I’m not a funeral director and neither are you. Unless you are. Anyway, a lot goes into planning a funeral so let’s talk about all the choices we need to make and how we can make this as painless as possible!

Mentioned in the episode:

https://theamateursguide.com/2024/06/10/how-to-plan-a-funeral/

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Have you ever lost someone you worked with? It’s a complicated grief to be certain. Let’s talk about it.

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I had a beautiful conversation with a lovely human. Steff Glallante shares her story of losing her father just a few short months ago. Her grief is new and raw and she was so brave to share this with us. You can find Steff on her website: http://www.steffgallante.com/ and on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/steffgallante/

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Welcome to Season 2!! So happy to be back! What does death positive mean? And why does it sound so icky? Spoiler: IT’S NOT! We’ll dive into what this movement is and what is means to be ok with death.

Mentioned in the episode:

https://theamateursguide.com/2024/04/21/nobody-likes-dealing-with-death/

https://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/death-positive-movement/

deathcafe.com

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I had a hilarious conversation with my new friend Steve Case. CONTENT ADVISORY; CURSING AHEAD!

Steven Case is that snort-laugh you hear at the back of the church during the prayer on Sunday morning.

A 30 year veteran of youth ministry, speaker, workshop leader, and writer Steve Case can interpret the musings of a 17th Century Monk, create moving monologues based on God's closest encounters in the scriptures or create laugh-out-loud fart jokes in ways that would make any back-row church lady scowl.

You are allowed to laugh and you are allowed to pray and these two things need not be at odds with each other.

Steve Case is available for workshops, keynotes and conferences to speak to groups of all ages on humor and the scriptures. Feel free to shoot him an email at [email protected]

He's also on Instagram @Eyes_up_with_Milo

You can find his books here:

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No worries, I'm not going anywhere! But some changes are coming.

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I had a great conversation with Cleo on her use of poetry to navigate her grief over the loss of her mother to Alzheimer’s at only 28 years old. You can find Cleo here:

cleochilds.com

Cleo Childs is releasing her spoken word poetry album "Moving With" on May 15th. This album will be the culmination of two and a half years of writing about the journey of grief she experienced after losing her mom to Alzheimer's when she was 28 years old. Her mother was an English major in college and her grandmother, who is also one of her editors, was an English teacher for 30 years so she came by her grief processing tool of writing poetry naturally. With this spoken word poetry album, she hopes to show the path her grief took from having her mother, losing her mother, and the peace and acceptance she feels now. She also hopes to give an authentic and honest look at what her grief felt like so other people going through grief don't feel alone and feel community in their grief.

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A very happy Mother's Day to you.

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We know dogs feel grief, but so do many in the animal kingdom. But the grief of elephants is broad and complex. Let's dive in!

https://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/17/science/elephants-mourning-grief.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ku_GUNzXoeQ

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A couple of death doulas have recently been challenged on their work. What does that mean for the rest of us?

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