Most people (Christians too) live thinking that we're mostly okay, but just need a little bit of help every once in a while. The confronting thing about Christianity is that it says that we are 'dead in sin'.
Christianity says that we don't just need a little help every now and then, we need to be brought back to life. The good news is that there is a God who moves towards us with love, mercy, grace and kindness in Jesus to bring us from death to life.
SCRIPTURE: Ephesians 2:1-10