Gotta B Me

In this episode, we’re joined by two of our youngest brothers, Isaac and Jesse—the passionate, rough-and-tumble, competitive duo who love to think deep, speak loud, and lead strong. From hilarious childhood memories to serious reflections on finding their voice as young African American men, we dive into what it means to grow up, speak up, and stand up for the next generation.

This episode dives into the Wilmington Massacre of 1898 — when armed white supremacists stormed a thriving Black community, burned it down, and overthrew a legally elected government. It was the only successful coup in U.S. history — and yet, most of us never heard a word about it in school. That’s not by accident. We’re calling out the systems that whitewash history and digging into the truth they don’t want taught. Buckle up — this is the history lesson they never wanted you to hear.

Link to the Wilmington Massacre Documentary    • American Coup: Wilmington 1898 | Full Docu...  Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-Racism     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  

In this episode, we girls sit down to unpack the powerful messages and emotional moments from the movie Sinners. We share how it challenged our perspectives, stirred our hearts, and sparked meaningful conversations. Join us as we reflect on what Sinners meant to us—and maybe, what it could mean for you too.

In this episode, we share how we wrote our life stories in just three days—not to impress, but to prove our calling to teach through the transformative process of ALECtion. More than a clever play on “the chosen one,” ALEC stands for Acknowledgment, Love, Engagement, and Cultivation. Join us as we break down each step, reflect on our breakthroughs, and motivate you to step into your own chosen path.

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with our Auntie as she shares the powerful story behind founding her business, Negasi. Through deep personal loss, a path of healing, and an unwavering hope for the future, she transformed pain into potential and purpose. Tune in to hear how resilience, faith, and vision led to the birth of a brand rooted in legacy and love, and oh so much food.

In this episode, we dive into the transformative value of leaving your comfort zone as a young person and stepping into the world. We explore the impact of working abroad, immersing yourself in new cultures, and experiencing life through the lens of others. Whether you go to be of service or simply to expand your life experience, you’ll often find that you’re the one who grows the most. From expanding your worldview to challenging your assumptions, this conversation unpacks how foreign experiences can shape your identity, relationships, and sense of purpose.

Join us three girls as we spill all the wild, hilarious, and life-changing moments from our intense 3-week boot camp! From sweat and struggle to growth and grit, we’re sharing the real, unfiltered journey—because every crazy minute was absolutely worth it.

In this episode, we dive into the importance of stepping out in faith and boldly running with the blessings God has bestowed on us from day to day. Not surprisingly, we got pretty animated and passionate about our respective stories 😁, but at least you know we mean it. 

We would love if you felt free to share your testimony, inspiring others, and reminding us all that our journeys—no matter how different—can be powerful tools of encouragement and hope.

In this heartfelt episode, Gotta B Three — Sophia, Payton, and Camille — break down each other’s personalities and look back on the wild, emotional, and unforgettable ride of the past few years. From tears to laughter, this conversation dives deep into the bonds of family, growth, and the stories that shaped them. Expect raw emotion, inside jokes, and moments that’ll make you feel like you’ve known them forever.

In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable but essential truth: conflict is necessary for progress, for honesty, and for resolution. But in many spaces—especially ones shaped by white supremacy—conflict is seen as dangerous, divisive, or even unnecessary. We explore how the fear of conflict is not just personal discomfort but a systemic tool to maintain control, silence dissent, and uphold the status quo. We break down how running from conflict is a subtle yet powerful manifestation of white supremacy culture—and what it looks like to choose the harder path of truth, discomfort, and real change.

Curious about who we are and why we dress this way? Check out our videos where we cover those topics!   • Anti-Denominationalism Because…Anti-R...     • Why We Dress Like This...AGAIN  00:00-3:15 Conflict: Good or Bad? 3:15-7:15 Human Reaction to Conflict7:15-9:52 Conflict in Relation to America9:52-13:06 Refuse to Separate13:06-17:58 Selling out & White Supremacy17:58-19:33 SHOUTOUT Top Commenters!!