Resources Mentioned in the Episode:

Uncovering Intimacy Website - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/

Introduction into Talking Dirty - https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/shop/introduction-talking-dirty/

Connect with us through email or social media!

Email - [email protected]

IG - @goingnottoodeeppodcast

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends! 

We are nearing the end of our sabbatical, but not without dropping the highly anticipated throw-it-in-the-bag, let's-talk-about-it, fun and freaky episode that we promised all season 1.  

Trece and Ash recorded this episode a while back (pre-quarantine), but the laughs, topics, and gems are still just as relevant.   

• Get This Off My Chest - Motivation Tips (This is so relevant now that it's scary!) 
• Topic of the Day - Trece and Ash give their thoughts on everything freaky: from oral to anal, from sex furniture to sex toys, from role play to making a movie... and everything in between. 
• Talk Dirty to Me - One of our freaky friends wants to know, "Is it ok for a married couple to watch porn?" 
• Throw It Back - Fun and Traffic Lights 

Enjoy this last drop before the new season. And get ready freaky friends! We're coming just as raw in Season 2 -  pun slightly intended!

Resources with this episode: https://marrieddance.com/pillow-talk/

Stay connected with us on our sabbatical! Follow us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast and email us at [email protected].

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!

We hope everyone is safely enjoying their summer. Even though Going (not too) Deep is on sabbatical, you KNOW we wouldn't leave y'all all this time without SOMETHING!

Starting this Christian sex podcast has been A JOURNEY, so this  episode we're throwing it all the way back to where we first started. 

Listen to the different lessons Trece and Ash learned over the last 21 episode in this bonus episode - Throw it Back: 21 Lessons and Blessings.

Get into it!

Stay connected with us on our sabbatical! Follow us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast and email us at [email protected].

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!
 

Can you believe we're at the end of Season 1?!

To close out the season, Trece and Ash wanted to celebrate by doing a full show of the Q&A segment, Talk Dirty to Me, LIVE on Instagram  with their Freaky Friends. 

They answered questions about relationships, sex, and even personal questions. It's just the right mix of soul care, sex, and laughs that will keep us until Season 2!
 

Stay engaged with us during the season break!
 Connect with us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast or by email at [email protected].

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!

We're ending our Intimacy Series this week with a topic that ties everything together - physical touch. Because, let's face it, it's hard to have maximum intimacy (or sex) with the physical. So, let's get into it!
 

• Get This Off My  Chest - Seeing things in black and white v. seeing them in shades of grey... and jury duty chronicles.
• Topic of the Day - Physical Touch
  • Today, we talk about the differences between sensuality and sexuality and discuss how to live everyday sensually. This ties into this week's challenge which is to discover something new that feels good to you, and (if applicable) share it with your spouse. Then, in true Going (not too) Deep fashion, we take it back to the basics of physical touch and give tips on how heightening your senses can improve your sex life. Finally, we have some real life advice on what to do when physical touch becomes an afterthought in your relationship.
• Throw It Back - It comes down to: Intentionality and Awareness

Got a question for the Talk Dirty to Me LIVE on Sunday, June 28th at 8 pm CST?

Email us your questions at [email protected] or DM us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast.

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!

Trece and Ash are doing a full episode of Get This Off My Chest because, sis, there's A LOT to get off. 

They talk everything from the history of suppressing women's power  through sex, to waiting seasons, to corporate America's failure for black people, to generational education and trauma, to the importance of self care and checking in, and so much in between. 

Enjoy this full episode of getting all this off their chest!

To engage with Going (not too) Deep Podcast on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast or through email at [email protected].

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!
 

We got another takeover episode this week; this time with Ash and J. We're in week 2 on relationships as we wrap up our Intimacy Series, and this week's topic is one that anyone can relate to  - conflict. 

Let's get into it:

• Get This Off My Chest - With the world's ears finally open to the black narrative, it can be exhausting to keep having to relive black trauma. So, J and Ash give their thoughts on how they can be a part of the solution moving forward and for future generations. 
• Topic of the Day - Conflict
  • J and Ash discuss how they have grown to handle conflict, and discuss different examples of overcoming it during dating, engagement, marriage, sex, and parenthood. 
• Throw It Back - Honesty, Direct Communication, and Reciprocity will go a long way, and prayer is always the answer.

What are some examples of conflict with your partner during your current season of life?

Let us know! DM us @goingnottoodeeppodcast or email us at [email protected]

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends! 

It's been a week.... 

We could all use a mental break, so here we go. We're getting to the tail end of our Intimacy Series, and our last topic is relationships. 

So, in a fun twist, James & Trece took over the podcast to talk about one of the key foundational items needed for a healthy relationship.  

Let's get into it: 

• Get This Off My Chest - The year of our Lord 2020 is shaping up to be real ghetto... but God is still undefeated. 
• Topic of the Day - Communication 
  • Trece and James break down the ins and outs of communication. They share with us the healthy habits they learned through the different seasons of their relationship (from dating to marriage to parenthood), and share how great communication and great sex go hand in hand. 
• Throw It Back - In regards to marriage, prioritize communication in the first year, and be intentional with time spent with your spouse. 
• Challenge for the Week: Find mutual ground with your spouse (This means no screen time!). 

What questions do you have for the podcast? Send them to us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast or email us at [email protected].

Happy Tuesday Freaky Friends! 

This week we're going to the next level in the Intimacy Series and talking about the mind - more specifically, mental health. It's the perfect way to close out Mental Health Awareness Month. So, let's get into it! 

• Get This Off My Chest [6:06] - Trece out here in these Quarantine streets, and Ash is letting go of her false sense of obligation. 
• Topic of the Day [28:01] - Ash gets vulnerable as she shares her mental health story - from her family's history to her own journey. This begins a discussion about the importance of addressing mental health in regards to  your spirituality, personality, and sexuality. 
• Throw It Back [1:13:59] - Take Ownership of your story and it's ok to not be ok. That's it. Period. 

What are your thoughts on this week's episode? 

Let us know! Email us at [email protected] or engage with us on IG @goingnottoodeeppodcast