GIRL CODE by Ladies First

Ever felt lost when making your new year resolutions? We've all low-key struggled with setting our goals for the year at some point in time. On our first episode for 2021, we're sharing with you how you can better identify the aspects in your life that you can consider working on throughout the year and ensure that it aligns with your personal objective because not every resolution suggested on the Internet is a one-size fits all. 

2020 wasn't the best year for most of us due to the pandemic and we have had a lot of time in solidarity to take things slow and reassess the things going on in our lives. Instead of purely resolutions for 2021, we're talking about all the things that we want to do before we hit the big three. Debbie joins the girls in our last episode for this year and shares about her future goals like having more kids and renovating her own house.

This time round, we're tackling the social stigma of what it means to be a young mum. In today's society, we may be more open to this issue but we cannot deny that it still holds some sort of taboo. Debbie, who is a young mum herself, has come to share with us her motherhood journey that started when she was 21. 

'Tis the season to exchange our fondest Christmas stories and memories with one another. The girls mention about how they have been celebrating Christmas growing up. From choosing trees to decorating their houses to playing Secret Santa with their friends and even choosing the right Christmas gifts. And with Liz joining us again on this episode, she shares her festive plans with her son, Reign, for the first time this year. 

Do you get frustrated with how your parents deal with certain things? Our parents will always have our best interests at heart even if their approach is not the best and this episode, Liz, who has recently became a mother to a cute and healthy baby boy, joins us to discuss about how parenting styles have changed from back in her days. 

All of us define love differently when we're at different phases in our life. Just because we were very young and still in school, it doesn't invalidate your  feelings when the relationship ended. This time, Grace joins the girls to share about her first heartbreak when things didn't work out with her best friend whom she had feelings for. Do you remember the first person that had a special place in your heart? 

It's all fun and games until someone asks "What are you?". Being a child whose parents come from different cultures and backgrounds, it can get pretty complicated growing up as you come to terms with your identity. This episode, we have Sierra over to share more about being a Chinese-Hispanic person living in Singapore and the contrast between the parenting styles she faces. 

Day by day, the number of people being active users of social media increases. With that being said, just how much power does social media have on us? This episode, Shannon joins us to discuss on the bane of social media that is preventing human interaction on dinner tables, having to deal with negativity from other users and being more particular about how our pictures look like to the mass. 

Walking away from a toxic relationship isn't easy. In fact how can you even tell that this person you're in love with has become toxic? In this episode, Juhi shares with our hosts how she stands her ground and walks away. Ghosting, physical abuse, and overly possessive behaviour are obvious signs, but here's how to spot the red flags before things start going downhill. 

The nightlife scene is all fun and games until you encounter upon a potential love interest. This episode, Vincent along with our two frequent clubber hosts, gather to talk about how the dating game is like when you're in the club. Are you always the one downing the shots or busy shooting your shot?