This message examines how American culture often undervalues family connections in pursuit of career advancement and personal achievement. Drawing from Harvard's Study of Adult Development and research on end-of-life regrets, we discover that deep family relationships—not professional success—lead to lasting happiness and fulfillment. Scripture provides clear guidance on this balance: 1 Timothy 5 shows that caring for family is essential to Christian practice, while Matthew 10 reminds us that our love for God must come first. The concept of 'addition by subtraction' offers practical wisdom for creating space for family by intentionally removing less important activities from our schedules. With powerful illustrations including a jar of marbles representing limited time with loved ones, this message challenges listeners to evaluate their priorities and make intentional choices about how they invest their time and energy. Whether you're struggling with work-life balance, navigating complex family dynamics, or seeking to honor God while maintaining healthy family relationships, this message provides biblical wisdom for establishing proper priorities: God first, family second. Perfect for Christians seeking practical guidance on family relationships, work-life balance, biblical priorities, Christian parenting, spiritual growth, and faith-based decision making.