Getting Better with Age

Do you feel guilty telling someone love "NO" because doing so means you're selfish and not a loving person? 

Does your big heart often lead you to feel burdened and stressed feeling like it's your job to take care of those you love and care for?

In this episode we’re going to take you through our journey of learning to care, without taking on the responsibility for someone else's health or happiness.

We’ll take you down the memory lane to New Jersey where we learned the life-altering mantra, "Care, Don't Carry". 

We’ll explore how love can sometimes be a double-edged sword, leading us to absorb too much of others' burdens and how it’s okay to step back and let others handle their own problems. 

We’ll also delve into the art of giving advice without unintentionally snatching away someone else’s reigns. 

So, loosen up, pour your favorite wine and get ready for an enlightening ride to make your life’s next chapter the best one yet.

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

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What if we told you love doesn't have an expiration date?  What if we were to tell you that the love your heart creates is out there and there were things you could do which would take you closer to finding it?

Today's episode is a breath of fresh air for those single and over 50, debunking the belief that finding love in the later years is a near impossibility.

We navigate the landscape of dating for those in midlife, presenting inspiring love stories of those who found their soul mates after 50.

We also take a deep dive into the various types of single men you're likely to encounter, breaking down the stereotypes and offering tips on spotting men with commitment issues or who are not healthy relationship partners.

Get ready for an enlightening discussion in the second part of the episode where we emphasize the significance of finding the right partner for you.

You'll be learning about crucial steps and strategies to find love, following a framework that makes it easier to find the love you're looking for...at any age!

We firmly believe that the desire and faith in love is just a part of the equation - the real game changer is taking action.

If you're feeling unsure or don't know where to start, fear not. We're providing some valuable insights to help you pave your path towards love. And remember, for more resources, don't forget to check out our website, TheLoveMentors.com

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

You might think you're chasing happiness, but what if we told you there's a deeper, more fulfilling emotion? 

We're going beyond the surface-level chase for ephemeral happiness, and instead, exploring the profound depths of joy. Joy is not just a fleeting feeling; it is a lasting state of being, which unlike happiness, emanates from deep within  you. In sharing our own personal experiences, we’ll help you comprehend this significant difference and why it's key to helping you have a more gratifying life.

As we journey through life, societal pressures and expectations often lead us to suppress joy. We’re taught to seek things that promise happiness, yet fail to deliver long-term contentment. 

We'll discuss the importance of differentiating joy from happiness, and how society, even with the best intentions, can inadvertently dim our inner joy. By exploring personal anecdotes, we aim to guide you in rediscovering what true joy really is.

Finally, we delve into practical action steps to help you uncover and nurture your joy.

This isn’t just about identifying what brings you pleasure, but how that contributes to your overall wellbeing. 

We believe acknowledging and embracing joy is a potent tool for creating and fostering a more fulfilling and enjoyable life.

We're excited to have you join us as we share our joys and learn how to discover and cultivate yours. Remember, joy is not just something to feel, it's something to live.

** Credit to the website we spoke about in this episode: https://www.compassion.com/sponsor_a_child/difference-between-joy-and-happiness.htm#:~:text=The%20true%20definition%20of%20joy,a%20choice%20to%20be%20made.

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

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Have you ever felt alone as you're trying to navigate the challenges that most of us experience in midlife? Well, we're here to tell you, you're not alone!

In this episode we bring you an enlightening conversation with Sherry Jib, the passionate creator of the Happy and Healthy in Midlife Summit.

Sherry is  and a certified movement educator in Pilates, Mat and Reformer, a reiki practitioner, and a personal trainer. She shares her inspiring journey of overcoming childhood trauma and health issues to dedicate her life to helping women thrive in their midlife and beyond.

This episode also peeks behind the curtains of the Happy and Healthy Midlife Summit, highlighting the exceptional range of engaging speakers and topics.

We delve into the world of self-love and acceptance, and how vital it is in our journey to personal growth.

Join us to learn about the empowering resources available to you, such as Sherry's Facebook group 'Love the Skin You're In', and of course, the Happy and Healthy Midlife Summit.

Whether you're in midlife or beyond, this episode offers a wealth of empowering advice, real-life experiences, and practical strategies that can guide you on your path to a better you and a better life!

Register here for the Happy and Healthy in Midlife Summit >> https://summit.sherryjibb.com/opt-in?am_id=natalie865

Join Sherry's Facebook Group Here >> https://www.facebook.com/groups/balancedmidlife

Learn more about Sherry here >> https://sherryjibb.com/

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Have you ever stood on the precipice of a major life decision, staring into the unknown, your heart pounding in your chest? Nothing brings us closer to our deepest desires than the courage to leap into that unknown. In our dynamic conversation, we dissect the fear and excitement that comes with such pivotal moments and delve into the elements of courage that often tip the scales in favor of change. We share intimate stories, from ending an engagement to transitioning careers, illuminating the transformative power of trusting your instincts, your values, and your dreams.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the leaps of faith we take in life and love, underlining the critical role a supportive partner can play in these monumental decisions. And we don't stop there. Engage with us as we tackle the crucial distinction between reckless leaps and necessary ones. We encourage listeners to take calculated risks, reminding them to do their due diligence, and to make decisions anchored in the heart and soul. It's about living life without regrets and moving towards a future you desire. Tune in and embrace the journey to your heart's desires.

