Raul and Vivian are still going strong through the quarantine. On today’s episode, the two discuss ways to create a deeper connection in a relationship.

A partner has the power to uplift or bury the other, but what is the point where you should be dependent on your partner and where should you be able to stand on your own? Raul talks frankly about one of his lowest points in his life, and how Vivian’s reaction to bad news shaped him for years to come.

Raul and Vivian close with three things you can do to forge a deeper relationship with your partner.

The pandemic has impacted everyone. But not everyone has been impacted the same way. In this episode of The God, Money, and Passion podcast, Raul and Vivian discuss the ways in which the pandemic has affected them individually, as a couple, and as business owners.

Both Vivian and Raul came down with COVID-19, and are still recovering from the illness. Vivian has had ongoing but mild symptoms, and Raul went through a severe case, but has recovered fully. 

The crisis has reminded them of or brought into focus many things that we take for granted or don’t pay enough attention to. In this episode, you will learn what this crisis has exposed for Raul and Vivian, and how they are taking this opportunity to come back even stronger.

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The pandemic has impacted everyone.

But not everyone has been impacted the same way. In this episode of The God, Money, and Purpose podcast, Raul and Vivian discuss the ways in which the pandemic has affected them individually, as a couple, and as business owners.

Both Vivian and Raul came down with COVID-19, and are still recovering from the illness. Vivian has had ongoing but mild symptoms, and Raul went through a severe case, but has recovered fully.

The crisis has reminded them of or brought into focus many things that we take for granted or don’t pay enough attention to. In this episode, you will learn what this crisis has exposed for Raul and Vivian, and how they are taking this opportunity to come back even stronger.

On this episode , Vivian and Raul give you a peek into their bedroom as they reveal the secret to the best sex in your life: Having a great connection with your partner. The best way to have a great connection with your partner is to start by being in touch with the different personalities within yourself.

 

The side of yourself that you choose to show someone else is your persona. At the office, you can have the dark warrior persona, at the dinner table, you can have the King and Queen persona or the Mother and Father persona. In the bedroom, you can have many personas, from the temptress who takes charge to the schoolgirl who approaches cautiously then lets go of her inhibitions and immerses herself in the moment.

 

You can explore these different sides of yourself if you have a partner who is accepting of who you are and is able to communicate his or her needs.

 

By watching this episode, you’ll learn how to tap into the different sides of yourself and make a deeper connection than you’ve ever had before.

 

If you have questions for Raul and Vivian to discuss on an upcoming episode, email [email protected]. Thank you for your kind support in this difficult time.

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GMS Podcast returns after a break due to technical glitches in order to unpack a serious issue:

The death of Raul’s father, “Papi” Raul. Papi Raul had lived with muscular dystrophy for twenty years, and was told he would likely die young. At the age of 54, Papi Raul suffered a heart attack and was rushed to the hospital over Thanksgiving weekend. Papi Raul’s heart stopped beating and started again over 15 times in the emergency room, something the doctors there had never seen before. But, although he had his entire family cheering him on, and his wife literally begging him not to go, Papi Raul taught Raul his final lesson: Fight as hard as you can, but know when it’s time to finally give up.

 

On this episode, Raul and Vivian talk about their experience saying goodbye to Papi Raul, and looking back fondly on the impact he made in the lives of those around him. Raul lets the audience in on how the pain of his father’s loss has already made him stronger, and how he plans to deal with that pain for the rest of his life.

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After taking a week off so Raul could teach a boot camp, the God, Money & Sex podcast is back. In this episode, Raul and Vivian discuss how difficult it is for men to be vulnerable. As men, we have been conditioned to not ask for help, and to armor yourself in order to go into battle. But that armor becomes isolating, and ends up becoming a barrier to connecting with your partner, with your friends, and with God. 

