Five years ago, a group of friends gathered with August in the Girl Boner Radio studio to play You Don’t Know My Life. They shared spicy, funny, embaraassing, and touching stories from their lives. You’ll hear about puberty mishaps, awkward kisses, sexy exploration, unforgettable dates and more. Listen, enjoy, and play along! 

This episode features:

Erin Tillman https://erintillman.com IG: @datingadvicegrl

Makenzie Mizell https://www.makenziemizell.com IG: @makenziemizell

Rayne Parvis https://rayneparvis.com IG: @RayneParvis

Vanessa McGrady http://vanessamcgrady.com IG: @art_and_intrigue 

You Don’t Know My Life ttps://www.youdontknowmylife.com IG: @ydkmlgame

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Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

What if jealousy isn’t a monster after all? Dr. Joli Hamilton had built a career studying and helping others navigate jealousy when her own “green eyes” impacted her sexuality in ways she’d never imagined. 

You’ll also hear about Joli’s sexual self-discovery journey, an epiphany during her first marriage that changed everything, and her top advice for anyone struggling with jealousy -- whether you're in a polyamorous, open, or monogamous relationship.

Learn more from Joli at openeasier.com or jealousyroadmap.com. 

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Both Julia and Jeremiah grew up in religious communities, where sexuality, affairs and divorce were deeply stigmatized. Their journeys shed light on the importance of context around infidelity and the role evangelical ideas and purity culture play in all of these things.

Today, Julia and Jeremiah are certified sex therapists and co-hosts of the podcast, Evangelicals. Learn more at https://www.sexvangelicals.com

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Somatic sex educator, Chris Maxwell Rose, was leading a rich, full life when a sudden medical crisis threatened their life. Eroticism, care from others and, eventually, self-care, saved them.

Hear Charlotte Mia Rose’s story in the previous episode. 

Chris and Charlotte are co-founders of pleasuremechanics.com. Check out their courses, including Mindful Sex, here!

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Charlotte Mia Rose felt connected to her eroticism from early on. It remained a huge part of her life and identity into adulthood, when she met her life and work partner, Chris. A year after having a baby, Charlotte’s world changed when she became a triple caretaker. And for the first time, she felt an erotic disconnect. 

Learn how Charlotte found her way back, what she learned through the process, and practical ways to benefit from pleasure when you’re feeling spent. Stay tuned for Chris’s story in the next episode.

Charlotte is a somatic sex educator and co-founder of pleasuremechanics.com. 

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Ginelle Testa sought connection in chat rooms as a kid, which led her to webcam for coins and validation. Nancy Jo Sales was “very sexualized” in childhood, too, then experienced common and related challenges while using dating apps as a middle-aged woman.

Both women wrote powerful memoirs about their experiences – Ginelle’s with addiction and seeking belonging; Nancy Jo’s with online dating. And they both have a lot to say about self-acceptance, cultivating healthy relationships and pleasure - in and outside of the bedroom.

Nancy Jo’s story was originally released in a 2021 episode.

This episode touches on sensitive topics, such as abuse and eating disorders. Please take care of yourself while listening. 

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When Rena Martine found herself feeling burnt out in her career as a sex crimes Deputy District Attorney and unable to stay faithful in her monogamous relationships, she knew something needed to change. Epiphanies about both life areas changed just about everything for the better. 

In addition to Rena’s story, you’ll learn a powerful practice for turning yourself on – one that’s especially helpful for women, parents, long-term partners and anyone with a busy lifestyle. 

This episode also touches on:

What can happen when you have early exposure to sex, without context or education

The impact of 9/11 on Rena and her relationship

A threesome gone wonky

Rena’s first experience at a sexy Skirt Club party

Desires styles (and why you aren’t “broken” if you aren’t turned on in a snap)

Follow Rena on Instagram and check out her book: @_rena.martine_

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Mattie Jo Cowsert and Amber Cantorna-Wylde grew up entrenched in purity culture, which impacted their relationship to sex, pleasure, and themselves profoundly. Their rocky paths to freedom shed light on the powerful role sexual self-discovery can play in our lives and relationships. 

This episode touches on:

Childhood trauma

Masturbation and self-pleasure

Ways purity culture harms women, men and LGBTQIA+ folks

A common female sexuality stereotype

Spicy exploration

Benefits of trauma therapy and affirming faith communities in dark times

Learn more from this episode’s storytellers:

mattiejocowsert.com/godsexandrichpeople

https://www.ambercantornawylde.com

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Suzannah Weiss learned to loathe her body during adolescence. After high school, a positive hookup experience helped her realize why, and set her on a path of sexual self-discovery with her pleasure and needs at the center. 

Learn about her journey, including standout sex-related experiences — such as a BodySex workshop and orgasmic meditation — plus the ideas around sex and gender that felt off to her. She also shares her top related advice for leading a fulfilling life, in and outside of the bedroom.

Learn more about writer, feminist, and resident sexologist for Biird Suzannah Weiss at suzannahweiss.com. Find her new book, Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, most anywhere books are sold.

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Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. 

The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new stories!

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