GoWinOut Podcast

On episode 19 of the GoWinOut Podcast we sit down with DJ Kmil, a native of New Jersey. He tells us about his growing pains as a new DJ in the Charlotte market, dealing with gatekeepers and being left out of certain venues for his reputation as a fierce turntablist.  He tells us about his experience dealing with incidents in regards to disagreements with owners and other DJs while performing at gigs, being taken advantage of by owners and promoters early on in his career, a contentious confrontation with hall of fame basketball player Allen Iverson and intimidating other DJs with his talent. He also is the first DJ to showcase a routine on the GoWinOut podcast.

On this episode of the GoWinOut Podcast we interview Brandon Mosely, aka Just Bman NoDJ. He is a very talented DJ who has also spent time in music production, creating beats for some of your favorite artists like the Diplomats. He is also a very talented creative in the space of creating remixes and edits for other DJs. Bman also tells us some wonderful stories about how he built his network by partnering with some of the most well known DJs and artists across the world, including DJ Jazzy Jeff and Quest Love.

Join us for a laid-back yet inspiring episode as Juliet shares her incredible journey from Charlotte nightlife to a promising career in healthcare administration. 🚀 We talk about her days hustling as a bottle girl at 4800, Harold’s, and Marquee, dishing out behind-the-scenes stories about the club scene, hookah culture, and the challenges of working in North Carolina's nightlife. She explains how these experiences shaped her confidence and resilience, leading to her pivot into healthcare. 

We also discuss her life as a mom of three, including a wild story about delivering her baby on the couch (yes, you read that right!), and how she’s balancing family life, fitness goals, and pursuing a degree in healthcare administration. Shouts out to the Charlotte club family, her best friend Tanisha, and all the milestones along the way, from promotions at work to DJing unforgettable events. 

Whether you're here for the sensational tea, the relatable hustle, or the heartwarming moments, Juliet’s story is sure to motivate and entertain. Don’t forget to follow her at J_Jewelz on Instagram and stay tuned for more real talks and good vibes. Like and subscribe to keep up with the GO podcast! 🎉

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - How does it feel to be a new mom again
01:17 - What's your new baby's name
02:34 - Were you still working in nightlife when you started your pregnancy
03:49 - How long was the delivery for you with this one
06:27 - Tell us about the time you delivered your baby on the couch
08:19 - How did you like working at 4800
12:03 - How You Got Into Nightlife
12:58 - What You Liked About Working at 4800
19:06 - 4800 Reunion Party
23:26 - Bri
29:31 - Harolds Chicken
42:50 - Growing up in New Orleans
45:50 - Second lines
48:20 - Your first Mardi Gras
50:44 - Music Quiz
57:50 - Marquee
1:02:21 - Your Biggest Pet Peeves About Being A Bottle Girl
1:04:30 - Alibi
1:06:56 - Fitness
1:10:33 - Tanisha’s Party
1:15:08 - Your Best Friend’s Party
1:16:30 - What’s Next for Juliet
1:17:49 - Outro

During this episode we get to know DJ Bloc, a long time veteran DJ of 30 years with roots in Flatbush, Brooklyn. We talk about his time growing up and learning how to DJ under his two older brothers, primarily doing dancehall block parties in Brooklyn. We also talk about his transition to Charlotte upon making a career change and seeking a better place to live for his growing family. He also drops valuable gems and advice for younger DJs who are coming up on the scene. We also take a tour on discussing the elements and nuances of Caribbean music in comparison to other international music genres such as Afrobeats and Amapiano.

In this special episode, Porshe and I come and record an episode after a night out in the city, with a plus one (Kayla) whom she met the day before. On this episode, we have fun talking about nightlife and dating here in Charlotte in comparison to other cities. We also have a little fun role playing and making some jokes. We get to know a little bit about both Porshe and Kayla personally right before the alcohol begins to get the better of them both LOL. 

During episode 14 we sit down with Joseph Isaiah AKA Big Suede, a Charlotte based DJ who hails from Raleigh, NC. Big Suede takes us on a journey in life through the ups and downs, telling us how he eventually landed himself on the pathway to being a Mogul, making imprints in Music, Film and Fashion. 

Big Suede is also promoting his latest music project called "Mafia Music Vol. 1" on all platforms, featuring other up and coming artists from the Carolinas such as Baby Simba.

After tragically losing his mother in early October of 2024, Big Suede has taken a much needed reset in 2025 and is now poised to take over the world with not only music, but also his fashion line by his own name "Joseph Isaiah". Listen in as we say "Welcome to the World Tour" and take a journey with Big Suede. 

From hustling vending machines to spinning tracks at Charlotte’s hottest spots, DJ Alexander’s grind is unmatched! In this episode of the Going Up podcast, we dive into Alexander’s journey—starting with his early days in Indian Trail and Charlotte, where he learned to hustle hard with ventures like bounce houses, vending machines, and carpentry, before stepping into the vibrant club scene as a DJ. He shares how his upbringing influenced his ability to mix genres like reggae, afrobeat, and classic hits, making every party unforgettable. 

