“You are a creator… Watch life happening around us completely out of our control, outside of our own space. But there’s so much we can create inside it.” -Shirley Owens

With all the distractions we have in life, it’s hard to find quality downtime with the ones we love. With this COVID-19 pandemic, suddenly the world has been thrust into a space that it’s not used to. Less distractions and a lot of time for quality relationship building. Shirley discusses how we can make our family time a fun time. Often we look for what we want outside our own space. In this episode, Shirley also shares how we can create what we want inside it. Tune in and learn how to get rid of the fear, anxiety, and melancholy that we are facing today. 

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Highlights: 

01:00 Family Fun Time

02:22 Create What You Want At Home

 “You've got to really, truly be passionate about (your dream). And you’ve got to truly believe in it. And that confidence sometimes gets built by just sharing it with more people.” -Patricia Nash

It’s amazing how a simple accessory like a handbag can carry more than your things; it can carry your stories for a lifetime. Today, Shirley chats with Patricia Nash of Patricia Nash Design. Patricia shares her inspiring story, from designing bags for others to launching her own brand. She also stresses the importance of having balance between family and business, while achieving success. What makes Patricia’s handbags special and unique is that they are crafted by the best, with quality materials and most importantly, with heart. Each bag has a story, full of adventure and is intended to capture the memories of its owner. Today’s takeaway can be summarized in just one word- passion. You don’t have to worry if you don’t have the confidence to achieve your goal just yet. As long as you’re passionate about it and continue to pursue that passion, your confidence will grow before you know it. So before you go shopping, don’t forget to tune in to today’s episode!

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Highlights: 

03:07 Inspired By A 50-Year-Old Bag

09:26 Family Engagements

16:46 Build Confidence Through Passion

20:41 Craftsmanship with a Heart

22:21 Don’t Fight to Have It All 

“You can't ever go back. But you get to decide what pieces of you to take forward into the next part.” -Nina Sossamon-Pogue

There is no way to avoid adversity. But there is a way to navigate through it and use it to your advantage. Today, Shirley and Nina talk about how failures create the greatest successes. Nina shares her unique perspective on facing and conquering challenges and her method of Five-Year Thinking. She also addresses how we can narrow down our choices and be happy with the path we choose. Life is long. Whatever you are facing right now is just a fraction of your life. Learn from it and carry the lessons through the next chapter of your life. Never underestimate the power of resiliency. Tune in to today’s episode!

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Highlights: 

01:42 What Makes A Great Success

06:46 What’s Written In Your Book?

14:26 Don’t Forget Who You Are As A Woman

16:06 Five-Year Thinking

20:51 Narrow Down Your Options

23:46 Life Is Loonnnngg! 

28:50 Embrace Your Challenges With Resilience

“If we are seeking each day to be a conscious partner, we can only have growth in our relationship.” -Shirley Owens

Do you ever enter a relationship wondering “what can I get out of this”? Or do you go into it wondering how you can love and serve, without expectations? Today, Shirley reflects on how you can be a conscious partner and how you can help bring out the best version of your partner. Listen in and learn more about how to get what you want from your relationship. 

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01:44 The Right Way to See Your Relationship 

02:24 Conscious Partnership 

03:09 From Frustration to Flourishing Relationship

We all enter a relationship with a certain amount of expectations. When those expectations are not met, disappointment occurs. When disappointment occurs, so does an increase in the number of failed relationships. Today, Shirley and Alexandra talk about how to get what you want in your relationship. They discuss how to have a conscious partnership as opposed to a passive-aggressive or contemptuous one. These two women are in sync with each other as they share a powerful message! Whether you are currently in a relationship or contemplating being in one in the future, this podcast is for you. 

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Highlights:

03:13 Attraction With One Another

09:15 Feminine Qualities In A Masculine Context

12:52 How To Get What You Want

15:50 What Is Conscious Partnership

19:18 Passive Aggressive Relationship

26:06 Cultural Awareness

33:44 Blueprint For Conscious Partnership

41:01 How To Push In A Positive Direction

“Give up something that you feel may have some power over you... Your entire life will change once you realize that you have the power to do that.” -Shirley Owens

What’s in control of your life? Join Shirley as she shares how she regained power over something that may seem trivial but actually has a great influence in our lives- food. In this episode, you can learn how to balance your relationship with food, stay committed to yourself, and create the life you want. Tune in and join the “Give Up Something, Challenge” today! 

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Highlights: 

00:55 Your Relationship With Food

04:24 Commitment

06:00 The Give Up Challenge 

“Speak your truth 30% more than you do now. It will give you so much more range and so much more influence with the other person.” -David Wood

Is there something you've been wanting to say to someone, but can’t find the words to say it? Tough conversations aren’t easy to have, but could change your relationship and create a closer connection. Today, Shirley and David discuss how to recognize situations in your life where you might be needing to have a tough conversation. Most of these are  never had, because actually doing it is scary, anxiety provoking, and just hard. David shares the CASE Model of tough conversations, a four-step process you can follow to keep your wits. The goal of tough conversations is to get what you want and build better relationships. Learn how to weave accountability into the conversation as you make your point manifest in a dignified way. No more putting off tough conversations! Tune in and be motivated to get what you want by having tough conversations. 

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Highlights: 

03:23 Dare To Do The Most Daring Things

08:01 Benefits of Having Tough Conversations

12:45 Recognizing The Tough Ones

15:57 The CASE Model For Tough Conversations

21:06 Beware of the Traps! 

31:38 The Curiosity Game

38:10 Accountability Conversations

46:27 30% More

 You have to just get in the habit of showing up for you and for your goal because you're worth it.”  -Adam Schaeuble

Sometimes hitting rock bottom is just what we need to encourage us to start moving upward. In this episode, Shirley gets to know Adam Schaeuble and hear his inspiring “Million Pound Mission” story. Adam and Shirley also have a fun chat about taking the finger of blame and pointing it back at yourself. Being accountable for your choices and actions will ultimately help you to Get What You Want! 

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Highlights:

03:21 Rock Bottom Moments

06:37 Setting A Lot Of Goals

09:14 Accepting Responsibilities In Life

14:45 Step-By-Step Approach

21:49 Finding Balance In Health

24:55 Always Connect And Enjoy

27:29 Being An Implementation Dynamo

“You can live your entire life doing things without ever being something. But you can’t be something without doing.” -Shirley Owens

Are you a do-er or a be-er? In this fast-paced world, being able to accomplish (do) a lot seems to set people apart as “successful”. How do you keep up, yet not let life pass you completely by?  Today, Shirley will help you see how you can be both a do-er and a be-er and realize that when you slow down and spend more time “being”, the “doing” is way more enjoyable! Tune in and discover work-life balance in a more compound perspective.

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Highlights: 

00:50 Doing vs Being

02:50 Slow Down

“With more intentionality, with more being, it can be better than just good enough.” - Michael O’Brien

Do you ever feel that everything seems to be going wrong? It’s starts with one bad moment and then more bad moments until you’ve had an entire bad day? Some call it getting up on the wrong side of the bed. Did you know that you have the power to have it stop at the one bad moment? Shirley and Michael O’Brien share how we can stop bad moments from turning into bad days. Tune in and learn how you can create what you want out of your bad moments. 

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Highlights:

03:17 Turning Something Horrific to Something Amazing

09:53 How to Shift Your Mindset

18:52 Separation Between The Doing And The Being

26:50 As A Peloton Coach

33:19 Give Time For Yourself