By Christine Gale
"Girl Out of Order" (G.O.O.O.) was birthed from a fierce desire to inspire and equip women to more fully embrace their unique selves and stop trying to fit into someone else’s mold. We tackle any t
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"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do." – Brené Brown
Hey there, sister! Welcome back to the Do You Know Who She Is? series, where we're diving deep into personal growth and self-reflection as we enter the final quarter of 2024. In this episode, I we talk about the genesis of the Girl Out of Order podcast, why I started it 3 1/2 years ago. The life-giving focus on self-acceptance has become a lifeline for me during some of my most challenging times. From battling the "shitty committee" in our minds to breaking free from the molds that never fit us, this podcast became a space for self-acceptance and empowerment—not just for me, but for all of us.
In this episode, we’ll explore what it truly means to own your story, love the woman in the mirror, and embrace self-acceptance as the foundation for living a life of alignment and purpose. We, as women, frequently battle feelings of "being too much" and yet "never enough". But most importantly, we’ll talk about why falling in love with your flaws is the key to becoming the woman you were always meant to be. Get ready to reflect on your own journey as we navigate how to finish 2024 strong and step into the new year with confidence, clarity, and self-love.
Join the October Recalibration & Connection Challenge and grow alongside our Girl Out of Order community! Complete the challenge for a chance to win a virtual ticket to our Own Your Worth event.
xoxo--Christine
[3:05] - The genesis of Girl Out of Order and how it became a lifeline
[7:30] - Breaking free from the pressure to fit into a mold that doesn’t serve you
[12:45] - Why self-acceptance is the foundation of growth and identity
[20:22] - The power of owning your story, flaws and all
[28:10] - A personal story about overcoming harsh criticism and staying grounded
[35:00] - The importance of mirror work: Looking into your own eyes and affirming your worth
[42:18] - How embracing your "mess" can lead to a life of contribution, not compromise
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EmpoWORDS: "I am my own muse. I am the subject I know best. The subject I want to know better." – Frida Kahlo
Welcome to our 1st series since December! In this episode, you'll be introduced to the S.H.E. I.S. model for identity creation because it's time to take ourselves back down to the studs. It's been a juicy year, filled with so many massive highs and some challenging dips. After my recent hysterectomy and the resulting pause, I've battled some self-doubt and allowed my old stories to infiltrate my new beautiful identity. It truly stunk, but I'm BACK!
This series is based upon my talk to the My Nashville Women's Power Luncheon where I talked about how to become a woman on a mission - our mission begins in the mirror. In this series, we will explore the S.H.E. I.S. acronym so we can anchor in our identity as we navigate life's eventful twists and turns. In this series, we’re getting back to the basics, focusing on five core elements that will anchor us as we move forward:
✨ Self-Acceptance
✨ Hero (Becoming your own damn hero)
✨ Essence (Honoring your unchanging values)
✨ Inquiry (Living a life of curiosity)
✨ Sword (More on this later—it’s a powerful one)
So grab your favorite cup of ____________, a journal and bring your open heart. It's time to recalibrate your identity and start locking in how your show up for your 1 beautiful life!
xoxo--Christine
00:00 Introduction to the Series
02:46 Reorienting Identity Work
06:03 Embracing Change and Setting Goal
08:56 Healing and Self-Discovery
11:58 Introducing the She Is Model
17:52 The Components of the She Is Model
20:46 Community Engagement and Call to Action
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with more women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
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Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
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"Too late for second-guessing, Too late to go back to sleep, It's time to trust my instincts, Close my eyes and leap." Defying Gravity from Wicked
In this episode, I'm showing up uninspired. Yep, you read that right: uninspired. In this episode, I get real about feeling creatively depleted after speaking to the My Nashville Women's Power Luncheon. If you’ve ever felt stuck or uninspired, this one’s for you. I share how I hit a slump after pouring my energy into my talk and and what I'm choosing to do about it: just show up!
If you're feeling depleted or stuck or just in a bit of a slump, hop on in here for some girlfriend time, some real talk about life's ups and downs. Sister, it's in those valleys that is critical that you keep showin' the heck up! That's what I'm doing this week and we're int his together.
xoxo--Christine
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with more women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
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"You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them." Maya Angelou
When is the last time you consulted your inner compass to make sure you are still on the right path? This week, I’m getting real and raw about my recent recalibration and how I worked through the darkness that followed. My goal is to share with you what I learned so you can decide if you need to recalibrate and then avoid slipping into dense fog when you change course midstream.
