This week on the Good Egg Podcast, we’re mapping the many layers that make you… you.
We’re calling it your Personal Identity Constellation — a way of looking at identity not as one defining label, but as a collection of systems that explain how you think, act, relate, protect yourself, and love.
We often talk about astrology or personality tests like Myers-Briggs, but those are just a few stars in a much bigger sky. As longtime BuzzFeed quiz enthusiasts (no shame), Jasmyn and Michelle dive into the many frameworks humans use to understand behavior and connection — from psychology and attachment theory to numerology, archetypes, communication styles, and spiritual models. Some of these systems are scientific, some symbolic, some spiritual, and some cultural — but all of them offer language for self-understanding.
Important note: we are not experts. This isn’t about putting yourself in a box or chasing the “right” identity. These systems are mirrors, not definitions — tools for compassion, awareness, and curiosity, not cages. None of them are you; they simply highlight patterns you tend to return to.
In this episode, we walk through our own charts and break the full constellation down into five digestible categories:
✨ Core Self — your innate patterns, motivations, and ways of thinking
✨ Behavior & Communication — how you act, react, and relate when things get real
✨ Energy & Archetypes — internal drives, rhythms, and survival patterns
✨ Relationships & Intimacy — how you bond, what you need, and what you attract
✨ Life Purpose & Meaning — how values, work, and direction take shape over time
This is a big topic, and we’d love to do deeper dives (and bring experts on) in the future. For now, consider this an invitation to explore identity with more flexibility, less judgment, and a lot more curiosity.
Because you’re not one thing — you’re a constellation. ✨