Dr. Jean, The Results Queen® introduces Smart Person Syndrome®, the deeply ingrained need to prove that you are the smartest person in the room.
From childhood through formal education, many of us are rewarded for answering questions quickly and correctly. But what happens when that conditioning follows us into leadership?
Dr. Jean explains how leaders, managers, and business developers often rush to provide answers, tell long stories, and instruct others because they believe that demonstrating their expertise makes them more effective.
In reality, constantly supplying the answers can prevent employees from thinking critically, limit collaboration, and keep leaders trapped in the role of solving every problem themselves.
The smartest person in the room is not necessarily the person with the fastest answer. It is often the person who asks the question that causes everyone else to think differently.
Dr. Jean shares a simple framework for replacing answers with curiosity, including three questions she uses in leadership, coaching, strategy, and new business development conversations.
She also explains how to practice asking better questions through the Question Game, why leaders should remove "why" from their vocabulary, and how curiosity can create stronger teams, better conversations, and more meaningful results.
Dr. Jean recommends keeping three questions ready:
- Help me understand.
- What makes you say that?
- What outcome are you looking to achieve?
These questions can be combined, adapted, and used throughout leadership, coaching, strategy, and client conversations.
Pay attention to your conversations this week.
When someone asks you a question, resist the urge to immediately provide the answer.
Acknowledge what they said, pause, and ask:
"What outcome are you looking to achieve?"
Then notice how the quality of the conversation changes.
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