Being a follower of Jesus includes God's work to transform our lives, inside and out, to reflect the life of Jesus, inside and out. When we think about discipleship, or we plan and program for "discipleship" we often think of content, creeds, theology, knowledge, and a bit of serving as well. But what about the discipleship of our hearts, of our emotions? Perhaps we have a shallow experience of God and the Gospel because we do not attend well to matters of the heart, especially in regard to grief and loss.