Ever feel like you're the only one who didn't get the memo on how life was "supposed" to go? 👀

This week Pam & Hannah are getting real (and a little unscripted) about feeling left behind: that gut-punch comparison spiral when you look around and feel like you're not where you "should" be by now.

We're talking about the timeline nobody asked for but everybody got handed, good grades, good college, good job, good man, marriage, house, babies, in that order, by a certain age, and what happens when your actual life doesn't follow the script. Pam opens up about her non-traditional path (GED to military to college at 24, building a business outside her degree field), her current house-hunting heartbreak, and choosing her marriage over her "forever home." Hannah gets honest about her health goals, her financial timeline, and the starter home she's lived in for over a decade waiting on a "someday" that keeps moving.

We dig into:

🩷 Why the timeline was never really ours to begin with

💙 How social media highlight reels warp our sense of "on track"

💜 The difference between letting go of a goal vs. letting go of the deadline

✨ Why your priorities shifting isn't the same as falling behind

🔥 Building your own "tribe," even a long-distance one, so you have somewhere to say "this sucks, help me work through it"

This one's shorter and a little less planned than usual, because honestly, it needed to be said out loud.

Reflection question: What's one thing you thought you "should" have done by now that you're ready to let go of? Drop it in the comments, we'll go first. 👇

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Have you ever felt like you were missing something but couldn't quite name it? In this episode, we sit down with Lynda Leonce, authenticity and parenting coach, to talk about the difference between the "mind-made self" (the version of us built on fear, obligation, and people-pleasing) and the real self underneath it all.

Lynda shares her own journey from a stable tech career into coaching, the moment she chose honesty over comfort even without knowing the outcome, and the flashlight analogy that changed how she sees focus and attention. We talk about how this shows up in relationships, parenting, and those everyday moments when we feel small or stuck, and why the shift always starts with turning the light back on ourselves.

It's only when we fully allow ourselves to put and keep the focus on ourselves that things start to shift for the better. 💜

About Lynda:
Lynda Leonce is an authenticity and parenting coach. Have you ever felt like you were missing something but couldn't figure out what? In her work, Lynda guides women in connecting to the part of themselves they've longed for all their life.

Grab Lynda's free resource: Five Tips for Inner Alignment
Five Tips For Inner Alignment.pdf

Connect with Lynda:
🌐 Website: www.livefromyourtruth.com
📸 Instagram: instagram.com/livefromyourtruth
🎥 YouTube: youtube.com/@LiveFromYourTruth
📘 Facebook: facebook.com/livefromyourtruth
🎵 TikTok: tiktok.com/@livefromyourtruth
💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lynda-leonce
✉️ Email: [email protected]

Connect with Go-Getter Gals:
📘 Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561190723548
📸 Instagram: @go_gettergals
🌐 Website: https://go-gettergals.com/
🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and anywhere else you tune in
📍 Join us in person in Dothan, AL. at Mural City Coffee on the 2nd Thursday of every month, 5:30 PM — always free!

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Pam and Hannah get real about outgrowing the version of themselves who started their businesses — and why that's not a problem to fix.

Hosts: Pam Barnes & Hannah Cox

Key Takeaways

• Most businesses are born out of a season of life — a need, a chip on your shoulder, or a life stage — and that season isn't permanent.
• Feeling unmotivated or resistant toward your business isn't laziness; it's often a sign you've outgrown the version of yourself who started it.
• Separate your business's "core" (your values, who you serve, why you started) from its "shell" (offers, pricing, brand voice) — you don't have to burn it all down to evolve.
• The fear of changing publicly is normal, but the people who matter will grow with you.
• You're allowed to outgrow something you built with your own hands — it's not betrayal, it's growth doing its job.
  

Timestamps

• 00:15 — Intro to today's topic
• 02:21 — Identifying the person who started your business
• 08:50 — Noticing the shift: signs you're changing
• 12:47 — The guilt of changing publicly
• 19:57 — Core vs. shell: what actually has to change
• 27:09 — Letting the new version of you lead
  

Links

• Join a GGG meeting: Enterprise (1st Tuesday) or Dothan (2nd Thursday) — always free (details on the FB Page)
• Facebook Page: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561190723548
• Sign up for our monthly newsletter to stay up to date on what's upcoming in Go Getter Gals (link)
• Join the GGG Online Community waitlist — launching January 2027 (Link)
  
  Where in your business are you protecting the shell instead of the core? Drop a comment, send us a DM, or bring it to the next meeting — we'd love to hear it. And if this one hit home, subscribe so you don't miss what's next. 💜

The conversation covers a range of topics including starting a wedding venue business, challenges and learning in the business, supporting a spouse and decision-making, creativity and event coordination, personal growth and time management, motherhood and parenting challenges, potty training and parenting wins, self-confidence and motivation, building a business and empowering women, and defining legacy and impact.

Takeaways

• Starting a business with a baby is possible
• Self-confidence and motivation are essential for personal and professional growth

The conversation delves into the concept of nostalgia and the idealization of past versions of oneself, exploring body image, energy changes, friendships, and the importance of loving and embracing the present self. It highlights the need to fact-check nostalgic memories and create feelings of freedom and lightness in the present, while also celebrating the past and looking forward to the future.

Takeaways

• Nostalgia and the idealization of past versions of oneself
• Embracing and loving the present self

The conversation covers the unique origin of the name 'Michael' and the challenges faced by individuals with unique names. It also delves into the journey of entrepreneurship and the specific challenges faced in the real estate industry. The conversation delves into the reality of entrepreneurship, highlighting the loneliness and challenges faced. It then explores the importance of creating and implementing effective systems in business. The discussion concludes with a reflection on legacy and the everyday impact one leaves behind.

Takeaways

• Unique name origins
• Challenges of entrepreneurship Entrepreneurship Loneliness
• The Importance of Systems
• Client Relationship and Advocacy

The conversation delves into the pressure to be perfect, the impact of judgment, and the importance of finding a supportive community. It explores personal confessions, the need for growth through connection, and the creation of a supportive community for women to share their experiences and celebrate wins.

Takeaways

• Growth through connection
• The pressure to be perfect
• The importance of finding a supportive community

The conversation covers the transition from fitness to lifestyle coaching, the business journey, empowering women to take up space, guilty pleasures, personal growth, and overcoming self-limiting beliefs. Key takeaways include the importance of identity work, building confidence, embracing imperfection, personal growth for better relationships, and stepping into purpose.

Takeaways

• Identity work is crucial for intrinsic motivation
• Building confidence through exercise and self-care
• Embracing imperfection and enjoying life
• Personal growth and self-improvement for better relationships
• Overcoming self-limiting beliefs and stepping into purpose

The episode explores the importance of rest and the different types of rest that women need. It delves into the challenges women face in prioritizing rest and the signs that indicate the need for rest. The conversation also covers practical strategies for achieving physical, mental, and sensory rest. The conversation explores the importance of different types of rest for women, including sensory, emotional, social, and spiritual rest. It emphasizes the need for women to prioritize these forms of rest to support their well-being and overall health.

The conversation begins with an introduction to Go Getter Gals and the importance of everyday gals' involvement. It then transitions into a discussion about the transition from running a business to subbing, followed by a detailed exploration of a passion project: the Book Buddy app. The conversation then delves into the hosts' guilty pleasures and hobbies before concluding with a reflection on defining legacy and the legacy one hopes to leave behind.