Giving Up

Giving Up

By John deBary, Youngmi Mayer, Alex PemouliéComedySociety & Culture
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Giving Up episodes

  • Thunderingly Good

    And we're back with season three! The crew's made a soft pivot towards content that reflects their restaurant-adjacient millenial identities. The Thunderdome leads to a conversation about outgoing New York Times restaurant critic Pete Well's farewell column.

    Media:

    Alex - Kevin Can F*ck Himself

    Youngmi - Love Island UK

    JdB - Drag Race Philippines

    1 hr 4 min
  • Season Two Finale Extravaganza

    Every ten episodes a new seaon begins, apparently. On this, the last episode of season 2, the crew debates the RNC-related Grindr spike in Milwaukee, communal tables in restaurants and answers an advice question that has it all: dead mothers, intergenerational conflict, and restaurant etiquitte.

    Don't forget to send us your advice questions! DM us on instagram, email us [email protected], or send us a question anonymously.

    Media:

    John: Fringe

    Alex: Game of Thrones (still)

    Youngmi: Exhibit by R.O. Kwon

    1 hr 2 min
  • I'm Glad I Didn't Go To Law School

    John and Youngmi begin by recounting their witnessing of the deadly July 4h incident on the Lower East Side where a drunk driver drove a pickup truck into a crowd of people. The crew then discusses the pros and cons of social media-based mental health diagnoses before tackling an advice question about not ending up where you though you'd be.

    Media:

    Youngmi - A Quiet Place Part II

    John - Chain Gang All Stars

    Alex - Inside Out 2

    54 min
  • It's Giving Feedback

    The crew begins by discussing the dynamics of emotional expression as it relates to gender expectations and neuroatypicality. The topic of mid-life crises re-emerges before a Thunderdome focusing on how to best think about receiving critical feedback. The advice section takles the oset of adult financial concerns.

    [Sorry about the audio at the beginning! John's mic was turned off lol]

    Media:

    Alex: Game of Thrones

    Youngmi: America's Sweethearts

    John: Mad Max Fury Road

    1 hr 8 min
  • Down-Sold

    The crew kicks off with a discussion of what makes good service in restaurants and how long to hold on to anger. The chat dives even deeper into restaurant gripes in the Thunderdome. The advice question centers on parenting self-assured children.

    Media:

    John: The Boys

    Alex: Dallas Cowboys Documentary

    Youngmi: The Rachel Divide

    55 min
  • Studied Abroad (Derogatory)

    The episode kicks off with a discussion of life's struggles that transitions to a conversation about the crew's study abroad experiences. The advice segment centers around the question of entering into a relationship with someone who is possibly entering into a green card marriage.

    [Please note that this episode contains discussions and descriptions of intimate partner violence.]

    Media:

    John: Hannah Einbinder's Everything Must Go

    Alex: Tell Them You Love Me

    59 min
  • Intrusive Thought-Coded

    The crew kicks off the episode with some musings on TikTok-related hydration misinformation before transitioning to a discussion of what to do as parents (not John) when a child's friends are being mean to them.

    The Thunderdome swirls around wealth culture and the advice segement further explores economic despair by answering a listener question about the best way to critique capitalism.

    Media:

    Alex - Hitler and the Nazis

    Youngmi - The Life and Trials of Oscar Pistorius

    John - The Acolyte

    1 hr 5 min
  • Gaslighting Up

    The crew starts off hot and heavy with a spirited discussion of gaslighting before discussing millenial consumerism in the Thunderdome. Nether-region higene is the advice topic of the day.

    Media:

    Alex - Bridgerton and Andrew Scott Erotica

    Youngmi - Big Vape

    John - Final Fantasy VII (original)

    1 hr 2 min
  • A Very Special Episode

    This episode the crew sets aside formalities to address the difficult subject of pet death and the emotional landscape of considering creatures who's understanding of the world is so different from our own.

    Our advice section continues to orbit around ADHD and Autism, this time as it releates to creativity and artistic expression.

    Media:

    Alex - We're Here

    John - Furiosa

    Youngmi - Ashley Madison Documentary and The Iron Claw

    46 min
  • Stop Trying To Make "West-Elm-ification" Happen

    Season two is in full swing as the crew talks about what the best age to have kids is and the show experiences an unprecedented Thunderdome result. John fields an advice question about his recent autism screening.

    Our Media:

    Youngmi: Aaron Hernandez Documentary

    Alex: Stranger Things

    John: NJ Turnpike Signs

    53 min

About Giving Up

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Giving Up is the podcast where three aging Millennials talk about giving up: surrendering to the inexorable march of time and their inevitable demise. Each week we talk about why the world is mad at…