Hey Girl,

In this episode, I’m taking a deep, unfiltered look at shapeshifting, not the mystical kind, but the constant, exhausting personality shifts so many of my Black sisters (and women of color) perform just to survive in different spaces. From code-switching at work to toning down your true self on dates, I’m exposing the hidden costs of this behavior and showing you how to reclaim your authentic self so you can be loved for exactly who you are.

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about scavenger hunt dating. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this uplifting episode, I sit down with dating coach and author Lily Womble to explore how gratitude can be a powerful portal for manifesting the love you desire. Inspired by her transformative book Thank You, More Please, we dive into why dating feels especially difficult right now — and how to bring back joy, agency, and fun into your love life. One of the standout tools we discuss is the Dating Scavenger Hunt: a playful and empowering way to challenge yourself, stay open, and make dating feel exciting again. This conversation is all about turning your dating journey into a space for fun, expansion, pleasure, and possibility.

BIO:

Lily Womble is sparking a feminist revolution in the way we date and find love. She was one of the top matchmakers in the U.S., but after setting up hundreds of dates, Lily realized that the answer to finding love was much deeper than a setup and that the way we are taught to date is still stuck in the patriarchal dark ages. She founded her company, Date Brazen, in 2018 and has since helped hundreds of women create love lives that are epic, settle-proof, and joyful-as-hell with her intersectional feminist approach.

She changes lives daily on TikTok, Top 4 Relationship Podcast- The Date Brazen Podcast, and sells out coaching programs worldwide. Her book, Thank You, More Please: A feminist guide to breaking dumb dating rules and finding love, is changing lives around the world, published by Legacy Lit. She’s been featured by the New York Times, Washington Post, NBC News, Oprah Magazine, and Glamour.

Resources Mentioned:

https://www.datebrazen.com/book

IRL Dating Scavenger Hunt

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Hey girl,

In this spicy and soulful episode, I sit down with the brilliant Shan Boodram, sexologist, intimacy expert, and certified baddie, to talk all things sex appeal, self-expression, and relationships. We explore how porn can be used as a tool for learning, not shame; the art of flirting; and how your sensual energy is a powerful magnet for love.

Your sensuality is sacred. Your pleasure is powerful. And your relationship to yourself, your body, your confidence, your turn-on, shapes everything in love. This episode is a reminder that being sexy, soft, and secure can all coexist. Let yourself explore, flirt, and fall in love, with yourself first, then with them.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

YouTube: @loversbyshan

IG: Lovers by Shan

Masterclass:

https://www.masterclass.com/classes/the-art-of-sex-appeal
https://www.masterclass.com/classes/the-art-of-sex-appeal/chapters/part-1-better-hotter-and-more-passionate-sex

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3. ​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about Brandi’s GYG journey. Check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,


In this episode, I’m joined by one of my incredible clients, Brandi, as she shares her honest, vulnerable, and powerful journey through the Get Your Guy Coaching program. From initial hesitation to booking her intro call, to finally meeting her man — Brandi breaks down what the process really felt like from the inside. We talk about what shifted for her once she got into the program, the difference between watching content online vs. doing the work inside the container, and which tools and worksheets helped her transform. If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens when you say yes to yourself, this episode will show you.

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Here are 3 ways I can help you:

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about the vaginas, vulvas, and menopause, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Fenwa Milhouse for an open and honest discussion about women’s health — covering everything from vaginas and vulvas to the realities of menopause. We break down common myths, talk about how these natural stages impact relationships and intimacy, and share empowering insights for women navigating these transitions with confidence and self-love.

BIO

Dr. Fenwa Milhouse is a board-certified urologist and fellowship-trained sub-specialist in female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery. She previously worked for the largest private practice in the state of Illinois as the leading pelvic floor surgeon. She is currently the co-founder and co-owner of Down There Urology in Chicago - a specialized urology clinic focused on sexual dysfunction, pelvic floor conditions, hormone therapy, and cosmetic genital enhancement in men and women.
Dr. Milhouse enjoys using social media to destigmatize pelvic floor & sexual conditions, as well as demonstrate the importance of representation in Urology. Known by the world as "Your Favorite Urologist”, she has been featured on several media outlets including Yahoo, Forbes Health, GQ, HuffPost, Essence Magazine, CNN, and Insider to name a few. In 2023, Dr. Milhouse became the star of TLC network’s Dr. Down Below!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

IG: @drmilhouse

YouTube @downthereurology

Facebook: @drmilhouse 

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I unpack the concept of “safety” — in dating, relationships, money, and even within ourselves. We’ve been taught to chase external safety, but the truth is that safety is a mirage. Real safety comes from within. I talk about how boundaries, banter, flirting, and connection all start with the self. It’s not about controlling your environment — it’s about trusting your ability to handle whatever comes.

