In this episode, Girl, Stop Leading Where God Told You to Follow, Janique shares what God has been pressing on her spirit in this season: the need to let go of control and truly follow where He leads. 

For years, Janique has been in the captain’s seat, leading, guiding, fixing, planning. But God is now calling her into a different kind of stewardship, one that’s rooted in surrender, not control.

If you’re in a season where God is asking you to slow down, surrender the outcome, or show up differently, this episode is for you. 

Learn what it means to check your heart before you move, stop micromanaging God’s plans, and truly steward what He’s placed in your hands His way, not yours.

Reference Episode - S2 Ep 11- Girl, Shift your heart posture

Key Takeaways

1. Surrender is not weakness, it’s wisdom and obedience.
2. Stewardship God’s way requires heart-level surrender, not just surface-level obedience.
3. Check your motive before you move, sometimes it’s not God leading, but fear, pride, or control.
4. You can’t micromanage the outcome and still call it trust.

Anchor Scriptures - 

1. Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”
2. Psalm 37:23–24 (NLT) –“The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will never fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.”
3. Proverbs 16:9 (NLT) – “We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.”

Other Scriptures

1. 2 Corinthians 10:5 (NLT) – “…We capture their rebellious thoughts and teach them to obey Christ.”
2. Romans 5:3–5 (NLT) – “…suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope…”
3. Matthew 7:13–14 (NLT) – “…the gate is narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.”

Homework: Where have you been trying to lead when God asked you to follow? What assignment has God given you that feels uncomfortable because it requires surrender?

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In this episode, Girl, Get Wisdom and Get Moving, Janique goes into teacher mode and walks us through Proverbs 19 and 20 to uncover the wisdom we need for faithful stewardship. Building on last week’s Parable of the Talents, she shows how wisdom, diligence, and generosity are key to honoring what God has entrusted to us. Through practical examples, humor, and powerful scripture, this episode reminds us that stewardship is not about rushing ahead or sitting idle, it’s about moving in God’s timing with obedience and reverence.

Key Takeaways

1. Stewardship requires wisdom and patience.
2. Stewardship rejects laziness and neglect
3. Stewardship embraces generosity and reverence for God
4. Stewardship requires submission to God’s direction and timing

Anchor Scriptures - NLT

1. Proverbs 19:2, 15, 17, 21,23
2. Proverbs 20:4
3. Matthew 25:31- 46* (Reference)

Homework: What has God entrusted me with in this season and how am I currently stewarding them? Am I rushing, being idle, or am I moving diligently in God’s timing?

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In this Season 3 opener, Janique shares life updates from the four months between Seasons 2 and 3, a whirlwind of voice loss, family celebrations, new work assignments, and God-appointed opportunities. Through it all, God has been speaking one word loud and clear: Stewardship.

Using the Parable of the Talents in Matthew 25:14–30 as the anchor, Janique unpacks how God has entrusted each of us with unique gifts, abilities, and opportunities, and how He expects us to use them faithfully for His Kingdom. We are not owners, but stewards. And one day, we will give an account for what we’ve done with what He’s placed in our hands.

Key Takeaways

1. God knows exactly what we can handle.
2. We’re called to use what God has given us well.
3. One day, we will give an account for how we used our gifts, talents, and abilities.
4. We don’t own anything. Everything belongs to God.

Anchor Scriptures - NLT

1. Matthew 25:14–30 — The Parable of the Talents
2. 1 Corinthians 4:2 
3. John 9:4

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In this final episode of Season 2 of Girl, Relax and Trust God, Janique is breaking down what it really means to "push through" from a biblical perspective—not the world’s version rooted in pride, ego, and hustle culture, but God’s call to endure. The world tells us to grind until we burn out, but God invites us to walk with Him in strength, guidance, and peace.

Janique explores the powerful difference between striving in our own strength versus enduring with purpose, hope, and faith. Through various stories of people in the bible including Job, Nehemiah, Mary,and Jesus, we’re reminded that spiritual endurance is rooted in obedience, trust, and God’s love—even when life doesn’t make sense.

