If you've struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren't even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure.

A few things you'll learn about in this episode:

• Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up
• Kait's advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed
• Kait's thoughts on listeners' desires and how to bring them up
• A sex communication tip Kait feels is super impactful and underexplored
• Why slipping out during sex happens and what to do about it

Learn more from Kait and her team and get awesome related resources at passionbykait.com!

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Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.