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about the scarcity mindset, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I sit down with Coach Cass to discuss the scarcity mindset in love—both external and internal. We open up about our personal experiences with scarcity thinking and how it shaped our relationships. More importantly, we dive into practical tools and techniques that can help shift from a mindset of lack to one of abundance, leading to healthier and more fulfilling connections.

My experiences, along with Coach Cass’s insights, provide a powerful perspective on overcoming scarcity and thinking in love. Whether you're feeling stuck or looking to shift your mindset, this episode offers practical steps to create the love life you deserve. Stay tuned for more transformational relationship advice!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

www.WANTEDWoman.com

Facebook http://www.facebook.com/AskCoachCass
Instagram http://www.instagram.com/inspiremany

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about Shirley’s journey to engagement, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I sit down with the amazing AlignWithAlison to talk about the real value of working with a dating coach. We dive into what to look for when vetting a coach, the difference a good coach can make in your dating life, and why the investment in coaching is absolutely worth it compared to the cost of staying stuck or struggling alone. If you've ever wondered whether hiring a dating coach is really worth it, this episode is for you!

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Align with Alison

Instagram

YouTube

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about my own making with Daria Burke, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Hey girl,


In this inspiring episode, I chat with powerhouse Daria Burke about her book and her personal journey of transformation. We talk about the biggest shifts in her life, the power of writing your own narrative, and why it’s crucial for women—especially women of color—to own and integrate all parts of themselves.

Daria’s insights remind us of the power of embracing every part of who we are. By owning our stories and stepping into our truth, we open the door to deeper self-love and stronger, more authentic relationships. When you stop compartmentalizing and start integrating all aspects of yourself, you cultivate a life—and love—that is whole, empowered, and fulfilling.

Daria's BIO:

Daria Burke is an American writer, speaker, and wellbeing advocate. A marketer by trade and a seeker at heart, Daria is a storyteller and sense-maker, weaving together personal experience and the science of healing and transformation to explore new ways of understanding how we choose who we become. Her debut memoir, OF MY OWN MAKING (Spring 2025), is a soulful and scientific exploration of overcoming adversity, healing from childhood trauma, and rewriting one's own story. As a Chief Marketing Officer, Daria was named a 2020 AdAge Woman to Watch whose work has been recognized by Women’s Wear Daily, Forbes, Vogue, Town & Country, and The Cut. She has written for Fast Company, The Huffington Post, and Black Enterprise, and has appeared on The Melissa Harris-Perry Show on MSNBC. A distinguished alumna of NYU Stern School of Business (MBA) and the University of Michigan (BA), Daria was born in Detroit and now calls Los Angeles and East Hampton home.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

https://www.dariaburke.com/

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IG: @dariaburke

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Hey girl,

In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with the brilliant Dr. Thema to talk about the deeper emotional aspects of love and self-worth. We explore the importance of self-compassion, especially for women of color, and why so many struggle with being kind to themselves. We also discuss actionable ways to shift this mindset and the transformative power of self-forgiveness.

Matters of the heart go far beyond romantic relationships—they start with how we treat ourselves. Dr. Thema and I unpack the importance of self-compassion and self-forgiveness as the foundation for emotional wellness and loving connections. Stay tuned for more episodes focused on love, healing, and personal growth!

Dr. Thema Bryant BIO:

Dr. Thema Bryant is a psychologist, author, professor, sacred artist, and minister who is leading the way in creating healthy relationships, healing traumas, and overcoming stress and oppression. Dr. Thema is the author of the newly released bookMatters of the Heart(February 4, 2025; Penguin Random House) , which aims to empower readers to connect with themselves and to others, delving into topics such as control issues, emotional unavailability, practical activation activities, case studies, and teaching how toshift mindset and patterns around romance. Dr. Thema Bryant completed her doctorate in clinical psychology at Duke University and her post-doctoral training at Harvard Medical Center’s Victims of Violence Program. Upon graduating, she became the Coordinator of the Princeton University Share program, which provides intervention and prevention programming to combat sexual assault, sexual harassment, and harassment based on sexual orientation. She is currently a tenured professor of psychology in the Graduate School of Education and Psychology at Pepperdine University, where she directs the Culture and Trauma Research Laboratory. Dr. Thema is an ordained elder in the African Methodist Episcopal Church and leads the mental health ministry at First A.M.E. Church in Los Angeles. Most recently, she was the 2023 president of the American Psychological Association (APA) and is the host of The Homecoming Podcast.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Website: https://drthema.com/

IG: @dr.thema

FB: https://www.facebook.com/ThemaBryantDavis/

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