Going (Not Too) Deep
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  • Ep 41 - Fire and Desire Pt.2 (This is the Remix)

    Ok, first things first.... 
    We know Pt. 1 was rough (definitely a reflection of last week).
    But, thank yall for rocking with us, and this week, call us Ciara because we leveled up!

    So, if last week was a bit too much (we get it, sis), listen to this week! We recap some of the best points from Pt. 1, and continue the conversation on desire... like how to create it and get it back.

    So, get into it y'all. 
    This is the Remix.

    Like what you hear? 
    Engage with us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast or email us at [email protected].

    1 hr 9 min
  • Ep 40 - Fire and Desire

    After a week of not power, no heat, and no cell service, we cranked out the first episode of our new series - The Sex Talk Your Mama Never Gave You.

    To kick it off, we discuss the first thing that makes you realize your sexuality is real  - Desire. We've all experienced it, but where does it really come from? And what's it really mean? And how are you supposed to handle it? Or handle a lack of it?

    Get into this new series with us as we kick it off with something that's been around forever - fire & desire.

    (Please bear with us. We had some audio issues this episode.)


    Want to know more about our podcast? Follow us @goingnottoodeeppodcast on Instagram or email us at [email protected].




    1 hr 1 min
  • Ep 39 - Initiation
    This has been one of our most asked questions since we've started...

    Owning your sexuality can sometime mean taking charge.
    We're talking initiation.

    It may not be  Valentines Day anymore, but it's always a good time to learn about ways to initiate with your spouse.
    Listen in to hear our spectrum of "soft" and "hard" ways to initiate intimacy.


    Want to know more about our podcast? Follow us @goingnottoodeep on Instagram or email us at [email protected].

    51 min
  • Ep 38 - It's Our Anniversary!

    Someone cue up Tony! Toni! Toné! because it's our Anniversary!

    Y'all, it's been 1 year since we launched this podcast. Can you believe it?!

    We're kicking off Season 3 with some catch up and reflection...as well as our thoughts on the show that had the whole Internet talking during our sabbatical.

    Get into it and celebrate with us!

    References:
    Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski - Book and Workbook

    Want to know more about our podcast? Follow us @goingnottoodeep on Instagram or email us at [email protected].

    54 min
  • Unplugged With Phillip (Think Like A Man Bonus)
    We have one more bonus during our Season 2 Sabbatical - real, unplugged conversation with our first male (non related) guest of the series - Phillip. Listen in to our raw convo with him after the original recording stopped, and get even more insight into what the dating world is like when you think like a man.
    17 min
  • Ep 37 - MasturBait
    It's the last episode of 2020, Freaky Friends - and we wanted to leave y'all with one of our most requested topics for the Single Series: maturbation. We go where the church usually won't and answer all the questions they usually don't, like...Is it wrong? Will I go to hell if I do it? Is it ok if it's keeping me from having sex? How can I explore my body/sexuality without going too far? We address the "elephant in the room" (insider for our long term Freaky Friends) in this last episode of the year!Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to our listener family. Thank you for making us a part of this memorable 2020!! Continue to engage with us during this holiday break on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast or email us at [email protected].
    1 hr 7 min
  • Ep 36 - When the Wait Gets Weighty
    It's been 84 years...We brought back our girl Fredrica to talk more about how to cope when your single season is going longer than you ever imagined. If you recall, Fredrica waited until she was in her 40s to get married and, subsequently, have sex for the first time. In this episode, we tackle how to handle feeling some type of way when it's not your turn and when you get to the point of either trust God or settle. Contact our guest Fredrica at [email protected]. Want to know more about our podcast? Follow us @goingnottoodeep on Instagram or email us at [email protected].
    1 hr 46 min
  • Ep 35 - Think Like A Man
    Freaky Friends!Y'all asked, and we answered! Cue our first male guest of our single series - Phillip. We got real as we probed into the mind of a single, celibate Christian man to ask all your questions - from dating a virgin, to shooting your shot, to when to bring up celibacy, to how to navigate a relationship while doing it God's way.Get into it!Connect with our guest Phillip on IG @dj.couragous on IG. And connect with us on our social media! Follow us @goingnottoodeeppodcast and email us at [email protected].
    1 hr 20 min
  • Ep 34 - The Blueprint to Boundaries
    We've been talking about abstaining from sex all throughout out Single Series. But, that's impossible without boundaries. In the last episode before the Thanksgiving holiday, Trece and Ash kick it solo to discuss boundaries as it relates to singleness and life.Connect with us @goingnottoodeeppodcast on IG or by email at [email protected],
    59 min

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Everyone is talking about sex...except for Christians. And if they do, it's some version of "sex is for marriage", sex creates "soul ties" or... the progressive church who talks about sex for married…