Hey girl,

In this episode, I’m getting real about one of the biggest fears many women have when it comes to love, feeling like time is running out. That pressure to find “the one” by a certain age, to have the ring, the marriage, the family, it’s heavy. But here’s the truth: love isn’t on a timer.

And to help you move from anxiety to calm, I close this episode with guided breathwork exercises from Jesse Coomer, designed to help you reconnect with your body, quiet your mind, and remind yourself that love flows to you when you’re aligned, not anxious.

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3. ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest podcast here.
   
    

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this special episode, I sit down with two of my amazing clients, Cheryl and Skye, as they share their journey inside the Get Your Guy Coaching program. These women open up about where they started, the fears and struggles they faced, and how learning to set boundaries, banter with confidence, and flirt with ease completely transformed their dating lives.

This conversation is both inspiring and practical. If you’ve ever wondered how this program really works behind the scenes, these testimonies will show you what’s possible when you commit to yourself and your love life.


The success of my clients is always the biggest proof that this program works. When you learn to honor your boundaries, embrace playful banter, and confidently flirt, you create space for real love to come in. These stories are a reminder that love is possible and it could be closer than you think.

Here are 3 ways I can help you:

1. ​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!
2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about the man of a single mother. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Sincerely,

Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I open up about a powerful but often overlooked influence on men’s dating behaviors: their relationships with their mothers. These early dynamics shape the way men show up in love, connection, and partnership, and if you’ve ever been caught in confusing patterns with a man, chances are this might explain why.

This conversation is essential for any woman who wants to recognize these patterns early and learn how to respond with clarity and boundaries.
Understanding these mother-wound patterns isn’t about blaming men; it’s about empowering you with insight so you don’t get trapped in cycles that don’t serve you. When you know what you’re dealing with, you can navigate dating with more confidence, compassion, and self-awareness.

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about 5 mindsets in dating. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I’m with my girl Darcel, and we’re breaking down the 5 mindsets or archetypes that so many women fall into when it comes to dating: the Victim, the Sceptic, the Dreamer, the Seeker, and the Shifter. We’re unpacking what each of these looks like in real life, how they might be blocking you from love, and the shifts you can make to move closer to the mindset that will actually get you your person.

BIO

Darcel Being is a Master Certified Transformation Coach and Certified Brain Trainer, who blends neuroscience, soul-led strategy, and identity work to help women create extraordinary shifts in their lives. Known for her bold, no-BS approach, Darcel teaches science-based mindset strategies that rewire the brain, heal deep-seated patterns, and align women with their highest potential. Her signature work integrates subconscious mind reprogramming, nervous system regulation, and quantum leaping strategies...empowering clients to move from self-doubt and survival mode into unapologetic confidence, thriving relationships, and purpose-driven success.

Resources Mentioned:

https://www.tiktok.com/@lawofassumptionsecrets

https://darcelbeing.com/

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about scavenger hunt dating. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey Girl,

In this episode, I’m taking a deep, unfiltered look at shapeshifting, not the mystical kind, but the constant, exhausting personality shifts so many of my Black sisters (and women of color) perform just to survive in different spaces. From code-switching at work to toning down your true self on dates, I’m exposing the hidden costs of this behavior and showing you how to reclaim your authentic self so you can be loved for exactly who you are.

Here are 3 ways I can help you:

1. ​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!
2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about scavenger hunt dating. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Sincerely,

Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this uplifting episode, I sit down with dating coach and author Lily Womble to explore how gratitude can be a powerful portal for manifesting the love you desire. Inspired by her transformative book Thank You, More Please, we dive into why dating feels especially difficult right now — and how to bring back joy, agency, and fun into your love life. One of the standout tools we discuss is the Dating Scavenger Hunt: a playful and empowering way to challenge yourself, stay open, and make dating feel exciting again. This conversation is all about turning your dating journey into a space for fun, expansion, pleasure, and possibility.