We also talk about Charlotte nightlife, his connection to iconic venues like Westin Tavern and Cloud, and his experiences DJing strip clubs like Onyx and Flirt. Plus, hear how he’s building up Gastonia’s nightlife with a new lounge, Aura, coming soon! Shouts out to Stress DJs, Champagne, and his creative partnerships that keep him plugged into the North Carolina club scene. 

DJ Alexander explains how being a father fuels his hustle and how he balances multiple gigs while staying true to his entrepreneurial roots. Whether it’s setting the vibe at R&B Wednesdays or running bounce house rentals, this episode is packed with inspiration for anyone chasing their dreams. 

Follow DJ Alexander @alexanderthedj 

For episode 12 I have done my first solo episode with no guest. As the first episode of 2025, this podcast reflects on my experience getting the podcast started up until now. I go through my top 10 reflections and lessons learned from this experience.

For episode 11 I sit down with Tee a.k.a The Energy Goddess, a Carolina Native and veteran of all things regarding nightlife.

Coming off of a turnt-up holiday weekend with the family, we kick-off discussing her formative years with her family in Charlotte and later in rural Mooresboro, NC.  She explains how she was a very active and curious adolescent, often landing herself in trouble and causing her to move around to live with different family members growing up all of which molded her persona and motives today. We talk about her experience in artistic endeavors and sports early on and how that affected her trajectory in life, ultimately prepping her for how to move around in nightlife spaces.

Tee is a self-proclaimed black hippie, so we talk about experiences experimenting with drugs, particularly marijuana. We also talk about black cowboy and rodeo culture and parties, which are popular in North Carolina towns such as Boiling Springs, where you can enjoy some great barbecue and some serious line dancing.

We also talk about the rules, culture and state of nightlife in Charlotte, NC from a workers perspective, particularly how it could be very "clique-ish". Now that she turned 30 she is trying to put some distance between herself and the nightlife scene after having experienced a lot in the streets.

She tells a funny story about how she got into a fight with club security at Imperial this year and ended up injuring her foot, requiring her to wear a boot for a while.

She talks about her time in college Winston-Salem State University where she studies mass communications, with a concentration in Radio, after initially trying to attend Clark Atlanta University. I take time to reflect on a similar story of my own experience with trouble finding funding when I initially got to school but I was able to overcome thanks to a guardian angel I met at school who helped me with some advice. 

She spent some time interning in radio production during school before getting into nightlife. She did most of her initial networking through radio work where she learned to "Keep her ears to the streets but her lips out of it". She also had some light music aspirations, being able to rap on a JetsonMade beat.

Her first foray into nightlife was as a dancer in college before serving as a bottle girl in Greensboro, NC.  She talks about how competitive and intimidating it can be working in the strip club. She talked about how she travelled for work to different states, even going as far as the US Virgin Islands. She also walks us through a typical night on how much money she would make and how it would flow in.  She also comments partnering with other dancers.

She also commented on her experience as a bartender, but more extensively as a hookah girl. We talked about some of the nuances and history around hookah culture and some of her hookah pet peeves.

She talked about some of her favorite cities to turn up in, namely Houston, TX, and shouts out some of the venues that she put in a lot of work with, mainly West End Tavern, Tatooz & Booz and Bliss.

During this episode we get to know DJ Jaylo who is one of the hottest club DJs out here in Charlotte, NC. He starts off by telling us how he got started DJing by practicing underneath his uncle and cousins on vinyl records and turntables in 2019 after getting laid off as a mechanic. He is from Greensboro and lived in Fayetteville before moving to Charlotte where he was inspired to DJ after seeing a celebrity DJ perform live for DaBaby.

Jaylo also has built his foundation in music and rhythm through his time on the drumlin in the marching band during his high school years. We talk briefly about his starting set-up, using a Hercules controller with Virtual DJ and eventually switching to Serato after getting some feedback from other DJs in the community.

One of the first things Jaylo focused on improving when starting his DJ career was making sure he gets booked in the club frequently every week and he emphasizes the importance of relationship. He goes even deeper on this topic and talks about how he has been "back doored" and betrayed by other DJs, promoters and venue owners in the city. His lesson for the podcast from this situation is for DJs to establish solid relationships with their promoters and for the promoters to trust their DJs.

We shout out some of the promoters and DJs that he works along with in the New Carolina DJ group based here in Charlotte, NC and some of the specific ones who have mentored him over the years.

We talked about the evolution of his identity as a DJ through name changes over the year, eventually landing on Jaylo, with the popular tagline being "We Love You Jaylo" and the meaning behind each of our DJ names.

We also talk about DJ rates here in the city and how it all depends on the venue. We also talked about his journey to better hosting as a natural introvert as a result of DJing for celebrities at concerts, including artists like Key Glock, BigXthePlug and Bossman DLow.