In this quick update, I announce a short break from Good Enough Day with Ray until November 4th due to a busy work week and an upcoming vacation.

During this brief pause, I invite you to revisit past episodes, whether it's catching up on missed conversations or reliving favorite moments. With so many great episodes already available, there's plenty to explore and enjoy.

Thank you for your support and I look forward to returning refreshed and ready with new content. Tune back in on November 4th for the next episode!

In this episode of "Friday Five," I share a mix of things that stood out to me this week.

From a budget-friendly water flosser that upgraded my dental routine to a soothing bedtime yoga practice, I cover some practical favorites. I also recommend the thrilling audiobook *None of This is True* by Lisa Jewell, which kept me hooked from start to finish.

For a useful tip, I talk about the benefits of flipping your mattress every six months. Lastly, I dive into my thoughts on *Love is Blind* Season 7 and why this season's drama felt off.

Water Flosser on Amazon

None of This is True By Lisa Jewell

Yoga with Adriene Bedtime Yoga

In this episode, I talk about how self-improvement can sometimes be unhealthy for those who struggle with codependency, like myself. Instead of fostering genuine growth, it often becomes a way to seek validation, fix others’ happiness, and avoid rejection.

I share how this mindset led me to ignore my own needs, take on too much responsibility, and fuel a harsh inner critic. Through therapy, I’ve realized that trying to "fix" myself to control everything around me only reinforces unhealthy patterns.

I hope this episode encourages you to recognize that while self-improvement is valuable, it’s important to set boundaries and remember that not everything is yours to fix.

In this episode, we explore how the busy structure of American life makes healthy eating an exhausting challenge. Even with the best intentions, deciphering food labels and researching safe ingredients feels like an extra job on top of work, family, and self-care. Unlike countries such as France, Sweden, and Norway, where strict regulations ban many harmful additives and simplify food choices, the U.S. allows ingredients that are linked to health concerns. This highlights the need for systemic change, pushing for clearer food labeling and better regulations that prioritize well-being. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to strive for progress, not perfection, while advocating for a healthier, more supportive food system.

In this episode, we explore the idea that fixing your home doesn’t mean you have to lose your sanity in the process. Using the quote, "Fixing yourself won’t fix everything, because everything is not yours to fix," we discuss how household tasks can feel overwhelming when the responsibility isn’t shared.

Many of us take on the burden of cleaning alone, but delegating tasks to others is key to maintaining both a tidy home and peace of mind.

We'll talk about how to communicate expectations, let go of control, and encourage family members to contribute. The episode emphasizes that a tidy home is a shared responsibility, and sharing the load can protect your mental well-being.

In this Monday Mindset, I discuss how my addiction to self-improvement stemmed from a desire to control everything around me, thinking I was the problem in every situation.

Society often pushes hyper-independence, encouraging us to believe that if we just do more or improve ourselves, everything will fall into place. I share how this mindset led to burnout and the realization that I was using self-improvement as a distraction from accepting that I can’t control others.

Through therapy, I’ve learned that I’m not the only factor in my problems and that constantly trying to fix myself won’t fix everything. This week, we’ll explore areas where we might be taking on too much responsibility and how to find a healthier balance.

Journal Prompts for Self-Check Sunday:

1. Physical Health:

What did I do this week that made my body feel good? How can I plan to add more of those activities next week?

2. Mental Health:

How did I take care of my mind and emotions this week? What can I add to my routine next week to feel more calm and centered?

3. Hobbies & Creativity:

What hobby or creative activity brought me joy this week? How can I plan to spend more time doing things that inspire or excite me?

4. Relationships:

How did I connect with others this week? What can I do to add more meaningful moments with loved ones or friends in the week ahead?

5. Finances:

What financial decision or habit made me feel secure or content this week? How can I plan to build on those positive habits next week?

6. Planning for Joy:

What is one small thing I can add to my life next week that will bring me joy or help me feel more balanced?

7. Overall Reflection:

What did I do well this week that I want to celebrate? How can I continue adding more of what makes me feel good without worrying about perfection?

In this episode of Good Enough Day with Ray, I share five things that caught my attention this week in our Friday Five roundup.

I talk about an eye-opening YouTube video on emotionally immature people, highlighting traits like avoiding criticism and boundaries.

I also mention my current go-to, Bare Bones Beef Bone Broth, for its gut health benefits and added protein boost. There’s a fun TikTok-inspired cucumber salad recipe that’s simple and customizable. Plus, I share my current song obsession, *Pink Pony Club*, and wrap things up with a quirky fact about charging our phones.

Detaching From Emotionally Immature People with Dr. Lindsay Gibson Video Link

**Cucumber Salad Recipe:**

- 1 cucumber (cut into rounds, then quartered)

- Soy sauce

- Spicy mayo

- Sriracha

- Everything bagel seasoning

- Chili paste

- 1 packet of pink salmon

- ½ cup of imitation crab

- Optional: ¼ to ½ cup of rice for added carbs

In this Therapy Thursday episode, we’re talking about something we all tend to overlook—scheduling mental health check-ins.

Life gets busy, but if you don’t take time to ask yourself, “How am I really feeling?” stress, anxiety, and burnout can sneak up on you.

Ray shares simple ways to build self-awareness with daily or weekly check-ins, helping you spot emotional red flags before they spiral out of control.

It’s like creating a personal maintenance plan for your mind, so you’re better prepared to manage life’s challenges with clarity. Tune in to learn how these small, intentional moments can have a huge impact on your mental wellness.

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In this Wellness Wednesday episode, we explore the importance of planning rest and recovery to avoid burnout and maintain overall wellness.

Ray shares personal experiences with overwhelm and how failing to schedule real rest impacted physical activity, nutrition, and mental clarity.

By prioritizing rest, we can stay consistent with exercise, make healthier food choices, and restore mental focus.

The episode highlights how planning downtime prevents the shame cycle of "not doing enough," especially for those with mental health challenges like PTSD, anxiety, or ADHD.

Listeners are encouraged to schedule rest as a key part of their wellness journey, remembering that "if you fail to plan, you're planning to fail."