Men have a tendency of overcompensating for being a strong lion at work, by being a weak pussycat at home because they don’t know how to balance their own needs and their partner’s needs. Women also have a tendency to stay in a nurturing, mother energy, even in situations when it’s appropriate to bring out the temptress state and let loose. As a result, a relationship can get stale and an unspoken frustration seeps in. The best way to deal with this is to have clear conversations to set a strategy to meet an expressed (not tacitly understood) goal. Both partners have to take responsibility, but there is no upside in complaining or blaming.

1:55 Let’s get started

3:05 What happens when one partner decides to grow

4:55 Men put on emotional armor

6:10 Vivian gives advice for men who walk around with armor on

7:34 Why do men wear armor?

9:45 Do you want to win a game?

11:06 You can’t just wing it in a relationship

11:25 Take ownership 

12:22 It’s easier to be mad at someone who wronged you than to be mad at yourself for making mistakes

13:50 The Warrior wants to go to battle. The King wants what’s best for the kingdom. Which one are you at that moment?

14:55 The different feminine energies: the mother, the temptress, 

17:11 When we become aware of what our energy is, can you change your state?

17:48 Parents and pet parents have less sex because parents are in the nurturing energy

21:35 If it isn’t a dog, it will be some other distraction

22:24 How to win back your wife

23:10 The biggest lesson of this episode

24:27 No one prepares us for relationships and marriage

25:33 The best is yet to come

Marriage Success Tips: Gratitude v.s. Positivity Gratitude is different from positivity. In this episode of the GMS Podcast, Raul and Vivian give their definition of what the difference is between positivity and gratitude. Gratitude is a part of your brain that needs to be exercised. You can do this by taking a moment every day to journal what you have and what you’re grateful for. Another way to do this is to volunteer and help other people who have less than you. Positivity can mask a lot of emotions. It’s only on the outside, so you put on a brave face or you tell yourself that everything will work out later, but you aren’t doing the inner work that it takes to appreciate what you have. So positivity always runs out. The inner work starts when you focus on yourself what what you can change.

Why do men and women argue? Is it possible to have conflict but still have a good relationship? Do men and women really argue differently?

This podcast will answer all of those questions and more on this episode of God Money & Sex. Raul and Vivian Villacis discuss conflict in relationships as they break down in detail an argument from early on in their marriage. The argument, a miscommunication about what Vivian wanted from Raul when they were running late for a party, encapsulates everything that leaves men confused and women still angry long after the inciting incident has passed. They revisit the incident in in spirit knowing now what they have learned in their twenty years of marriage.

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My wife and I have started our second season of the God, Money & Sex Podcast.

To set your mind at ease, I will tell you right now, that we are not going to be preaching about how you should love God, talk about getting rich, or go into graphic details about our sex life.

 

Instead, I want to explain what each of these words mean for us, which should give you an entry point into our show.

 

God, for us, means acknowledging that there is something out there beyond your understanding. It can be God, it can be the universe, it can be vibrations, energy, anything you want it to be. I’ve been in the same room with the Dalai Lama, I’ve meditated with monks and have been in church for years. It doesn’t matter what you believe in as long as you believe in SOMETHING GREATER than YOU.

 

GOD for me is PURPOSE and LOVE.

 

Money is the exchange of value you bring to the marketplace.  It gives you the opportunity to create an IMPACT.

 

Being an entrepreneur is not easy. You have to motivate yourself, otherwise your business will fail. The money is the byproduct of success, but it rarely is a motivator.

 

 And sex, for us, means connection. Like everything else in life, a good relationship doesn’t mean it’s easy, it means it’s worth it. We struggle all the time, but when we do, we always find the next level in our relationship. That connection gets deeper every day, but only if you work at it.

 

GOD, MONEY and SEX are what drives most of our ACTIONS.

 

Our intention in this podcast is to share our experiences so we can create and IMPACT through our mistakes and insights.

 

I hope you join us.

Raul and his wife Vivian Villacis host the God, Money & Sex podcast, a business and relationship focused discussion forum that shares insights into what it takes to be a successful businessman while maintaining balance in your intimate relationships. You can have it all and Raul is the man who can help make it happen for you.

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