Reference Episode: What God Showed Me This Week: S.T.O.P.P.

Key Takeaways

1. Spiritual endurance is not about proving your strength—it’s about trusting God’s.
2. Endurance is obedience over time, even when it doesn’t make sense.
3. You can’t have full control and full peace.
4. Endurance is rooted in love, guided by the Spirit, and grounded in faith.

Anchor Scripture:

Romans 5: 3 - 4 (NLT)

“3 We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. 4 And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.”

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Welcome to the first installment of a new bonus series called “What God Showed Me This Week.” These are short, spirit-led reflections straight from my journal and prayer time - real moments where God is growing and stretching me. This week, He gave me a gentle but powerful reminder: STOPP—Stop, Take a breath, Observe, Pray, Proceed.

After years of overthinking and waiting for the “perfect” time to act, I have been learning how to move with God, not ahead of Him. In this episode, I’m sharing how God is shifting my pace, my posture, and my prayers—and why peace is often the confirmation we’re walking in step with His will. If you've been asking God for direction but still feel stuck, this one’s for you.

Reference Episode: S2 Ep 11: Girl, Check Your Heart Posture

Anchor Scripture:

Ephesians 6:12 (NKJV)

“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."

Homework:

Take 10-minutes to connect with God and use the STOPP framework and see how the spirit moves you. 

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In this episode, Girl, Shift Your Heart Posture, Janique shares a powerful lesson God revealed through her four-year-old daughter—a reminder to see beauty in the ordinary and to shift from a posture of complaint to one of awe.

Walking through Psalm 8, Janique invites you to reflect on the majesty of God, the humility of our humanity, and the divine authority we’ve been given. This is a call to pause, praise, and realign your heart with truth. Because when you shift your heart posture, you make room for peace, gratitude, and trust to take root.

Anchor Scripture:

Psalm 8:1-9  (NLT)

Key Verses 1-2 "O Lord, our Lord, your majestic name fills the earth! Your glory is higher than the heavens. You have taught children and infants to tell of your strength, silencing your enemies and all who oppose you."

Homework:

Set aside 10 minutes this week—just you and God. No requests. No distractions. Just sit in stillness and speak out loud who He is. Worship him from a place of awe. Then journal that experience.

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In this episode, Girl, Stop Dimming What God Lit: Shine On Purpose, Janique dives into what it truly means to let your light shine and reflect God’s presence in your everyday life. Inspired by the song “The Light” by Jor’dan Armstrong and the timeless truths in Scripture, we’re challenging the habit of dimming ourselves—whether out of fear, insecurity, or the need for external validation.

God lit something in you on purpose—and it’s time to let it shine.

The Light - by Jor’dan Armstrong - Youtube

Reference Episode: Girl, Trust God's Timing

Key Takeaways

1. Your light is not about you—it’s about reflecting God’s glory.
2. The fruit of the Spirit is how we shine consistently (Galatians 5:22-23).
3. God’s timing is perfect. Shine now—He’ll make the rest happen (Isaiah 60:22).
4. Guarding vigilantly means protecting your light from the people (including yourself), patterns, and thoughts that try to dim it.

Anchor Scriptures:

• John 8:12 (NIV) – “I am the light of the world... you will have the light of life.”
• Matthew 5:14–16 (NLT) – “You are the light of the world... let your good deeds shine out for all to see.”
• Galatians 5:22–23 (NLT) – The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. 
• Isaiah 60:1–5, 17–22 (NLT) – “Arise, Jerusalem! Let your light shine for all to see…”
• Psalm 119:105 (NLT) – “Your word is a lamp to guide my feet, and a light for my path.”

Homework Question:

1. Read and meditate on all of the scriptures in this episode. 
2. What areas of your life have you dimmed your light or allowed your light to be dimmed? Ask God to help you surrender those areas back to Him so His light can shine through you fully.