In today’s episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to recalibrate, why it’s so crucial, and how we can give ourselves the grace to make the necessary pivots. I get personal about my recent decision to delay launching the Own Your Identity Mastermind and the emotional journey of letting go to make space for what truly matters. If you’re feeling out of sync or battling internal resistance, this episode is for you. It’s time to honor where we are, what we truly desire and where we know we need to head. Let’s do this!
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If you found this episode helpful, please share it with a friend who might need a reminder that it's okay to take a step back. Don't forget to join our community and leave a review if you enjoyed today's show. Let's keep growing and supporting one another on this journey!
See you next week as we dive into my upcoming talk in Nashville—“Who S.H.E I.S.” It's going to be powerful! Until then, keep shining and stay aligned with your beautiful self. xoxo--Christine 💕
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The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
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Changes are afoot....Now what?
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” — Anaïs Nin
In this episode, we dive deep into a topic that resonates with SO many women: embracing changes we never wanted. Life is full of unexpected twists, some we see coming, others that blindside us. Regardless of how these changes appear, we face a pivotal choice in how we respond to them. As summer fades into autumn, it's a powerful reminder of the cycles of change that surround us. When we're faced with shifts in our realities, we are faced with a choice: welcome the gifts & grow or resist the changes and crumble. We talk about navigating life-altering events, from sending kids off to college to facing personal health challenges, and how these moments shape us. This episode is a call to action to engage with life's changes, to reckon with them, and to use them as catalysts for growth. Whether it's letting go of what was or stepping into a new season of life, we'll explore how to turn these transitions into powerful rebirths.
If you're ready to dive deeply into your identity as you navigate change, join me for the Own Your Identity 6-Week Mastermind starting on September 30th. Details found here: https://www.thechristinegale.com/mastermind.
Let's hug it out even as we light a fire under our booties to use these changes to take our gorgeous lives to the next level!
xoxo--Christine
[0:01] - Introduction to the episode and its theme: embracing unwanted changes.
[2:22] - Announcement of the "Own Your Identity" Mastermind, launching September 30th.
[4:45] - Reflecting on recent experiences with identity work and its impact.
[6:37] - The emotional journey of letting go as children head off to college.
[10:38] - Navigating profound life changes: personal losses, career shifts, and more.
[12:09] - Choosing how to respond to unwelcome changes: Finding the gifts in the unexpected.
[15:50] - The concept of "rebirth" and using seasonal changes as a metaphor for personal growth.
[18:51] - Practical advice on reckoning with and engaging with change in your life.
[22:26] - Building a supportive community and embracing personal evolution.
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
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Who do YOU say you ARE?
That's a question we should all be asking, doggone near every day and yet most women go through life, unaware, disengaged and disconnected from their most authentic selves. As we enter into the final chunk of 2024, I'm urging myself and you to WAKE THE HECK UP!
Summer's coming to a close, Autumn is dawning and it's the perfect time to take a deep breathe and set some ambitious goals. But what if the "goals" you set have less to do with achieving and more to do with becoming?
In this episode, I share a transformative experience I had recently while leading an identity workshop for my daughter's college soccer team. These young women taught ME so much! I did this workshop 12 months ago and what I realized is the woman I WAS a year ago is precious and I honor her. AND I have become such a stronger, brighter and more grounded woman because I chose to step out, step up and design the human I wanted to become.
It is time for you, sisters, to lean into uncertainty, take bold steps, and embrace the unknown to become a more authentic, powerful version of yourself. Whether you're feeling stuck, unsure of where you're headed, or ready to break free from the molds society has set for you, this episode is for you. Join me as I challenge you to set goals not just for what you want to achieve, but for who you want to be. Let's take this journey together to build the lives we're meant to live!
xoxo--Christine
We have a NEW gorgeous website! Check me out at thechristinegale.com. SOOOO many amazing things are coming!
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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"At midlife, women often find themselves at a crossroads, with the opportunity to step into their true power and embrace who they were always meant to be." Brené Brown
This week is EPIC! you do NOT want to miss this incredible conversation with my new friend, the incomparable Adrien Cotton! This woman is a goddess of energy, light, inspiration and hope. Let's be real: midlife often invokes fear and loathing in women, but it absolutely does not have to! Adrien shows us there is a different and life-giving way to embrace midlife and have it be the best season of life EVER!
