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“What do you do when God Doesn’t show up the way you thought he would?”

Our plans fizzle, dreams shatter, expectations get crushed, people betray or let us down -

Maybe for you, it was information you

received from a Dr.

Perhaps your plan b came through an email that causes you to doubt your husband, -

Maybe, it’s, your children not fitting into the perfect mold you had for them.

Basically Plan A comes to an abrupt stop . . . Plan B hijacks your life.

Our show today is stepping into this aspect of shattered dreams that may have you questioning and wondering, “Where are you God in all of this?”

At times it can seem as though everyone else has it all together.

Everyone is getting married . . . happily - for - ever- after.

Everyone is fiercely successful in their career.

Everyone is ecstatically joyful with being an empty- nester!

Everyone is having a baby . . . a beautiful one on an exotic island!

But . . . Everyone has shattered dreams.

Fizzled plans.

Crushed expectations.

Wounded by friends.

We have all been disappointed, broken and need healing. Listen in for . . . now what

Could your parenting use a little first aid?

We all know that perfect parenting does not exist . . . YET -

We want to know that if we follow certain rules or methodology our children will, be happy, have fabulous friends, achieve professional success, and love Jesus!

How do we make this happen?

Are you hungry for true community, deeper connection with God, and friendships that are greater than just “likes” on social media?

Listen in for Friendship - tips on “4 ONE ANOTHERS”

FRIENDSHIP

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

Romans 12:10

FAITH

“Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.”

1 Peter 1:22

FORGIVENESS

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you."

Colossians 3:13

FERVOR

“Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.”

Colossians 3:16

Every couple knows they need to talk with each other. Every couple knows they need to pay attention to how they can communicate better.

These practical marriage tips by pastor and author Rob Flood not only explores why couples should grow in communication, but it addresses the “how” of communication.

With These Words offers in-depth, theologically rich tools that will also help flourish relationships outside of your marriage—your relationship with your kids, your friendships, and your coworkers.

In the face of many emotions and obstacles, there is a clear purpose and a clear method for words.

For the first time in U.S. history, we are working with 5 generations! EEK! How do we do it? What can we learn to make sure we are aware of our blindspots?

Traditionalist: 1925-1945

Baby boomers: 1946-1964, ages 55-73

Generation X: 1965-1983, ages 36-54

Generation Y / Millennials: 1984-1996, ages 23-35

Generation Z / Gen 2020: 1997-mid-2000s, ages mid-teens-22

Today, Baby boomers are being pushed aside as the Millennials are taking over in the workforce. (source: Harvard Business Review)

Each generation has their values and experiences that they bring to the table, from the peak of the Cold War to being a digital native. It’s important to be aware of these differences and how it affects you as you lead.

OK, it’s natural for teenagers to want their independence. They are dying to get out from underneath our roofs. They want to be with their friends and they want to be planning their future. We are trying to push them out of the nest and let them fly and instead we are here at home playing cards wearing masks.

What are some strategies and tips for us to get through this challenging time? Stay tune and let’s dive in.

You might be struggling with your marriage, with an ex-husband or disputes over your children. Perhaps you are dealing with conflict in a work relationship . . .

Rather than waking up every day in a state of mind where it is not well with your soul, consider giving yourself an awesome gift - and that is the gift of peace.

A gift of a mediator.

What is mediation? Why do we need to mediate? What’s the difference between hiring an attorney or hiring a mediator?

What is the process of mediation? What are the fees for mediation?

And what do I walk away with if I go through mediation?

Listen in for answers to these questions.

Gen Z and the Coronavirus Pandemic!

Is this frightening or exhilarating?

Gen Z is being bathed in antibacterial soap!

Toilet paper is scarce!

Masks are being worn!

Schools are being canceled and moved to Zoom!

Who knew?

Yet ~ through all of the panic of the coronavirus and recession fears, Millennials and Gen Z are still in a “Peace-Out” mode.

Millennials and Gen Z are being practical amidst coronavirus and recession fears - God is still in control.

Where The Wild Things Are

It’s scaaarrrrry - Fear of the dark - monsters in the closet - anxiety about going to bed – these are all relatively common in young children at some point during their childhood. Going to bed and turning out the lights can be a hard time for many children. When you can’t see what is around you and your mom and dad leave the room . . . EEEK!

How do you address your child's fears? How do we help them fall asleep and stay asleep?

Awesome Tips:

1. Read Psalm 23

2. Check out this book, “Why Do We Say Good Night.” Where Champ Thorton host of “In the Word, On the Go“ shares, “as a parent, I know that especially with little children, bedtime can be a scary time. It’s dark, and they’re left in their room by themselves. Nightlights are helpful, but it’s the light of God’s Word that shines the brightest in these moments. When our kids were little, I wanted them to know that the Lord was with them; he is the good Shepherd who loves his sheep. And he’s the one who made the dark; nighttime was his very good idea. This book is something that parents can read to very young children at bedtime to gently acknowledge their fears and point their hearts to the Lord.”