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In this deeply moving episode, I interview Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, a nonprofit that helps us transform how we teach children respect and character. Jill's ministry wasn't born from success. It emerged from her "wonderfully difficult" season when her college sweetheart walked out after 20 years of marriage, leaving her with 12-year-old twin sons entering middle school.
For two years, Jill prayed Scripture, consulted Christian counselors, and believed with unwavering faith that God would restore her marriage. She had a circle of friends who prayed with her. She knew God hated divorce. She was doing everything right. But the day came when her husband married someone else, and Jill faced a crisis of faith that overshadowed even losing her marriage.
That night, crying in bed after her sons tucked her in, Jill realized something profound: she was more afraid of losing her faith than of losing her husband. Through tears, she told God, "I accept your no—not because I'm okay with this, but because I can't lose you. You are my everything."
The next morning—Mother's Day—Jill woke up and ran down the hall singing the "wake-up song" she hadn't been able to sing in two years: "Oh, it's a bright and beautiful day, God made it special that way." Her sons' eyes flew open: "Mom! God put the song back in your heart!"
Four years later, standing in an Albertsons grocery line (while giving God the silent treatment), Jill saw a magazine article about the disappearance of manners and had her epiphany—this was her calling.
Key Takeaways:
God never X's anything out—He redeems it - Every experience, good and ugly, God uses to prepare us for our purposeThrone confusion leads to brokenness - When we idolize people or things above God, He must break our hearts to rebuild them correctlySelf-respect, not self-esteem - The 60-year focus on building self-esteem has destroyed society by turning eyes inward instead of toward GodHearts harden by age 13 - The impressions made on children's hearts before age 10-13 determine whether they have rock-solid foundations or hardened, broken hearts needing redemption"Wonderfully difficult" seasons - The most painful times bring the deepest intimacy with God and preparation for future ministryThis episode offers hope for anyone walking through divorce, struggling with unanswered prayers, or wondering how God could possibly use their broken past. Jill's story proves that what feels like devastating loss is often God repositioning us for greater purpose.
May God touch your heart today, my friend.
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