Get Over Divorce

So ... you made that decision to separate. Your world of debating over assets, blame, events of the now-former union and sanity now begins.

And we haven't gotten to the biggest collateral damage whenever divorce happens ... children. Innocent figures almost overnight turn into bargaining chips between two people who are no longer in love with each other.

Every divorcee goes through the raw, unrelenting process of pain. You experience a death on earth, and Cole describes his moment in great detail. The most beautiful part about experiencing death on earth ... is there is life after death!

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OFF THE TOP ... ARTICLES

• Death or divorce: Which is worse?
• 5 crappy things you need to feel ...
• Divorce is like death without the support or rituals

SPIRITUAL CONNECTION LITERATURE

• With Christ, you can overcome the pain of divorce
• 12 steps for overcoming the pain of divorce
• The devastating effects of divorce

EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ezekiel 18:32

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Going into a death spiral after matrimony is not an easy decision to make. It should never be taken lightly. In fact, divorcee-to-be, your life will never be the same should you go through with marriage dissolution.

Before you enter the realm of separation, think it over ... and over .. and over. Do everything you van to avoid going through a divorce. If you see a way to resolve your marriage, please take the opportunity to do so.

Cole expresses his journey in entering a world where loneliness became an everyday companion. Divorce is not for the weak, and whenever anyone mentions the possibility, this is his first piece of advice he offers every single time.

Many thanks to the following resources for aiding in the production of this episode:

OFF THE TOP ... ARTICLES

• A good reason to think twice ...
• Slowing down and thinking twice about divorce
• Here's ... what to think about before divorce

SPIRITUAL CONNECTION LITERATURE

• 5 tips for Christians considering divorce
• Why you shouldn't give up on your marriage
• To a spouse considering divorce

EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Ephesians 4:32

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It is well known that divorce is like a death on earth. You go through a grieving process. However, to say "get over divorce," it sounds callous, harsh and cruel.

This episode explains the title of the podcast. Divorce is a stigma. You get through the pain. In order to get to a better place in life, you must get over all the generalizations of it. You have permission to rip off the scarlet letter 'D' for divorce ... forever!

Cole candidly talks about the moment he realized divorce wore him like a cloak. Just like being 'under the weather', he was 'under the influence of divorce'. He also mentions the moment he made his way out of that stigma - and into the better life which still lay before him.

Many thanks to the following resources for aiding in the production of this episode:

OFF THE TOP ... ARTICLES

• Divorce’s Problems with Social Stigmas
• The Divorcée Stigma That's Alive and Well
• Divorce Without Shame

SPIRITUAL CONNECTION LITERATURE

• Spiritual cul-de-sac: How the church fails the divorced
• Dealing with Guilt, Shame, and Social Stigma of Divorce
• The Stigma of Being a Divorced Christian Woman

EPISODE SCRIPTURE - Psalm 73:26

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It is never easy for you to go through heartbreak.

You don't know what do you .. where to turn ... how to be.

Well ... your answer is right here!

The way all of us can get to the ultimate level of joy and optimal happiness is if we tend to our hurt.

Cuts need care. Wounds need to be treated. Your heart is no different.

Before any lesson can be administered - this is the first step to your 'new day' and 'new you.'

This is how ... you heal ... from heartbreak ... forever!