Adrien is a wellness coach, menopause expert and a woman walking her talk! This episode is a conversation between two dynamos embracing midlife for the incredible, hope-filled adventure it is. Adrien has found a beautiful method to embracing menopause and find the gifts in this journey. You are going to totally fall in LOVE with Adrien's vivaciousness, energy and positivity! I am obsessed with this woman and thrilled to bring her to our GOOO community.
Listeners are privileged to get 20% off Adrien's online course, MASTER Menopause NOW!, with code GOOO20. THRIVE during the roller coaster of midlife with MASTER Menopause NOW! Adrien's first-of-its-kind, 5-module online program guides you to menopause relief. Using a holistic wellness approach, she provides simple strategies for mastering Sleep, Stress Resilience, Calendar, Movement, and Food as Fuel – essential elements of your wellness today and throughout the rest of your life. Purchase here: https://adriencotton.mykajabi.com/offers/kgp8CaSm/checkout?coupon_code=GOOO20
You can also find Adrien at all the places:
IG - https://www.instagram.com/adrienmcotton/ @adrienmcotton
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/adrienmcotton @adrienmcotton
Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/adriencotton/ @adriencotton
We have a NEW gorgeous website! Check me out at thechristinegale.com. SOOOO many amazing things are coming!
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristineg
"Healing is not just about getting back to what you were; it's about discovering who you can become after the storm." — Roxane Gay
In this special unplanned episode of the "Girl Out of Order" podcast, I give you a sneak peak into my health journey, just five days post-hysterectomy. This process, both leading up to the surgery and in the immediate aftermath, has triggered some pretty major reflections. Hop on in so I can share with you some insights I've gained about the importance of listening to our beautiful bodies, embracing forced pauses, and realigning with what truly matters. Whether you're navigating a health crisis, facing unexpected life pivots, or simply seeking clarity, this episode offers heartfelt wisdom and encouragement. Sister, you are so loved and we are in this life journey together.
xoxo--Christine
We have a NEW gorgeous website! Check me out at thechristinegale.com. SOOOO many amazing things are coming!
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
LIVE from the Las Vegas Airport!
"Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome." Brené Brown
This might be my FAVORITE episode of all time! It's definitely the messiest and at the quirkiest location. And that is EXACTLY the point. Tune in if you want the real, the raw, the in-state truth bomb that you have a responsibility to become THE woman you want in your life. Become the she you're seeking and you will then be able to see, feel, hear and know her when she appears in your life. Sisters, our tribe is EVERYTHING - to our growth, to our comfort, to our inspiration and to our essential kick in the bootie.
Join me at the Las Vegas airport terminal (yup, that's where I was at) as I recount the transformative 5-day adventure with my True Legacy Collective sisters as we did the work to find, speak and unleash our True Voices. Our hurting world needs YOUR unique voice to speak truth, peace, love and community. Hop in today as I get about as technically and emotionally raw as I could to urge you, my beautiful sister, to become the SHE your heart, mind and soul is seeking.
Xoxo--Christine
We have a NEW gorgeous website! Check me out at thechristinegale.com. SOOOO many amazing things are coming!
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
What are you holding onto that's keeping you stuck? What if you let it all go?
Imagine a life of freedom -- from your past, from trauma, from unforgiveness, from disappointment, from heartbreak. What are YOU refusing to let go of that binds your heart, cages your dreams and drains your energy?
Come along with me this week during my Power of the Pause period as I reflect on how much freedom there is to breathe deeply and release....just release. Sisters, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of finding strength in vulnerability, the importance of community, and the power of taking a deep breath and releasing our burdens. Join me as we discuss the pillars of Girl Out of Order and the incredible potential of embracing our true selves.
You got this and together, we can unleash the next beautiful stage of our lives.
xoxo--Christine
We have a NEW gorgeous website! Check me out at thechristinegale.com. SOOOO many amazing things are coming!
The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFk
Our Girl Out of Order Facebook Community is growing by leaps and bounds! WE WANT YOU THERE! Make sure you join because we have some very exciting developments coming and communities forming!So join our online community of women who committed to discover their true selves & connect with other like-minded humans: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2
Please share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:
https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorce
Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!
Email me at [email protected]
http://girloutoforder.com
https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale
https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/
https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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