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He was completely hooked at the beginning. Texting constantly, making plans, telling you he’d never met anyone like you. And then, a few weeks later, he started pulling away.
Now you want to know how to get that back.
In this episode, I share 4 concrete tips to make a man interested again and get him chasing you, without playing games and without losing yourself in the process.
You’ll discover why reminding yourself what he’s losing is the first mindset shift that changes everything. Why letting him do the first step for at least three weeks is non-negotiable if you want him to fight for you. How making your own life exciting and attractive again is the fastest way to trigger his desire. And why being more social and active is what finally makes him realize you’re not waiting around for him.
Because the pattern most women fall into is the same one that kills attraction every time. Giving too much, forgetting themselves, and hoping he’ll come back on his own.
This episode will show you exactly how to break that pattern and become the challenge he can’t stop thinking about.
He used to think about you constantly. Now you're wondering how to get back inside his head and make him miss you the way he used to.
In this episode, I share what human psychology, and male psychology in particular, reveals about desire and what actually triggers it.
The answer is simpler than you think. Men are wired to want what they don't have. And the moment you become too available, too easy to reach, too predictable, you stop being something he has to fight for.
You'll discover why stopping yourself from making the first move is one of the most powerful things you can do right now. How to create memories so strong that he can't stop thinking about them. And why having your own dreams, your own projects, your own purpose, is not just attractive. It's what makes a man genuinely afraid of losing you.
Because getting your ex to miss you isn't about games or distance for the sake of it. It's about becoming so fully yourself, so alive in your own life, that he realizes exactly what walked out the door.
Your personality is your greatest asset. This episode will remind you of that.
You give him everything. Your time, your attention, your love. And yet, a few weeks later, he disappears. Or worse, he stays but stops putting in any effort.
In this episode, I share two powerful reverse psychology tips that will completely change the dynamic between you and your ex.
Because here is what most women get wrong. They ask themselves "how can I get him back?" and that question alone puts them in the wrong position. It makes them the one chasing, the one giving, the one losing.
The shift starts with one sentence. Not "how can I get him?" but "he needs to fight for me." That single change in mindset changes your tone, your energy, your confidence. And men feel it immediately.
You'll also discover why saying yes to everything is one of the fastest ways to lose his desire. And what to say instead when he wants to see you, a simple shift that puts you back on the pedestal where you belong.
Because getting your ex to desire you again is not about doing more. It's about reversing the dynamic entirely. From giving to receiving. From chasing to being chased.
This episode will show you exactly how to make that shift.
You give more than you receive. You're always the one reaching out, always available, always doing the most. And yet, he still isn't fully there.
In this episode, I share four secrets to make a man genuinely addicted to you. Not by playing games. Not by being cold or distant on purpose. But by understanding how the male brain actually works and using it to your advantage.
You'll discover why letting him do the first step is not a strategy, it's a psychological fact. The more he initiates, the more his brain locks onto you. How living fully, creating real memories, and enjoying your life makes you more magnetic than any text message ever could. Why being unavailable sometimes is not about playing hard to get, it's about having a real life worth wanting to be part of. And why working on your confidence and showing up as your most authentic self is the one thing that makes you truly unforgettable.
I also share a bonus tip about sexual energy and why being genuine in those moments matters far more than trying to please.
Because getting your ex addicted to you again doesn't start with him. It starts with you deciding to stop giving more than you receive, and becoming the woman he simply cannot afford to lose.
He used to reach out constantly. He was present, attentive, completely invested. And now it feels like he's slowly losing interest. Something shifted, and you don't know how to bring it back.
In this episode, I share the real secret to making a man miss you like crazy. And it starts with something most women overlook completely: confidence.
Because here is what actually happens in most relationships. At the beginning, you're confident, comfortable in yourself, not overthinking every move. And he is hooked. Then, little by little, as feelings grow, that confidence fades. You start reaching out more, suggesting plans, filling every silence. And without realizing it, you remove the very thing that made him addicted to you in the first place.
You'll discover why a man cannot miss you if you never give him the chance to. Why making things too easy for him kills his desire to chase. And how rebuilding that feeling of challenge, without games and without losing yourself, is what brings him back.
Because getting your ex back is not about grand gestures or perfect words. It's about becoming again the woman he couldn't stop thinking about.
The secret is simpler than you think. And this episode will show you exactly what to do.
You want him to be completely crazy about you. But you don't know exactly what to do, what to say, or how to show up differently than you have been.
In this episode, I share 11 concrete actions that will make a man fall deeply in love with you, even if he's been distant, even if he's been unclear about what he wants, even if he broke up with you and you want him back.
The first seven actions are the ones I see working every single day with the women I coach. Eye contact and a real smile. Asking questions he's never been asked before. Proposing one unforgettable activity. Living with purpose and sharing your dreams. Creating genuine intimacy beyond the physical. Knowing when to say no. And taking initiative at exactly the right moment during a date to keep the energy alive.