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Congratulations! You've stumbled upon our 50th Getting Better With Age podcast episode - a profound exploration into the labyrinth of life's expectations and the havoc they wreak on our happiness. 

Have you ever stopped to ponder why your unmet expectations often leads you down a path that ultimately leaves you to feel angry, frustrated and upset? 

We did! And the answers we found might just change your whole perspective. 

In this we discuss how expectations, be it from parents, peers, or even the media, subtly shape our behaviors and responses, often causing unnecessary stress and unhappiness.

We help you understand how to manage these expectations, prevent them from controlling your emotions, and get you back on track to being happy, even when life (And people) aren't going your way.

Our conversation doesn't stop there. We delve into the crucial distinction between expectations and standards, revealing how the latter can become your guiding light when expectations fail you. 

You'll learn how to assertively stand in your power and demand the respect you deserve. 

We also discuss the expectations we place on ourselves and those thrust upon us by others, acknowledging the immense pressure they often bring.

More importantly, we offer insights on how to navigate these expectations with grace and compassion, without succumbing to the feelings of inadequacy they often incite.

This episode is more than just a podcast, it's your roadmap to a happier self, one that understands and appreciates the complexities of expectations and knows how to find joy despite them.

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Ever held yourself back because you were afraid of how others might perceive you? Ever kept your joy bottled up because you feared judgement? This is the unspoken reality many of us live with every day. In this heart-to-heart conversation, we uncover the truth about our fear of judgement and how it often holds us back from being our authentic selves. We expose the societal and parental paradigms that have us living life on autopilot and share personal experiences that highlight these scenarios.

We delve into the role our ego plays in disconnecting us from our true selves. We talk  about living authentically, the importance about being present, and how our emotional  triggers can lead us to foster inauthentic stories and beliefs. 

We reflect on the purity we have as infants when we arrive in this world full of love and innocence arrive  and how our Divine Light gets diminished as we grow and take on the indoctrination of our patents, religions and the world around us.

Lastly, we address the impact our fear of judgement has on our ability to make a difference in the world. There's a lot to learn and unlearn in this enlightening conversation. So, let's break free and dare to be the difference we wish to see in the world. Join us!

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Is there a roadmap to navigate through menopause and perimenopause? How can we address the changes and challenges that come with this phase of life? Let's embark on this journey together, as we have an open and honest conversation about our experience with menopause, its impact on our relationship, and how we embrace this part of our lives and  see it as an opportunity to grow as individuals and as a couple. 

Emphasizing the need to be your own advocate, we share our experiences and stress the importance of seeking medical advice and having candid conversations with your partner. We discuss the libido changes that can start as early as 35, and how a lack of knowledge can sometimes result in misunderstanding and lead to potential relationship issues. Yet, with open and honest communication, we all can better navigate these life changes. 

Lastly, we delve into the power of sharing, support, and connection when coping with menopause. Imagine having a friend to discuss these changes with, aiding in understanding and finding solutions that work specifically for you. Let's join this conversation, and together we can navigate midlife changes. Resources and ways to reach out to us for support are also shared, as we believe in the power of connection and community. Let's face it, these changes aren't always easy, but together, we can make the journey smoother. Tune in, and let's learn from each other.

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Why do our prayers sometimes go unanswered? Is God an omnipotent rule-enforcer, or a being of unbounded love? Today, we're diving headfirst into these hard-hitting questions as we grapple with understanding who God truly is. 

We'll put the spotlight on the paradox of unanswered prayers and tackle why calamities happen to the righteous, all while sharing our insights on how you can get your prayers heard and answered.

But we're not stopping there. The conversation continues as we uncover life's dichotomies and discuss how trials and divine storms are meant to thrust us into alignment with our true selves. 

We'll delve into the correlation between your mind and your heart and how to know  when what you want is aligned with your true soul's desire or your human ego. 

We'll also explore whether our connection to God requires weekly attendance in a house of worship, or can it be fostered somewhere else through daily moments of solitude, prayer, and meditation. 

So, join us on this enlightening journey, and let's challenge our beliefs together. 

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!

Remember the early days of your relationship? Those butterflies in the stomach, the thrill of every date night, the spark that glowed bright. Well, we're here to tell you that the flame doesn't have to die! 

In our latest episode, we  share our insights on how to keep that spark alive, drawing from personal experiences. From our magical night seeing  a Billy Joel concert in NYC to the sheer joy of a simple poke bowl, we explore how date nights – regardless of their grandeur or simplicity – are at the core of nurturing relationships.

Explore with us, the foundations of a strong relationship and the secret recipe to making it vibrant with each passing day. We'll take you through the importance of showing gratitude to your partner and making an effort to do something special – just like you did when you first fell in love. 

Got no partner? No worries! We also delve into the concept of dating yourself, because happiness starts from within. Let us help you navigate through the challenges of maintaining a relationship or finding joy in your own company. With nuggets of wisdom inspired by Tony Robbins, this episode is all you need to reignite that spark in your relationship or within yourself!

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Feel free to contact us with any questions/comments you may have about this episode via email at [email protected] or [email protected].

You can also send us a DM and follow us on Instagram @the.lovementors or reach out in our Facebook Group - Manifesting Love in Midlife. We can also be found on YouTube - @JoeandNat.

We always love to hear from you! Be Blessed!