Going (Not Too) Deep

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends! 

We got another installment of our What to  Do When series, and this time... we're talking to the parents! 

When you think of sex after kids, what comes to mind? Chances are, you think it sucks... and not the good kind of suck! But it doesn't have to! 

We got practical advice to help get the juices flowing again after a kid... but don't at us if you end up pregnant again!

Check the breakdown:

• Get This Off My Chest - Are you as forgiving of yourself as you are for others? We're learning to chill & mother ourselves, chile!
• Topic of the Day - What to Do When.... You Have Kids
  • Check your thoughts - Self fulfilling prophecy is real, y'all!
  • It's All About You - How do you start feeling like yourself again?
  • You're Not Alone -  What role does your partner play in sex after kids? 
  • Communication - It's more important than ever!
  • "My Body Ain't the Same!" - We say that's a beautiful thing! How can you adjust to the new you?
  • Get It Poppin' In the Pantry - Sex after kids is about creativity and intentionality
  • List them Resources, Sis! - You know we're all about resources here. We give tips for new moms and name some books that helped make childbirth and parenting a bit easier for us
  • Dealing with PPD - Signs to look out for and tips on how to deal
• Talk Dirty to Me - No Dirty Talk this week. We pick back up next week!
• Throw It Back - Pray and Prioritizing Self

Resources Mention in the Episode:

Supernatural Childbirth   by Jackie Mize

Supernatural Childbirth Prayer  by Jackie Mize

Moms on Call Basic Baby Care (0-6 months) by Laura Hunter

Shein Lingerie 

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends! 

Trece and Ash are back with another What to Do When episode and  this one is DEFINITELY needed.  

Let's face it, things can get a little stale every so often (remember the HGTV or sex scenario?). And even if it's hotter than a Texas August in your bedroom right now, girl, you can always level up, right?  

We got resources, techniques, and even some Jesus to help us out. 

Check the Breakdown: 

• Get this off My Chest - Is there a difference between having sex and making love?
• Topic of the Day - What to Do When.... You're Bored With Your Sex Life
  • Is this even normal?
  • List them resources, sis.
  • What's your inbox looking like?
  • How do you level up foreplay?
  • What does mindfulness and affirmations have to do with anything?
  • How'd Ayesha Curry get involved in this? She's innocent.
  • Praying for your sex life?! Nah, fr.... Can you really do that?
  • And, what's a Christian Sex Store?
• Talk Dirty to Me - What are reasons people struggle with emotional intimacy?
• Throw It Back - The arch game is strong on this one. We throw it all the way to a full circle.

Click on the links for the resources mentioned In the show: 

Ultimate Intimacy App 

Love Nudge App 

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Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friends!

Ya'll, we're kicking off a new series today called "What to Do When..." and this is one everyone can relate to.... What to Do When You Have a Past.... cause, let's face it -  we all have a past.

And we brought in some specials guests to help us out with this one - The Williams' Guys! 

Check the breakdown:

• Get This Off My Chest - How do the Williams Guys feel about their wives doing a sex podcast?
• Topic of the Day - What to Do When....You Have a Past?
  • The Williams Guys share their sex stories
  • How soon into dating should you bring up your sexual past?
  • Is there a such thing as being too honest about your past sexual encounters?
  • How do you deal with the feeling of competition against your partner's past relationships and lovers?
  • How do you deal with repressed sexual memories?
• Talk Dirty  to Me - A special submission from one of our male listeners!
  • Does love truly make a difference in how sex feels to a woman?
  • What makes sex amazing to a woman?
• Throw It Back - We let the Guys catch it, but  we all throw it back.

Got any questions for the Williams' Guys? Send them to us!

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Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friend!

Today, Trece and Ash are talking about using sex.  Some ways are good. Some are not so good. 

Here's the breakdown: 

Get This Off My Chest - It's the last week of Black History Month! How unapologetically black were you today? Do you feel you have a safe space at work where you can  be your full authentic self? Well, we have thoughts.

Topic of the Day - There are some good ways to use sex. There are some not so good ways to use sex. We breakdown a few of each. 

NEW SEGMENT ALERT! Talk Dirty to Me - FIRST Q&A segment - and we're kicking it off with two good ones! 

1. How do you tell your partner you're not being satisfied without putting them down?
2. How freaky is too freaky with your spouse?  Are there sexual limits in marriage?

Throw It Back -  You got to have the right mind, body, and soul to use sex properly. And use sex to lubricate your marriage.

Have you used sex in any of the ways we talked about? Let us know!

Engage with us on IG: @goingnottoodeeppodcast 

Happy Tuesday, Freaky Friend!

A famous quote says, "If you don't know the purpose of a thing, abuse is inevitable."

So, today's episode is all about the purpose of sex!

Why was it created? 

What is a soul tie? Is it real? 

How do you get the most out of sex? 

We talk about all these things in today's episode!

Here's the breakdown:

Get This Off My Chest - If women can't have it all, why can men? We say... NAH.

Topic of the Day - The purpose of sex can cover A LOT of things. We're using books, resources, and the Bible to understand. Once  it's broken down though, we give tips on how to get the most out of it - including how to deal with  sexual memories of the past.

Throw It Back - It all boils down to 2 things, sis: Exploration and Ownership

Church can make the purpose of sex too deep, sometimes. So we promise to talk about it but not go TOO deep!

What are some questions or tips you have for the podcast? 

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Hey Freaky Friend!

Welcome back! We basically go together now...

Today's episode is EVERYTHING.... No, really.... It's everything this podcast is about. God is not mad at you!

Here's the breakdown:

~ This week's "Get This Off My Chest" involves a question from a freaky friend about music in the bedroom. Is getting turned out to some Tank too secular...or is that just too deep?

~ Topic of the Day - God ain't mad at you, sis. So no one else has the right to be...not even yourself. Hold your head high because there is no guilt or shame in Christ. 

~ Throw It Back - We didn't throw it back this week, but we dropped it and left it all on the floor. When you listen you'll understand.

Get ready to go deep on this one, sis...but not TOO deep!

What's was your Throw It Back for this episode? Let us know! Engage with us on IG: @goingnottoodeeppodcast and let us know!

Hey Freaky Friend!

Welcome to the first episode of Sex Talk: Going (Not Too Deep) Podcast!

We're about to have an honest and candid conversation about sex from a Christian perspective...but first, we gotta lay some ground work!

Today, Trece and Ash talk about how and when they were first introduced to sex, the impact it had on them, and how it's gotten them to where they are today. 

This episode is broken down into 3 segments:

~Get This Off My Chest

~Topic of the Day

~Throw It Back

So, come get naked with them as they share their sex story!

They about to go deep...but not TOO deep!

What's your sex story? Let us know! Engage with us on IG: @goingnottoodeeppodcast and let us know!

How can you love Jesus and love sex? 

How are you supposed to wait until you're married to have sex when you want it all the time? 

How can you be freaky with your husband when you're brainwashed to think sex is bad? 

How come when it comes to sex The Church doesn't talk about it...and when they do, they make it too deep? 

Well, Trece and Ash are gonna talk about it ALL and more on Sex Talk: Going (Not Too Deep) Podcast every Tuesday starting 2/11.

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