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In this episode, Girl, Get Back to the Basics and Reconnect with God, Janique talks about what it means to get back to the basics and reconnect with God. Spiritual warfare is real, and life’s busyness can pull us away from consistent time with God. But Janique reminds us that God hasn’t moved—we just need to realign. Janique walks the listeners through practical steps to eliminate distractions, prioritize God daily, and rebuild our spiritual foundation.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to reconnect, this is it. 

Resource: Feelings Wheel

Basics - Jonathan McReynolds

First Always - Jonathan McReynolds

Key Takeaways

1. God hasn’t moved—we have. If we feel distant, we need to realign our focus.
2. Be specific about how you feel. Whether you’re feeling distant, distracted, or disconnected, name it so you can pray about it effectively.
3. Get back to the basics of faith - prioritize time with God and reignite your prayer and study life.

If you’ve fallen off, just start again. There’s no shame in resetting your faith journey.

Anchor Scriptures:

• James 4:7-10 – "Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you..."
• Jeremiah 29:13-14 – "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart."
• Psalm 145:18 – "The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth."
• Revelation 2:4-5 – "Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first. Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first."
• Matthew 6:33 – "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."

1. How do you currently feel in your relationship with God? (Distant, distracted, complacent, dry, or strong?)Why do you think you feel that way?
2. What is one thing you can do this week to reconnect with God?

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In this episode, Janique gets real about what it looks like to feel depleted, distracted, and disconnected—and how to reset, refocus, and realign with God. When life gets overwhelming, it’s easy to choose comfort and convenience over obedience and discipline. But just because something feels good in the moment doesn’t mean it’s truly beneficial.

Janique shares her personal struggles with slipping into complacency and reminds us that no matter how far off track we feel, each day is a fresh opportunity to realign with God’s purpose.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, tired, or unmotivated, this episode is your reminder that you don’t have to stay there. Reset, refocus, and get back on track—God is calling you forward!

Reference Episode: S1 Bonus Episode 1 - Girl, Prioritize Rest

Key Takeaways

1. Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should 
2. God’s mercy renews daily 
3. Release the past, and press forward in Faith 

Anchor Scriptures:

• 1 Corinthians 10:23 – "You say, ‘I am allowed to do anything’—but not everything is good for you. You say, ‘I am allowed to do anything’—but not everything is beneficial."
• Lamentations 3:22-24 – "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, ‘The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him.’"
• Philippians 3:13-14 – "Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us."

Homework Question:

1. In what areas of your life have you chosen comfort over obedience and need to reset and refocus? 

2. What’s one practical step you can take this week to reset and refocus to realign with God?

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In today’s episode, Girl, It’s Time to Let Go: Release What’s Weighing You Down, Janique is speaking to the woman that may mentally, emotionally, or spiritually drained. The woman that finds herself holding onto things that no longer serve her, because it might be time for a spiritual detox.

Just like our bodies need to cleanse from toxins, our spirit also needs a reset. When we hold onto negative thoughts, unhealthy habits, and emotional burdens, we block ourselves from receiving God’s peace, clarity, and abundance.

If you’ve been feeling heavy, stuck, or overwhelmed, this conversation is for you!

Reference Episode: Girl, Stop Chasing & Receive God’s Abundance

Key Takeaways

1. We need a spiritual detox when we feel spiritually drained, overwhelmed, and disconnected from God.
2. A detox is about releasing what we were never meant to carry
3. Letting go makes room for God’s abundance.
4. Detoxing is uncomfortable at first, but it leads to transformation.
5. Your desires will begin to change.

God is ready to pour out more—but you have to make room.

Anchor Scriptures:

• Matthew 11:28-30 – Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…
• Hebrews 12:1 – Let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up.
• Psalm 46:10 – Be still, and know that I am God.
• Ephesians 3:20 – Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us.

Homework Question:

What is one thing you need to release in this season to make room for more of God?

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