Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Get Out of His Life Raft


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“Why do I feel so anxious when he makes bad decisions?”
“Why do I keep trying to control him even though I don’t want to?”

This episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher gives you the answer—and a surprisingly freeing solution.

If you’ve felt that everything he does affects your peace, it’s probably because you’re still emotionally sitting in the same life raft. His bad plans, his good intentions gone wrong, his risky thinking—they all feel like threats, because they are. You're in his boat. But what if you weren’t?

This episode teaches a powerful concept: emotional and cognitive intimacy can’t grow inside the same raft. You need your own—your own stability, your own direction, your own emotional oxygen. Only then can you connect without anxiety, pressure, or panic.

You'll learn:

  • Why staying in his raft destroys intimacy and triggers control

  • How to build your own raft (pioneer woman mode) so you can feel safe again

  • How to tell if and when it’s time to tie rafts together—and what that really looks like

  • What to say (and not say) when his plans scare you

  • Why anxiety isn’t always a flaw—it might be your survival system sounding the alarm

  • How trust and collaboration actually come after separation and self-reliance

If you’ve been trying to fix, manage, or convince him to get on the same page, this episode might be the mind-blowing shift you’ve been waiting for.

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Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherBy Maurice Harker

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