We all celebrate the hero who puts their life on the line for someone else. But we also expect others to put us first, bend to our will and meet our expectations. Why is that? Jesus has a lot to say about the life you can have if you choose yourself, but he calls us to live for much more than our own desires. We know what we get if we are the center of our own universe, but what would life look like if we truly denied ourselves, picked up our cross, and followed Jesus?