The last four are specifically for when a man is pulling away or has already left. Don't do his job for him. Flirt with him even when it feels counterintuitive. Never repeat the same activity twice. Make him discover new things because of you.
And the most powerful action of all, the one I specialize in: emotional communication. Not "I love you." But something so specific, so personal, so uniquely yours, that he feels it in a way no other woman has ever made him feel.
Because the goal is simple. You want him to look at you and think: she is different. She is the one.
This episode will show you exactly how to make that happen.
You give him your time, your attention, your love. And yet, it feels like he doesn't truly value what you bring to the relationship.
In this episode, I share exactly what to do when a man stops valuing you, and why the instinctive response most women have makes the situation worse, not better.
You'll discover why a man takes you for granted the moment he stops asking himself how to impress you. How neediness, even when it comes from a place of genuine love, pushes him further away. Why following his lead and always accommodating him is quietly destroying your value in his eyes. And how challenging him, not with games, but with genuine standards and confidence, is what makes him fight to have you back.
Because here is the truth. He doesn't value you right now because he doesn't have to. Everything is too easy. Too available. Too certain.
The moment you start valuing yourself, your time, your energy, and the moments you share together, something shifts in him. He starts to feel the pressure. He starts to wonder. And that is exactly where the reconquest begins.
This episode will show you the four concrete steps to change the dynamic, almost immediately.
You give everything. Your time, your energy, your attention. And yet, the more you give, the less he seems to want to come back.
In this episode, I explain one of the most powerful techniques in the reconquest process: the push and pull. Something men use naturally, often without even realizing it. And something you need to start using too.
This is not about playing games. It's about understanding a fundamental truth of human psychology: we always want what we don't fully have, and we fight to keep what we're afraid to lose.
You'll discover why doing too much actually works against you in a reconquest. What the pull phase really means, and why most women get it completely wrong by suffering through it instead of using it to their advantage. And how to balance your actions so that your ex starts to wonder about you, think about you, and eventually move toward you again.
Because the moment you stop giving everything and start focusing on building an amazing life for yourself, something shifts in his mind. He stops taking you for granted. He starts asking himself why you seem so different.
And that question is exactly where the reconquest truly begins.
You know he's a player. And yet, something about him pulls you in. His confidence, his presence, the way he makes you feel when he's there.
But you want more than his attention. You want his commitment.
In this episode, I share what it really takes to make a player commit. And it's not what most women try.
Because players are not attracted to women who give them everything they want. They've had plenty of those. The woman who makes a player commit is the one he has never been able to fully conquer. The one who stands her ground, knows her worth, and refuses to revolve her life around him.
You'll discover why solid self-confidence is the only real currency that works with this type of man. Why placing him on a pedestal is the fastest way to lose him. And how to flip the dynamic so that for once, he is the one trying to prove himself to you.
Because a player will always chase the woman who feels out of reach. Not because she's playing games. But because she genuinely knows what she brings to the table and refuses to settle for less.
This episode will show you exactly how to become that woman. And how to make him fight for something he has never had to fight for before.
You showed too much. You texted too often, said too much, needed too much. And now you can feel him pulling away.
The good news is that this is not the end. And the worst thing you can do right now is apologize.
In this episode, I share exactly how to redeem yourself after acting needy, and why most women go about it the completely wrong way.
You'll discover why apologizing actually makes things worse, not better. Why it's never about words, it's always about actions. And how to show him a new version of yourself that makes him forget the needy behavior entirely.
Because men are hunters. They want to chase a prize. And the moment you stop being anxious about losing him and start showing up as a confident, fulfilled woman with an exciting life, the dynamic shifts completely.
This episode will show you exactly what to do, what to say, and how to carry yourself so that he starts seeing you differently. Not the woman who was too available. The woman he now has to work to get back.
You didn't make an irreversible mistake. You just need to turn the page. And this episode will show you how.
From the publisher's feed
You thought it was over. He walked away, went silent, or told you it was finished.
And yet, here you are, still thinking about him, still wondering if there's a way to bring him…
Welcome to Get Your Man Back, the podcast where Alexandre Cormont, one of the world's leading love coaches, guides you through one of the most emotionally challenging experiences a woman can face: losing the man she loves.
And fighting to get him back the right way.
Every episode, you'll get honest, no-nonsense strategies drawn from over 17 years of coaching thousands of women across the world.
No false hope. No manipulation tactics. No chasing.
Just the truth about what really works when it comes to rekindling attraction, rebuilding connection, and becoming the woman he simply cannot forget.
You'll learn how to stop making the mistakes that push him further away.
How to understand what he's truly feeling, even when he says nothing. And how to rebuild your confidence so powerfully that he starts to wonder why he ever let you go.
Because getting your man back doesn't start with him. It starts with you.
New episodes every week.