BIO:

Lily Womble is sparking a feminist revolution in the way we date and find love. She was one of the top matchmakers in the U.S., but after setting up hundreds of dates, Lily realized that the answer to finding love was much deeper than a setup and that the way we are taught to date is still stuck in the patriarchal dark ages. She founded her company, Date Brazen, in 2018 and has since helped hundreds of women create love lives that are epic, settle-proof, and joyful-as-hell with her intersectional feminist approach.

She changes lives daily on TikTok, Top 4 Relationship Podcast- The Date Brazen Podcast, and sells out coaching programs worldwide. Her book, Thank You, More Please: A feminist guide to breaking dumb dating rules and finding love, is changing lives around the world, published by Legacy Lit. She’s been featured by the New York Times, Washington Post, NBC News, Oprah Magazine, and Glamour.

Resources Mentioned:

https://www.datebrazen.com/book

IRL Dating Scavenger Hunt

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Hey girl,

In this spicy and soulful episode, I sit down with the brilliant Shan Boodram, sexologist, intimacy expert, and certified baddie, to talk all things sex appeal, self-expression, and relationships. We explore how porn can be used as a tool for learning, not shame; the art of flirting; and how your sensual energy is a powerful magnet for love.

Your sensuality is sacred. Your pleasure is powerful. And your relationship to yourself, your body, your confidence, your turn-on, shapes everything in love. This episode is a reminder that being sexy, soft, and secure can all coexist. Let yourself explore, flirt, and fall in love, with yourself first, then with them.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

YouTube: @loversbyshan

IG: Lovers by Shan

Masterclass:

https://www.masterclass.com/classes/the-art-of-sex-appeal
https://www.masterclass.com/classes/the-art-of-sex-appeal/chapters/part-1-better-hotter-and-more-passionate-sex

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about Brandi’s GYG journey. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,


In this episode, I’m joined by one of my incredible clients, Brandi, as she shares her honest, vulnerable, and powerful journey through the Get Your Guy Coaching program. From initial hesitation to booking her intro call, to finally meeting her man — Brandi breaks down what the process really felt like from the inside. We talk about what shifted for her once she got into the program, the difference between watching content online vs. doing the work inside the container, and which tools and worksheets helped her transform. If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens when you say yes to yourself, this episode will show you.

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1. ​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests for to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!
2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about the vaginas, vulvas, and menopause, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Fenwa Milhouse for an open and honest discussion about women’s health — covering everything from vaginas and vulvas to the realities of menopause. We break down common myths, talk about how these natural stages impact relationships and intimacy, and share empowering insights for women navigating these transitions with confidence and self-love.

BIO

Dr. Fenwa Milhouse is a board-certified urologist and fellowship-trained sub-specialist in female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery. She previously worked for the largest private practice in the state of Illinois as the leading pelvic floor surgeon. She is currently the co-founder and co-owner of Down There Urology in Chicago - a specialized urology clinic focused on sexual dysfunction, pelvic floor conditions, hormone therapy, and cosmetic genital enhancement in men and women.
Dr. Milhouse enjoys using social media to destigmatize pelvic floor & sexual conditions, as well as demonstrate the importance of representation in Urology. Known by the world as "Your Favorite Urologist”, she has been featured on several media outlets including Yahoo, Forbes Health, GQ, HuffPost, Essence Magazine, CNN, and Insider to name a few. In 2023, Dr. Milhouse became the star of TLC network’s Dr. Down Below!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

IG: @drmilhouse

YouTube @downthereurology

Facebook: @drmilhouse 

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I unpack the concept of “safety” — in dating, relationships, money, and even within ourselves. We’ve been taught to chase external safety, but the truth is that safety is a mirage. Real safety comes from within. I talk about how boundaries, banter, flirting, and connection all start with the self. It’s not about controlling your environment — it’s about trusting your ability to handle whatever comes.

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about the scarcity mindset, check it out here.
   
   
   

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