JAILHOUSE LETTERS – Voices from inside the cult!As a looming crisis engulfs the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church, Cheryl’s inbox fills with long and detailed emails from current PBCC members, desperate to escape, but trapped by the prison bars of fear, family and finance. Most of these heartbreaking messages are confidential, but a few brave souls have given us permission to read out their accounts – giving us a deeply disturbing picture of what life is REALLY like inside the cult. Before we dive into the letters, we have a round-table discussion about the dramatic events of the past few days and perform a public autopsy of Lloyd Grimshaw’s preposterous podcast with the heroic Hales boys. Using a few choice quotes from the Ministry of Bruce D Hales, we expose the profound contradictions between what the Hales-spawn say– and what Daddy ministered. Worldly friends, boats, fishing, sports, Rupert Murdoch AKA, the Man of Sin, were all condemned by Daddy in the strongest language. Now Gareth, Dean, Greg, and Charles are singing like birds, cheerfully endorsing and confessing to sins for which anyone else would have been thrown overboard. As an insider told us, “We live in confusing times!”Link for insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/tesmo9ata38v2esgxyv9w/45000-147-pt1.mp4?rlkey=d2vrgyjc8dk41ne6wzjrnb8kf&st=17lea1do&dl=0Link to articles- https://archive.ph/Ohu6ihttps://archive.ph/Tezn2https://archive.ph/7d78uhttps://archive.ph/pOe7Shttps://archive.is/pUnB7https://archive.ph/1fJVGhttps://archive.ph/8xQJCLink to PBCC podast #1- https://youtu.be/gfdWbjmqv2s?si=wfjhfjaOiFExObdJTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

Content warning: This episode contains strong language and open discussion of suicide, trauma, and abuse. Viewer discretion is advised.In this episode, special guest Dawson opens up about his experiences growing up in the Exclusive Brethren now known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church (PBCC) with Cheryl and Andrea.Dawson pulls back the curtain on his survival within this cult. In this very raw, tearful and exposing podcast we dive into:-The suffocating control and double standards of the PBCC-Dawson’s struggles with identity and the lack of support for LGBTQ+ members-Harrowing priestly “visits” marked by emotional and physical abuse including Anthony Hazell and Benjamin Tiso -Mental health, suicidality, and how the system fails its youth-The pain of family rejection and the bittersweet process of leaving-Alcoholism within the group and its hidden toll-Finding purpose, friendship, and healing through music and travel after leaving Stay tuned at the end for a moving musical performance by Dawson!Link for insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/6um31aa4ykigxvjlfgssr/45000-146-2.mp4?rlkey=9hgwmvsdosrnyf3ui3li5yt02&st=bp3rofpk&dl=0Link to Michael Gove/ Anthony Hazell article- https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2024/feb/02/michael-gove-lobbied-by-covid-vip-lanes-biggest-winner-of-ppe-contractsTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Preston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

**TRIGGER WARNING: DISCUSSION OF SEXUAL ABUSE, PHYSICAL ABUSE, AND SUICIDAL IDEATIONS. **Here's the raw and uncut account of Mick Dover's story that was exposed on the recent 4 corners Big Brethren's documentary. These are clips from his 2 and half hour horrific account on podcast #90. On October 1, 2025, Bruce Hales made a special "crisis management" visit to Melbourne congregation in an attempt to mitigate and contain the fallout from the exposure of the 4 corners Big Brethren documentary that covered the horrific story of Mick Dover's abuse in that city. Shockingly, in the very place where Mick was repeatedly abused, Hales chose to publicly praise Melbourne elder Alf McAlpin, one of Mick’s abusers. At the same time the PBCC is reportedly offering Mick $1 million to buy his silence, Hales personally travels to the scene of the crimes to glorify the perpetrators.Link for insiders for full video- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/boi4bqizr1b991wack3pt/34897-04corners.mp4?rlkey=hhuk9ktghfpximlp864e5u0dx&st=jmry0n5t&dl=0Link to Podcast #90- https://youtu.be/MPL46VDFELcLink to transcript of podcast #90- https://pbccresearch.com/transcripts/90-mick-dover?q=mick+doverTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

