It's some 10 years on and I still remember the first time I met Baffs (a nickname). Standing 6.5ft trained and ready to show the world what he had to offer.
What I have come to realise and appreciate since this moment is, some people have a gift to share, and they want to share it, but you have to be prepared to ask them to share because if you don't you won't quite realise what it is there sharing.
What Baffs shared with me and a few others was the power of knowing what you can do, when others don't, but you help others achieve more because you give it without expectation, if that makes sense.
I was coaching the men's squad, we were in the ergo (rowing machine) room, we were to complete a widowmaker exercise, it was going to be 4 men vs 4 men (4 groups), a race over 2,000m.
Who was going to win? The best team of individuals or the team with the best leader.
I think we know how this one ended.
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