Thank you all for listening! I hope you enjoyed and maybe even found some tidbits of your own that you can take away (or some timbits - the Canadian donut - idk).
To my future self, here are some quick reminders:
- Focus on friendship- being a faithful, loving and encouraging friend
- You’re now at a place of awareness which is a great step to growth but don’t forget where you want to be- at a place of being a loving, encouraging and kind friend to all of the young men in your life.
- Your desire (of emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy within the covenant of marriage) should not trump your love for people. Love as God loved.
- Controlling and managing the fire of this desire is not meant to be done on your own- trust that God will help you and guide you.
- It’s easy to love people when it’s convenient or beneficial for you, but it’s hard to sacrifice you desires in order to love someone else the best you can. Meaning you may have to sacrifice the crush you have on someone if it means you can love them better by viewing them as a brother in Christ. That you way you respect and honor them as the young man they’re created to be rather than the young man you want, hope or expect them to be for you.
Grace and peace to you all! I love you! :)