Compassion, care, support – the heartwarming buzzwords thickly sprinkled over the social media and websites of the Rapid Relief Team and the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church. But where is the compassion when the cameras are turned off and the press has gone home? Former members of the PBCC speak out about the callous and demeaning treatment meted out to them by the cult, whose private cruelty greatly exceeds their public displays of carefully stage-managed “compassion”. Investigator Damian Hastie joins us to expose a scandal at the Exclusive Brethren’s new London Gospel hall and takes us through his website to answer all your questions.Link for Insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/rcjso4tvw6cd4nqbmmntn/45000-145.mp4?rlkey=s4a19nxpiomx5yooh3kaq6o7h&st=sefhnk3h&dl=0Link to Articles-Scotland Police- https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-sunday-post-newcastle/20250831/281805700048104?srsltid=AfmBOoqHK0UA4yHQ6BJM7FaIHRDDoQCvBxSYRS_PXIBR_vhvtgyLCgiOFire Brigades Union bans RRT https://www.fbu.org.uk/policies/2022/fire-service-provisionfire-ground-cateringCanadaland Article- https://www.canadaland.com/plymouth-brethren-christian-church-members-under-rcmp-investigation-for-alleged-sexual-abuse-in-saskatchewan/Brethren Exposed website link- https://www.brethrenexposed.com/RRT website- truthaboutrrt.comTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

The ABC Four Corners documentary The Big Brethren could only gave a glimpse into the stories of ex-members. Link to documentary- https://youtu.be/lFEIJr5rln4?si=x-ZGu1Nrmb-ZQmP0This is the full, unedited recording of Trent’s priestly visit: a raw interrogation packed with verbal abuse, intimidation, and coercive control.We first explored this visit in Podcast Episode 110, where a licensed therapist unpacked the tactics used here and explained their damaging psychological impact. If you haven’t heard it, we recommend listening for expert insights. Link to Podcast 110- https://youtu.be/0aut0TdcfC4?si=udpCWX_1L-4C6MVEFor many who lived inside, this kind of treatment was routine. For those outside, it’s a stark look at the hidden machinery of coercion.0:51 Recording begins: “for my safety” 5:44 Demands for confession 15:31 “You’re a stupid idiot” + hell threats 21:55 Mick confesses that Bruce Hales owns UBT38:03 Father defends Trent, gets shut down 42:26 Plea to speak to Mr. Hales over this witch hunt55:45 “By what authority do you speak?”To share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

Ian Arbon was present at the infamous July 1970 meetings in Aberdeen, where Jim Taylor Jr., the powerful leader of the Exclusive Brethren, shocked many with his behaviour. Ian describes how the atmosphere was tense and mocking, far from the reverence he expected from a brethren meeting.He saw how “Big Jim” controlled the room, playing to the crowd and the press like a performer. It was clear to Ian that Taylor knew exactly what he was doing. But things took a darker turn when Taylor was found in a compromising situation with a married woman; an event that led the Aberdeen Brethren to reject him and send him back to New York.This moment became the biggest scandal in the history of the Brethren, yet it was quickly covered up by leadership. Many members left, but the truth was buried. Ian describes the impact this had on him and his family and many other brethren. This accounts is collaborated by Rebecca Stott who also joins us to delve into the trust of this scandal.Join us to hear Ian Arbon’s firsthand account and learn what really happened, where he shares the inside story as an eyewitness to one of the most controversial events in the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church's history.Link for insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ugoe2yysc792m7vyroiuz/45000-143.mp4?rlkey=he065zaubg9wpryr23icgbij9&st=rfjjxeeg&dl=0Aberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

Mark’s story is one of quiet courage and transformation. In 1975, he left the Exclusive brethren, now known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church. This was not something he planned or had wanted. He was given no choice in the decision. Stepping away from such a community meant not only redefining his beliefs but also rebuilding his life from the ground up, without the support of family or lifelong friends. What was the reason for withdrawing Mark?? He simply wasn't fit for Christianity, says the Exclusive Brethren members! Since then, Mark has navigated a path marked by resilience, curiosity, and a deep commitment to personal growth. He and his wife were able to adopt 2 children, something that isn't allowed inside the cult. Join us as Mark explains how he has navigated his journey to find acceptance with events of 50 years ago including the infamous review where they showed up on his doorstep! Mark shares his story not to dwell on the past, but to offer insight, hope, and understanding to others who may be questioning their own paths or seeking connections beyond the boundaries of the PBCC. Link for insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ott4edb0bzn6s0yle2zji/45000-142.mp4?rlkey=0n4wlem0kfgc0esywwxuaxk3o&st=cuq4wvey&dl=0To share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

