

Photos(!) and a full transcript are available at KQED.org.

For more conversations with trans youth, plus a bonus chat with artist and activist Donna Personna, check out the California Report Magazine's Love You For You series.

Tuck chats with writer and union organizer Alma Avalle (she/her) about the Transparent finale, Trader Joe's dream to destroy the NLRB, and Alma's experience getting very publicly fired from Condé Nast in an egregiously illegal instance of union retaliation!

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of Emilia Perez, paywalled Condé gossip, "Anna Wintour's elite fiefdom rocked by woke soap opera," and much more!

Find Alma at @goodbyealma across platforms and @picnic_mag on IG.

Download issue 1 of Picnic Magazine for pay-what-you-want, and don't forget to sign the petition to reinstate the Fired Four.

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Tuck chats with cartoonist Lee Lai (she/her) about gossip, projection, emotional journalism, toxic relationship dynamics, annoying transmascs, the hazards of being overly self-reliant, and more.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear discussions of puberty 4, comic-reading etiquette, she/her mustache, maladaptive trans coping mechanisms, creative dialogue bubbles, and whether hormones physically relocate your feelings in your body.

Find Lee Lai at lee-lai.cargo.site, on IG @_leelai, and on Patreon.

Find Tuck on book tour in Portland on Dec 19! (For real this time.) RSVP here.

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Tuck chats with artist Barry Lee (they/them). Topics include:

• Creating an oracle deck that doesn't shy away from difficult emotions
• Why Barry has moved away from mural-painting (and bisexuality lol)
• The toxic positivity and individualism of mainstream self-help tools
• Eugenics, limited autonomy, and other enemies of trans & disabled people
• Plus: Atlanta, Keith Haring, Strega Nona, noses, and queer Muppets

Find Barry @barryleeart and barryleeart.com.

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Order Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Portland on Dec 19.

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Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional music: Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Ozzy and Tuck chat with activist and G.L.I.T.S. founder Ceyenne Doroshow (she/her). Topics include:

• Memories of Ceyenne's mother, Miss Major
• Ceyenne's 3-hour meal with Zohran Mamdani
• Lessons learned from a career in sex work
• Providing safe housing and asylum assistance through G.L.I.T.S.
• Plus: Riis Beach, a St. Bernard named Thor, and a revenge trip to Puerto Rico?

Find Ceyenne and support her crucial work at glitsinc.org.

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Order Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Seattle, Oakland, and more.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including last month's episode with Cassius Adair.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional music: Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)

Tuck announces new book tour events, including a '90s-themed lit party and a trans band debut/reunion(!?!). Then, Tuck chats with Cass about the state of trans studies and why podcasts are over.

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear Cass and Tuck discuss talking to kids about gender, making friends in Minnesota, wearing one hat for 15 years, projecting your brain problems onto your baby, and much more.

Catch Tuck on book tour in Philly, Brooklyn, Chicago, Minneapolis, Seattle, Portland, Oakland, and on Zoom! Sex Change and the City is available now in the Girl Dad Press shop.

Applications are now open for our 2025 grant program thru 10/31.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

Tuck and Ozzy chat with writer Zefyr Lisowski (she/her). Topics include:

• How horror helps us explore what we owe others in the wake of pain
• Zefyr's delicate decision to do a ~gender reveal~ in Uncanny Valley Girls
• Managing harm in t4t and crazy4crazy relationships
• How the Great Dismal Swamp informs Zefyr's thoughts about race and class
• Plus: Grave robbers, werewolves, Pisces poetics, and a musical based on The Ring.

This Week in Gender: Applications are now open for our 2025 grant program! Please help us spread the word to trans folks of color doing rad organizing / art / community work around the world.

Find Zefyr at zefyrlisowski.com and @zefrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Uncanny Valley Girls is on sale tomorrow, Oct. 7!

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Preorder Sex Change and the City today, or catch Tuck on book tour in Chicago, Seattle, Oakland, and more.

Join our Patreon to access our weekly newsletter and monthly Gender Conceal episodes, including our upcoming episode with Cassius Adair.

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Find transcripts and starter packs at genderpodcast.com. We're also on Instagram @gendereveal.

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman Logo: Ira M. LeighMusic: Breakmaster CylinderAdditional music: Blue Dot Sessions Sponsors: DeleteMe (code: TUCK20) and Max Burns UX (mention Rhubarb!)