Sensitive Content Warning:This episode contains discussions on child sexual abuse.In this podcast Cheryl, Richard, Ben and Dr. Jill Mytton present ICSA presentations from July 2025 that covers-• Firsthand survivor accounts of abuse, separation, and life after leaving the PBCC.• How the Get A Life Podcast is helping people around the world escape high-control groups, find support, and reclaim their voices.• A special feature on Dr. Jill Mytton's preliminary research findings on child sexual abuse in cultic groups, and why your participation matters.• The vital role of social media and survivor-led platforms in making real change.• Calls to action for allies, researchers, and anyone looking to support or find help.Richard presents a new website www.pbccresearch.com that will speed up the process for researchers, journalists, police and anyone needing to locate important information. Want to contribute to groundbreaking research?If you are a former member of a high-demand religious group, please participate in Dr. Jill Mytton’s study to help advance understanding and create change. Link to questionnaire- https://tinyurl.com/3trpjxn6Cheryl Bawtinheimer Presentation- 0:01:26Ben Woodbury Presentation- 0:40:32Richard Marsh Presentation- 0:59:56Dr Jill Mytton Presentation- 1:20:34Link for insiders- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/bznan7kd8k6dyuqt3hjff/45000-141.mp4?rlkey=359zetqvxgk1l5rqm26bsjk17&st=hzmq724h&dl=0Link to new website- www.pbccresearch.comTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbFaith in Practice document- https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/j3jsediontgltrjn9o7vr/Core-Doctrine-Faith-in-Practice-highlighted.pdf?rlkey=izmqxvfqwg1hg2q5r9lkofvre&st=ozuls0gp&dl=0https://web.archive.org/web/20241011154325/https://theplymouthbrethren.org.uk/beliefs/faith-in-practice/Aberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace

In this deeply personal episode, the UK team of the Get A Life Podcast comes together to discuss one of the most challenging decisions anyone can face: leaving the Exclusive Brethren, now known as the Plymouth Brethren Christian Church. Jackie Hart, Andrea Becker, Ross Turner, Gilli Gilliland, and Lindy Jacomb each bringing their unique experiences and perspectives from their journeys out of the Brethren.This episode centers around the group’s practical guide “Thinking of Leaving,” a resource designed to help current members navigating doubts, fears, and the overwhelming realities of stepping away from a high-control religious environment. The conversation covers:-Understanding your motives for leaving and embracing your own voice-The immense emotional and practical challenges around family, employment, and finances-How to prepare, set boundaries, and access mental health and support networks-The real toll of rejection and the importance of rebuilding community-Honest stories from the panel about the pain, loss, growth, and freedom found on the outsideWhether you’re personally considering leaving the Brethren, supporting someone who is, or simply want to understand the complex journey out of a high-control group, this episode is an invaluable listen. And if you’re looking for support or want a copy of the “Thinking of Leaving” leaflet, check the links below.Thinking of Leaving leaflet-https://drive.google.com/file/d/1sBZ6k2CyH1cxF2JGs375TJMFQCZ_83Y_/view?usp=sharing 0:00 – Introductions & motivations for leaving 14:00 – Family pressures, boundaries, and personal stories 34:00 – Facing practical realities: jobs, money, and moving forward 52:00 – Communication, technology, and protecting yourself 1:04:00 – Mental health, support, and building a new life 1:08:00 – Faith, values, and finding your own beliefs outside the BrethrenTo share your story or be a guest on the show, email [email protected] a Life Paypal donations -https://www.paypal.me/getalifepodcastGet a Life GoFundMe-https://gofund.me/614bcd06PayPal link for USA- https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/8Tz4n35OJ8Olive Leaf Network- https://oliveleaf.network/Thinking of Leaving Pamphlet and resources - https://oliveleaf.network/resources/Link to Anchor/Spotify- https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/G6sjHA2xHwbPreston Down Trust Decision-http://www.charitycommission.gov.uk/media/591398/preston_down_trust_full_decision.pdfAberdeen incident- https://drive.google.com/file/d/1riImgAqwaqGwjYq6vRQIr4_jscJA0eQN/view?usp=sharingIf we walk in the light letters-https://drive.google.com/file/d/14WlgJladl1r95YGxW0FbZ0prYfjlg7FU/view?usp=sharingAdmin/Legal email address:[email protected] address:22 Braid BendStouffville ONL4A 1R7#plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch #pbcc #abuse #church #cult #religion #trauma #religioustrauma #sexualabuse #mindcontrol #brainwashing #conversation #exmembers #exposingtruth #expose #exposure #whistleblower #getalifepodcast #getalife #podcast #rules #strict #exclusivebrethren #brucehales #BruceHales #BDH #BruceDHales #UniversalBusinessTeam #UBT #RRT #RapidReliefTeam #Aberdeen #OneSchoolGlobal #OSG #johnhales #shutup #withdrawnfrom #worldly #excommunicate #assemblydeath #christiansect #christiancult #canadiancult #canadiansect #sect #worldwidesect #worldwidecult #cultescape #cultescapestory #bully #bullying #brokenfamily #awareness #cultescape #cultandculturepodcast #cultescapee #cultescapeer #cultescapeeinterview #askingforhelp #unispace